Right there with ya.
I do agree that women do abuse men sometimes and that it's not okay. I watched a clip of the Dr. Phil show the other day...about a woman who abused her husband who was in the army. The comments were so sick. Some people claimed to know her and they said, "He's not as innocent as they're making him out to be. He cheated on her." So...he deserves to get slapped around for cheating? If a man abused his wife for cheating, people would call him a monster. I find it horrible either way. I think most people find it worse when a man hits a girl because of the whole "women aren't in control of their emotions" crap. A woman can slap a man because she's on the rag or she's just too emotional, but if a man does, he's a bastard who deserves to be locked up. No one has any right to hit someone! I don't know. If a woman pushes a man away from her in disgust or while they're fighting (as in arguing), that isn't seen as abuse. She's just upset. If a man does it, it's horrible. I do agree that men are typically stronger than women, and that a man should be aware of his strength and just back off. I would expect a woman who is a body builder who is dating/married to a man who is not as strong as she is...to do the same.
Society is warped.