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I think maybe that's more a gay thing than a gender thing

What does that mean...? Why is it a gay thing? Why is it gay for a boy to like pink but it's not gay for a girl to like blue? And why would someone assume their son is gay, simply for liking a color? It all goes back to gender. If a guy acts feminine or if he's sensitive, he must be gay because "real men" don't act that way. That's unfair, and it's BS that society tries to force upon everyone. Also I'm not attacking you, I see what you're saying and you're right. Some dads get freaked out if their son plays with Barbies but they wouldn't care if their daughter played with a hot wheels car, and for the most part it has to do with them being afraid that it'll make their son gay, or it means that he is. But the question is...why does "girl stuff" = gay? I mean some boys who play with dolls are gay, but my friend's little brother used to love them and he's not. It's just a silly fear that I believe is based in gender inequality.
 
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I am incredibly against the idea of certain things being 'male' or 'female' or 'straight' or 'gay'. I hate the idea that certain sports and interests are associated with genders. Would you say that enjoying watching and playing football makes me any less female or any less straight? How about me wearing dresses, heels and makeup? Does this make me any more female or straight?
 
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What does that mean...? Why is it a gay thing? Why is it gay for a boy to like pink but it's not gay for a girl to like blue? And why would someone assume their son is gay, simply for liking a color? It all goes back to gender. If a guy acts feminine or if he's sensitive, he must be gay because "real men" don't act that way. That's unfair, and it's BS that society tries to force upon everyone. Also I'm not attacking you, I see what you're saying and you're right. Some dads get freaked out if their son plays with Barbies but they wouldn't care if their daughter played with a hot wheels car, and for the most part it has to do with them being afraid that it'll make their son gay, or it means that he is. But the question is...why does "girl stuff" = gay? I mean some boys who play with dolls are gay, but my friend's little brother used to love them and he's not. It's just a silly fear that I believe is based in gender inequality.

This might be the perfect paragraph on this topic 🙂. You're right, there is this absurd yet very real perception among a lot of people that if you're a guy and into traditionally feminine things or whatever, then you must be gay, which is still seen as this horribly evil thing. The comment you made about "real men" not doing those types of things is completely correct. But the underlying message there is that if a guy isn't a "real man" then he's like a girl, and that's "bad". Which is exactly the point of this thread, and answers the original question. That perception right there makes it pretty clear, to me at least, that there is still a very real need for feminism. It's absolutely based on gender inequality. Girls who play with traditionally "male" toys aren't scolded or frowned upon because subconsciously it's almost "better" to be a boy in a lot of people's eyes.

As for the perception of being gay being linked to being feminine, I think Hollywood plays a big part in that. Even today, there are so many characters on T.V. and in film that are little more than gay stereotypes and just reinforce the same crap negative thinking over and over again. Kurt on Glee is a perfect example. In so many instances, gay characters aren't shown as real people, they're just shown as cardboard stereotypes where the only defining characteristic about them is that they're gay. And that's just stupid. More gay characters, like Renly Baratheon on Game of Thrones, who are actually shown as real, strong and competent people, are needed, big time. No one should underestimate the impact that movies and T.V. have on general thinking, especially in the Western world.

Oh, and [MENTION=12129]Nazel[/MENTION], your comment about me being on a Buffy forum made me laugh, and was pretty accurate. If I was a girl, I think I'd be a lot like Buffy lol 🙂
 
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"But the underlying message there is that if a guy isn't a "real man" then he's like a girl, and that's "bad". " Exactly!
This might be the perfect paragraph on this topic 🙂. You're right, there is this absurd yet very real perception among a lot of people that if you're a guy and into traditionally feminine things or whatever, then you must be gay, which is still seen as this horribly evil thing. The comment you made about "real men" not doing those types of things is completely correct. But the underlying message there is that if a guy isn't a "real man" then he's like a girl, and that's "bad". Which is exactly the point of this thread, and answers the original question. That perception right there makes it pretty clear, to me at least, that there is still a very real need for feminism. It's absolutely based on gender inequality. Girls who play with traditionally "male" toys aren't scolded or frowned upon because subconsciously it's almost "better" to be a boy in a lot of people's eyes.

Seriously! Why is it seen as bad in our society to be feminine, or a girl? Well girls are often portrayed as being weak and irrational...why would anyone want to be seen that way? Today my mom brought out my little sister's black Toms to give to her friend's son. The Toms are black with skulls on them. Both of the kids are 2 years old. My dad and my mom's friend were like, ''No! He can't wear those!" because they looked girly. I was soooo annoyed and confused. Then my sister put on my dad's hat and no one cared. But if my mom's friend's son had started carrying his mom's purse...his dad wouldn't like that, I'm sure. It sucks, ugh.

As for the perception of being gay being linked to being feminine, I think Hollywood plays a big part in that. Even today, there are so many characters on T.V. and in film that are little more than gay stereotypes and just reinforce the same crap negative thinking over and over again. Kurt on Glee is a perfect example. In so many instances, gay characters aren't shown as real people, they're just shown as cardboard stereotypes where the only defining characteristic about them is that they're gay. And that's just stupid. More gay characters, like Renly Baratheon on Game of Thrones, who are actually shown as real, strong and competent people, are needed, big time. No one should underestimate the impact that movies and T.V. have on general thinking, especially in the Western world.

I don't watch Glee so I'm not sure how Kurt is portrayed. I mean I think it's okay if a gay character is "flaming", because guys like that do exist, but when gay guys are portrayed as weak that's really irritating. I remember my ex history teacher had a discussion with her class about how Abe Lincoln might have been gay, and kids were freaking out saying, "If that's true, other countries/leaders will see us as weak.'' and my teacher told me she felt like crying. Gay automatically = weak and girly in a lot of people's eyes and that sucks. I mean you can be a stereotypical gay guy who is strong and tough. One of my mom's gay friends loves musicals, glitter, and unicorns hahah but he's also really athletic. So yeah, characters should definitely have layers.

And you're so so so right, movies and television have a huge impact on the way people think and see themselves. The media controls us all...for the most part. I feel as if characters are *still* really two dimensional in movies and television. So many people feel as if they're weird, or like they don't belong in this world because they're not some carbon copy of everyone else, and if there was a television show or a movie that gave everyone a voice by having real characters of all shapes, sizes, mindsets, sexual orientations, religions, cultures, nationalities and ethnicities...that would just be so amazing. For the most part, characters on t.v. and in film just seem to be total caricatures of real people. They just lack substance. Ugh. To be fair I don't watch a lot of t.v., and there are some great movies that accurately portray human beings, but not enough in my opinion.
 
As for the perception of being gay being linked to being feminine, I think Hollywood plays a big part in that. Even today, there are so many characters on T.V. and in film that are little more than gay stereotypes and just reinforce the same crap negative thinking over and over again. Kurt on Glee is a perfect example. In so many instances, gay characters aren't shown as real people, they're just shown as cardboard stereotypes where the only defining characteristic about them is that they're gay. And that's just stupid. More gay characters, like Renly Baratheon on Game of Thrones, who are actually shown as real, strong and competent people, are needed, big time. No one should underestimate the impact that movies and T.V. have on general thinking, especially in the Western world.
I'm sorry but I have to disagree, stereotypes exist for a reason, & gay men ARE generally more feminine than straight men, I have tons of gay friends and yes even the most masculine one of them has some feminine traits or at least tastes, I'm gay myself & although I'm not feminine physically or in my behaviour, I do have certain feminine-like tastes that like 99% of straight guys don't have .. It's just a reality, gay & straight brains are different & in my opinion trying so hard to prove that gay people are not really feminine IS misogynist, as if you're saying that sharing female attributes is bad ..

Although I have to admit Kurt in a catsuit dancing to Single Ladies was just painful to watch 🙁
 
I'm sorry but I have to disagree, stereotypes exist for a reason, & gay men ARE generally more feminine than straight men, I have tons of gay friends and yes even the most masculine one of them has some feminine traits or at least tastes, I'm gay myself & although I'm not feminine physically or in my behaviour, I do have certain feminine-like tastes that like 99% of straight guys don't have .. It's just a reality, gay & straight brains are different & in my opinion trying so hard to prove that gay people are not really feminine IS misogynist, as if you're saying that sharing female attributes is bad ..

Although I have to admit Kurt in a catsuit dancing to Single Ladies was just painful to watch 🙁

I think you misunderstood me (or I didn't explain well enough). My point wasn't that it's "bad" to be feminine, anyone who's read my past posts can see that I don't think that. My point was that typically in Hollywood, gay characters aren't just portrayed as feminine but also as weak or incompetent, and that the only thing worth mentioning about them is that they're gay. That to me, is wrong. THAT is what's misogynistic. When so many gay characters are created in Hollywood, showing them act like girls is meant as a sign of weakness (which is just ridiculous). That is what I was saying.

And as for stereotypes, they bug me. All they are is society conjuring up roles and expectations for people based on what they often can't control. I mean, are all Asians bad drivers? Are all Jews greedy? Of course not, but that's what the stereotype is, and that's wrong. To judge someone based on a broad and often dated stereotype is stupid. I mean, example: I'm really into traditionally girl-targeted pop music. Britney Spears, Katy Perry, Kesha, I'm a big fan. So if you were to judge my sexuality based solely on that, you'd think I was gay. I'm not. Right there, that proves that stereotypes can, and often are, be just silly. I'm not saying that stereotypes are never true, but to assume something about someone based on stereotypes is wrong. I hope I'm making sense here.
 
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I'm really into traditionally girl-targeted pop music. Britney Spears, Katy Perry, Kesha, I'm a big fan.
Haha funny you should say that! Usually when I want to find out if a dude is gay or not, I just check their Facebook page, if they like 2 or more popstars, I put a check mark next to their name lol ..

But seriously, I am with you completely when you say stereotypes shouldn't be generalized, but you can't ignore them either. You can't say "all male fans of Katy Perry & Britney are gay", but you can say that most of them are, because statistically speaking it's true, yes there are exceptions, and you are clearly one, but it doesn't mean that we should completely erase stereotypes off our minds cause there's a chance they might not be true ..

I think it would be better to change the way we judge people based on a stereotype .. I mean for example, if I tell you "oh you like Katy Perry you must be gay", if it offends you, it means that you are the homophobe not me, cause you're the one who thinks that being called gay is an insult, my stereotyping would've been completely innocent. I don't know if I'm being clear I've always had a hard time expressing my opinions 😛

Ps : Wow a fan of Buffy AND Britney? We could be best buds haha!
 
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@Fredikins had captured my response perfectly. And yeah, love Britney. You should see my CD rack. Every Talor Swift album too lol
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Exactly, generalizing is a useful tool, but we all acknowledge that they can never be 100% correct.
Haha funny you should say that! Usually when I want to find out if a dude is gay or not, I just check their Facebook page, if they like 2 or more popstars, I put a check mark next to their name lol ..

But seriously, I am with you completely when you say stereotypes shouldn't be generalized, but you can't ignore them either. You can't say "all male fans of Katy Perry & Britney are gay", but you can say that most of them are, because statistically speaking it's true, yes there are exceptions, and you are clearly one, but it doesn't mean that we should completely erase stereotypes off our minds cause there's a chance they might not be true ..

I think it would be better to change the way we judge people based on a stereotype .. I mean for example, if I tell you "oh you like Katy Perry you must be gay", if it offends you, it means that you are the homophobe not me, cause you're the one who thinks that being called gay is an insult, my stereotyping would've been completely innocent. I don't know if I'm being clear I've always had a hard time expressing my opinions 😛

Ps : Wow a fan of Buffy AND Britney? We could be best buds haha!

I wouldn't blame him for being annoyed that someone would assume he's gay for liking Katy Perry. Guys have accused me of being a lesbian for playing video games...and I called them out on it. Obviously I could care less if someone asked me if I was a lesbian, I'd just tell them "no" I'm not going to get offended, but it ticks me off when people assume something about me just because I'm interested in something that most guys like. Buttt maybe that's just me.
 
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This is exactly what I meant. To a "T".
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Haha funny you should say that! Usually when I want to find out if a dude is gay or not, I just check their Facebook page, if they like 2 or more popstars, I put a check mark next to their name lol ..

But seriously, I am with you completely when you say stereotypes shouldn't be generalized, but you can't ignore them either. You can't say "all male fans of Katy Perry & Britney are gay", but you can say that most of them are, because statistically speaking it's true, yes there are exceptions, and you are clearly one, but it doesn't mean that we should completely erase stereotypes off our minds cause there's a chance they might not be true ..

I think it would be better to change the way we judge people based on a stereotype .. I mean for example, if I tell you "oh you like Katy Perry you must be gay", if it offends you, it means that you are the homophobe not me, cause you're the one who thinks that being called gay is an insult, my stereotyping would've been completely innocent. I don't know if I'm being clear I've always had a hard time expressing my opinions 😛

Ps : Wow a fan of Buffy AND Britney? We could be best buds haha!

But the very fact that you are putting a label on someone (like their sexual orientation) based on the limited information you have is insulting, not the label itself. I guess my problem would be with assumptions, just taking for granted that something is true when it may very well not be. Suspecting is a different thing from being certain of. Like when you say that you check their Facebook pages for whether they like pop stars that girls traditionally like, and just immediately assume they're gay... that's taking something for granted.
 
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I wouldn't blame him for being annoyed that someone would assume he's gay for liking Katy Perry. Guys have accused me of being a lesbian for playing video games...and I called them out on it. Obviously I could care less if someone asked me if I was a lesbian, I'd just tell them "no" I'm not going to get offended, but it ticks me off when people assume something about me just because I'm interested in something that most guys like. Buttt maybe that's just me.

Yes, I understand what you're saying, I think it also depends on who says it and how .. For example being Arab it doesn't bother me that other Arabs just assume that I'm Muslim, although I'm not & never will be, just because it's true that the vast majority of Arabs really are Muslim & they're not used to people choosing not to be, but when I visited America a year ago, I once was ordering something with pork & this dude I don't even know tells me "Oh Muslims eat pork now?" I could've punched him right in the face, it was so irritating that he would just assume I was Muslim just cause I told him where I was from, but if he said "Oh so you're not Muslim? or do you just not care?" that would've been fine ..

But the very fact that you are putting a label on someone (like their sexual orientation) based on the limited information you have is insulting, not the label itself. I guess my problem would be with assumptions, just taking for granted that something is true when it may very well not be. Suspecting is a different thing from being certain of. Like when you say that you check their Facebook pages for whether they like pop stars that girls traditionally like, and just immediately assume they're gay... that's taking something for granted.
True, but if I'm checking their Facebook page it's cause I already have doubts, and the popstars thing just confirms it lol, but still I can never be sure 100% & I don't assume anything & I keep my doubts to myself ..
 
I'm just going to throw in my two cents on the whole stereotypes and masculinity issue. Dear god do I hate this view that its wrong for men to be sensitive, or cry, or like "girly" things, etc. I've said it before and I'll say it here these gender stereotypes are oppressive to men and women. Do men have advantages in our society? Yes and that needs to change, but men are oppressed by these rules as much as women.

To give my personal example, I'm very emotional and sensitive, I got made fun of a lot for being "girly" or not tough enough. A lot of people thought I was gay, I'm not, I'm actually bi (I'm not sure if that has anything to do with me being more sensitive/feminine or not in terms of statistics/stereotypes), but still my long rambling point is: it's okay for guys to be sensitive, like pink, want to play with dolls or whatever. These notions that certain things are right for girls and wrong for boys or vice-versa needs to change.

Sorry, I know this post is probably hard to follow.
 
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not hard to follow and you're right, it does need to change. it's just so ridiculous. ugh.
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Not hard to follow at all and very well written. I can see why you got new motm in august :)
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Yes...what do you mean? I mean why does it matter than they're kids?

It matters because kids naturally have an immature view of the world, to use a poll done on kids as evidence in that book you cited just demonstrates how low to scraping the barrel this ''Andrea Dworkin'' is willing to swoop to try and make her point.

It's pretty laughable, polling kids and using the results in a book titled ''The Denial of Gender Inequality''.

To point it out, my view on women has changed quite a bit since I was in 'elementary school', no doubt the same could be said of you. For example, I imagine you no longer think '' boys are stupid, throw rocks at them!''...right? lol.

By the way, could you find that survey please, because searching for it doesn't seem to bear much fruit. Is it just made up?
 
It matters because kids naturally have an immature view of the world, to use a poll done on kids as evidence in that book you cited just demonstrates how low to scraping the barrel this ''Andrea Dworkin'' is willing to swoop to try and make her point.

It's pretty laughable, polling kids and using the results in a book titled ''The Denial of Gender Inequality''.

To point it out, my view on women has changed quite a bit since I was in 'elementary school', no doubt the same could be said of you. For example, I imagine you no longer think '' boys are stupid, throw rocks at them!''...right? lol.

By the way, could you find that survey please, because searching for it doesn't seem to bear much fruit. Is it just made up?

I've never thought, "boys are stupid throw rocks at them" ever...I got a long pretty well with boys when I was younger. I didn't find (some) guys annoying until I got older, ha. I really don't see why the fact that kids were polled makes it any less relevant. I find it more disturbing that a kid would rather die than be a girl, or that a girl realizes that men have more opportunities at such a young age. Where would a girl get the idea that she would have more respect if she were male? I honestly don't know where that survey came from but I doubt she just made it up out of thin air. I mean I'm really confused right now. If I had a daughter, or if my little sister came up to me one day and said, "Being a girl sucks, no one will ever treat me with respect." it would depress the hell out of me. I wouldn't just think, "Oh you silly child, you don't know what you're saying." I would think, "Gee, society sure is warped if my little sister feels this way in 2012." The fact that people still freak out if a little boy wants to wear pink or play with dolls is also depressing as hell. I just don't get it.

Do you truly believe that men and women are equal in every single way? Do you believe that they're treated fairly? If the answer is yes...how can you when people in this day and age will let their daughter dress up in "boys clothes" or be spiderman for Halloween, but if their son wants to be a princess it's seen as the worst thing in the world? When a kid asks his mom if he can wear a dress and she tells him "no, that's for girls" it's just as screwed up as a little girl wanting to play with a firetruck and her mom telling her that it's "not made for her". What the hell does that even mean? Sorry, I kind of went on a tangent but society is...annoying. I'm running away to live in the woods.
 
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I'll reply more fully later but Andrea Dworkin did indeed make up stuff ''out of thin air'' quite often. She was notorious for it. The survey was made up to fit with her own warped world view.
I haven't went through all of the pages. I did read the first few responses however. In no reply. I think people who tend to be so radical of one way may have fallen into their own prejudices. If its nature or nurture in these situations, people need to forgive or forget. Stereotypes are bad for everyone. You can't hate on all men if a few small men held you back. You must acknowledge this is personal.

I consider myself a feminist. I will fight for women until the day I die. I plan to raise my kids this way. If its teaching my son to treat women fairly, or telling the church and state to stay out of women's bodies.

I almost think you can't even call the lady who did so a feminist. Maybe she is just sexist.

Let it be known, that I didn't read the link or anything. The lady may have been raped or abused and so fourth. Anyhow. It was not Ryan Gosling's fault to say the least.
 
To point out another biological difference between the sexes(this time actually kind of demonstrating that ''boys are stupid'') Men generally die younger than women, this is partly explained by our higher prevalence for risky behavior.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3471397/
Genome-wide meta-analysis of common variant differences between men and women
Hum Mol Genet. 2012 November 1. Quotes below.

This could be used by some people with axes to grind/grudges against men to make the argument that men are ''inferior'' but this is not the case, nor would it be the case if the study showed women died at a younger age.

Why wouldn't it be? simply because risky male behavior often benefits society as a whole. Have a look at the contribution to science made by Enrico Fermi, or indeed Louis Slotin who tickled the dragons tail and got 'bit' metaphorically speaking.

My whole argument all along was that many modern feminists do not like to acknowledge this reality, the reality of the world that men are better than women at some stuff. This doesn't mean we can make the generalization that Men>women or women>men. Again it is increasingly being shown that women are better at some things, men are better at others. Women like certain things more than men, and men like other things more than women.

Who is ''better'' or superior over all is really nothing got to do with biology and more got to do with your own opinion. That is, what do you value more.

''Interestingly, more males are being born in spite of the fact that there is higher mortality of males than females during intrauterine life (4,5). In addition, the sex ratio is considered to be affected by numerous other biological (endogenous) and environmental (exogenous) factors, albeit their influence is generally thought to be of a small effect (1,6). These factors include gonadotropins and/or testosterone concentration at the time of conception, ovulation induction, parental age, parity, birth order, coital rates, infertility, parental illness, maternal malnutrition, smoking, exposure to certain chemicals, stress, war, socioeconomic status and many others (1,6–8). The variation in sex ratio was also observed in many animal and plant species (9). Studies of parasitoid wasps, particularly Nasonia vitropennis, identified several quantitative trait loci (QTL) associated with the sex ratio, pointing to a genetic contribution (9). ''

''sex differences in longevity where women have a higher expected lifespan than men (18)''

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In the spirit of reviving old threads...



What if you never had a chance to get into it in the first place? Not being exposed to politics or -- well, let's just take cars, for example. Someone assumes since you're a guy, you'll be interested in cars. Then that someone sees a girl and shows her some fashion magazines. In an alternate world, someone shows the girls the car magazines, and she gets interested. In the first scenario, she never gets the chance to explore her could-be interest in cars. Obviously, everyone would probably be exposed to quite a number of things over their lives, but the fact is that some will not actively pursue the interest if they are not encouraged. It is a question of exposure and societal expectations. You might not be so passionately interested in something the moment you see it; you could grow a passion if you were exposed to it and your interest encouraged. It's like how schools get people to sample an array of subjects before they can decide on what their career is.



My whole point about exposure and societal expectations is above... and on a different tack, it's not like anyone contends, say, the difference between the strength of men and women. Men are naturally stronger than women, by a large degree. No one says that's due to societal expectations. No one complains about sports competitions being split according to sex.


You are hinting at the ''Nature vs Nurture'' argument in explaining the traits we see across the diverse Human family.

Some traits are discrete, tha is they're caused by 1 gene - e.g Huntingtons disease, it is a discrete trait because you either have it or you don't there is no spectrum to speak of.

Some traits are continuous- caused by 2 or more genes e.g skin color. Some are continuous traits that also have a environmental component i.e 'nurture' for example intelligence is partly inherited but education obviously plays a big part too.

Finally, Some traits don't have any genetic component and are entirely due to the environment/nurture. e.g guitarists have harder skin on the tips of their fingers than non-stringed instrument people. This trait is entirely due to ther environment.

Is the greater love of chocolate by women a trait brought out by nature or nurture, or a mix of both?
http://www.news.wisc.edu/13719

To reject biological(scientific) explanations is pretty irrational. Again, this is where my, and other peoples criticisms for modern feminists comes from.

To bring up crimes like wage discrimination is rational, but because feminism(especially in the western world) is now concerning itself with trying to fight biology, I've begun to distance myself from it.

Again to reiterate my standpoint, I'm in support of female politicians and women getting invovled in politics, car clubs etc. There should be no snide remarks levelled at either gender for expressing a love of xyz.
However we have to realize that males and females biologically have greater tastes for different things, and by and large this appears to be the reason why women are under- represented in politics, and men under-represented in say the likes of the Veterinary profession.
http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/88/5/1969.abstract
 
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I actually do agree with you, although I haven't noticed modern feminism devolving into disproving biology.
In response to where this thread has now gone to, that is into denigrating stereotypes as unfair or wrong.
Have a read of this-
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/rabble-rouser/201210/stereotype-inaccuracy

''how well do my beliefs correspond to the actual probabilities? One can do this sort of thing for many different types of groups.

And lots of scientists have. And you know what they found? That stereotype accuracy -- the correspondence of stereotype beliefs with criteria -- is one of the largest relationships in all of social psychology. The correlations of stereotypes with criteria range from .4 to over .9, and average almost .8 for cultural stereotypes (the correlation of beliefs that are widely shared with criteria) and .5 for personal stereotypes (the correlation of one individual's stereotypes with criteria, averaged over lots of individuals). The average effect in social psychology is about .20. Stereotypes are more valid than most social psychological hypotheses.''


''Why do so many psychologists emphasize stereotype inaccuracy when the evidence so clearly provides evidence of such high accuracy? Why is there this Extraordinary Scientific Delusion?

''Which raises a question: There may be many explanations, but one that fits well is the leftward lean of most psychologists. If we can self-righteously rail against other people's inaccurate stereotypes, we cast ourselves as good, decent egalitarians fighting the good fight, siding with the oppressed against their oppressors. Furthermore, as Jon Haidt has repeatedly shown, ideology blinds people to facts that are right under their noses. Liberal social scientists often have assumed stereotypes were inaccurate without bothering to test for inaccuracy, and, when the evidence has been right under their noses, they have avoided looking at it. And when something happens where they can't avoid looking at it, they have denigrated its importance. Which is, in some ways, very amusing -- if, after 100 years of proclaiming the inaccuracy of stereotypes to the world, can we really just say "Never mind, it's not that important" after the evidence comes in showing that stereotype accuracy is one of the largest relationships in all of social psychology?''

The author of the above appears to make some good points, however I thought they might bring up what I see as a bit of a 'chicken or egg' counter argument. That is, men may not like sports all that much if society didn't assume(have the stereotype) that all men automatically do like sports. This may reduce the accuracy of this stereotype a little bit, but over all, the biological aspect of why men like sports more than women would still remain, with an accuracy still above 0.5 etc.

Many women studies/social scientists believe that the ''patriarchy'' conspiracy explains all the differences between the sexes, this is absolute psuedoscience, where is the scientific evidence to back this up?

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I'm pretty bored with this thread, so to sum up the differences in the sexes.

The facts state that -

Women's brains are biologically wired so that they enjoy chocolate more than men.(you lucky devils you! 😛)

Women are increasingly becoming dominant in the Veterinary and medical field.

Women read more fiction than men do.

Women are generally seen as more capricious than men.

Women live longer than men.

Women generally do not have to meet the rigorous physical requirements men have to when entering the Law enforcement or military field. Not to mention society generally acknowledges women as intrinsicly more valuable than men- the call for ''Women and children only'' on the titanic and other disasters are examples of this.

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Men dominate politics, they also read more non-fiction than women.

Men take more risks than Women, this sometimes leads to death( which partly explains why Men don't live as long as Women) but this risky behaviour sometimes(with luck) leads to big payoffs both scientifically and financially.

Men dominate the field of Maths, Physics, rocket science, computer science etc.

Men are physically stronger.

etc.

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''Which gender is better'' is a broken question as both genders are equally inferior and superior in different fields of activities.

Should both genders be treated as equals even when they're clearly not equal in many respects?
Yes they should be treated as equals, and I think this should be extended into removing positive discrimination practices like the physical exercise entrance exams in law enforcement, for example, being easier on women than on men. This is special treatment and pretty condescending towards women in my opinion.

Equal opportunity, and equal pay for equal work is a fair system.


However, as we experienced here in this very thread, many modern feminists don't wish to acknowledge that men are intrinsically better at some things than women are. As they see acknowledging this as accepting defeat or something, to be honest, I'm not entirely sure why they freak out so much over this fact.
Many modern feminists take great strides to attack, debase and devalue both men and the very society that gives them equal rights(and special treatment) as the evil ''patriarchy''.

To me Modern Feminists in the western world are as irrational as those that believe in creationism.

Case in point-
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_Chauvinist_Pigs
''Levy theorizes that many women internalize the objectifying male gaze that permeates a raunch culture(wearing revealing clothes pornography etc), leading them to participate in self-objectification quite willingly, falsely believing that it is a form of female empowerment and sexual liberation''
Others, such as Susan Brownmiller, a well-known American feminist, journalist, author, and activist, share this opinion.''

So to get this straight, when women weren't treated as equals, they wore binding victorian style clothing. But now that women don't have to comform to this anymore they have, according to these feminists, fallen into ''the false belief'' that wearing anything but fully clad victorian clothing ''is a false sense of female empowerment''.

It doesn't just stop there with these crazies - ''Levy's argument that numerous women falsely believe that they are empowered by raunch culture because they internalize patriarchal thought is based in the Marxist concept of false consciousness''

😕 Correct me if I'm wrong, but going by that logic, wouldn't patriarchal thought(if it existed) be forcing women back into wearing victorian style clothing and not towards wearing revealing 'raunch' clothing?

Furthermore, does this not mean, according to these modern feminists, that Buffy in BtVS who as we know routinely wears ''raunchy'' clothing as part of this female chauvinist pig conspiracy as it prevades ''patriarchal thought'' and therefore it isn't a feminist(female empowering) TV show?
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LOl what a load of bull! and more importantly, How in the hell does this have anything got to do with equal rights?

For example, I contribute to the funding of a equal rights promoting organization.

http://www.youngwomenforchange.org/
''Combating discrimination and promoting equality as a fundamental human right and a basic principle of social justice''

This is to me where the struggle for equal rights(call it feminism if you want) should be focussed and not towards fighting shadows as modern feminists like Levy, Andrea Dworkin and so on, are.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articl...afghan-activist-continues-malala-s-fight.html

Afghan activist Noorjahan Akbar is a true Heroine! and will do more for equal rights for millions of women than all of these self proclaimed ''modern feminists'' (who let us not forget live in the western world and concern themselves with making up enemies - ''female chauvinist pigs'' to give their lives meaning) combined!

Modern Feminism in the western world is down right increasingly backwards, and not in any way shape or form helping the promotion of equal rights in countries where actual real crimes against humanity and discrimination are taking place, for example Afghanistan.
 
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