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charideslayer00

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Okay so i have this boyfriend Brandon and I have had a crush on him for like ever...And its totally heaven being his girl but he has notta to do wit me...He walks wit me in the halls and talks to me and occasionally holds my hand...But thats like....Not hardley.And i know he likes me, but sometimes i wonder...Is he ashamed of me?Dont say ask him about it...Cause im scared to share how i feel...But its like im not cool enough...What do i do?
 
Omg!weird!I was just in this prob. last week!Thats mad!
Okay heres what i did, and trust me..It worked for me...

Well first no he wasnt embarrised of me...And i felt like you do now...So chances are he isnt embarrised of you!But since he is "too good" then just leave him alone...If he talks to you, then talk to him too...But dont act needey!Dont push!And dont hang on his moves...He will come around..Atlease chris did...I dunno...what do you other ppl think?(i am still wondering what went on in his head to even ask me out then not hang with me...)Maybe we need a boys prespective on this...
 
He *IS* a guy, if you have been friends for long, he might be completly oblivious to the fact that you are a girl and in fact datable. We are stupid like that. Best thing to do is tell him, give him some time and then confront him.
 
Yeah I agree with the first part of Allycats post. He *IS* a guy.
I can't make it much more clearer. I myself don't know why we cheat on girlfrineds, wifes, boyfriends lol, but I do know its dumb. I blame all our faults on hormones.

I hate to say it but mayeb hes 'drifting away'. Humans are too complex to get me started, but there may not be any reason why he's 'not more into you'. Its probobly changes hes going through.

If your worried, just wear something slutty. That will bring him right back!
 
Ok, just my two cents as the 24 year old married chick that has been faced with WAY too many dysfunctional relationship issues...
Ok, I for one am not into games...well, not THESE types of games...😛 If your going to be in a relationship in hopes that it will go ANYWHERE then you need to have some basic level of comunication. If you two are actually BOYFRIEND and GIRLFRIEND you need to find time to pull him aside and talk to him about what you are to him and where he is in the relationship. Honestly, if he isn't mature enough to be having that conversation then he isn't mature enough to be in the relationship. You don't have to be all smothery when you do it just sit acroos from him and don't make accusations. Just state your feelings about it in a calm and collected manner and then give him room to talk back with you. But keep eye contact. Eye contact is important. And don't let him get away with just "Um, yeah, everythings cool." that is not comunicating. If he really likes you he'll make the effort.
 
Zander, not Xander. and why shouldn't she follow your advice? It sounded pretty good...unless your joking around.
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sorry ZANDER!But she shouldnt follow it because yesterday me & chris(the guy) broke up....Ive been devistated!

But i dunno maybe it has nothing to do with my advise.Maybe he got something like a horse up his butt!
 
See! Thats why I stay away from girls. not saying its your fault or anything, but relationships just end up in the crapper. Or most fo them.

For people like Rayne. HOLD ONTO WHAT YOU'VE GOT!

I myslef wouldn't mind a relationship, but I want it to be created over something solid. You know like me saving the girls life. or families life. or even her dogs life!

Thats pretty stable, right?

and Angel-babez01, don't worry theres others out there. But remember if your not gay, then your dealing with A GUY, ok? so maybe put a leash on your next BF or something. Maybe do the dominatrix thing, I don't know, depends on your age.
 
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