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I'm having an "As You Were" kind of day. You know...that moment when you bump into an ex and you're working at Doublemeat Palace under fluorescent lighting and your hat has a cow on it? Ok well maybe it wasn't that exact same situation, but similar anyway. So recently I got fired from my waitress job for saying something obscene at the host stand, a customer had overheard what i said and complained...thus the firing. Super not proud of it and now i'm bumming because i'm out of a job and i really actually liked that job too. Also I want to add that last summer i was living in Florida at the time with a boyfriend and we got a phone plan together. I broke up with him after six months of living there because A. I was home sick and B. I hated Florida and C. we just didn't have a spark anymore, like zero romance. We wanted very different things. So we broke up, it was very mature and very mutual, and in June I hopped in my car and made a solo road trip back home (which by the way, i HIGHLY recommend taking a solo road trip if any of you haven't yet, it was great) So anyway, as much as i don't like to admit, my ex is still paying my phone bill as i haven't been able to get back on my feet since i moved back to Boston. Today he texted me out of nowhere, after almost 6 months of not talking at all. It was like being hit with a ton of bricks, I totally never expected to hear from him again. He asked about the phone payments and why i wasn't paying them, so i had to tell him with my tail between my legs that i'm out of a job and haven't had the money. Ugh! i felt so small in that moment. And as if it couldn't have been worse, he then mentions he has a new girlfriend. vomit. Anyway I feel super pathetic and lame, I know the right thing to do is to pay him back, which i will eventually because i'm a person of integrity...but as of right now i feel like a pile of poop and there's nothing i can do about the situation right now. So my friends, my question for you is WWBD?
 
Washburne
Washburne
Life sure do sucks sometime (I know) but it gets better. Here's hoping it'll get better asap. :hug:
If you gotta wait you gotta wait but make sure you end that phone plan so your not bleeding any more money then you already are

And as far as what Buffy would do...Hand the problum over to Giles 😀 I kid I kid
 
VisionGirl
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Sorry for the poopy factor hopefuly it gets better with time
 
Hey SuzieQ,

First of all, the money will come - don't worry. You're doing your best. And yeah it hurts that he found someone new, but like you said, the spark just wasn't there - so hopefully he's found it with someone else, as you will too....

Most of all I want to say - in terms of WWBD.... she'd rely on her friends.

Just because she's a kick ass super hero doesn't mean she doesn't on occasion fall apart, and need help putting her pieces back together - as we've seen. So, my advice would be to do that. Let your friends help you. That's part of what being strong is. I feel.

Also, I have taken many a road trip but never by myself. Good for you for being brave enough to do that!!!!
 
Hi there and welcome to BB. We haven't met, but I like your style. Such a personal post so early. Awesome work!!!

Anyway to answer WWBD? She'd feel like crap, seek solace in the company of friends and they'd make her see sense that everything will be fine in the end.

Trust me, from personal experience, life comes together and falls apart on a semi-regular basis and it is then when you find out who your true friends are and what they mean to you. Find your friends, be with them and enjoy the love 🙂
 
aww!!! <33 i freaking LOVE you guys! I wish i had found BB years ago, it definitely would have been a good outlet for me! Great advice guys, thank you so much! [MENTION=11853]Jodast[/MENTION], i agree, life does have a tendency to frequently fall apart and come back together again but i suppose that's the beauty of life! i mean if BTVS was just a show about a girl who went through high school without facing any difficulties or adversity, it would be a pretty damn boring show...and i'd rather have a crazy buffy-esque lifestyle than a boring one 😉 thanks for the encouragement! xoxo
 
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