Yeah, that's another reason for why I dislike Bangel as well... (Although, as you may have heard, Joan and I were Bangels for a whole month, so I have a LOT of understanding for the 'ship... And I still don't like it. (sw) )
And yeah, I mean, Spuffy is a 'ship that's very open to interpretation. Some love sappy Spuffy and domestic spuffy (I hate tame!Spuffy and romantic Spuffy, personally), some love rough!Spuffy, some just love all of Spuffy... It's very different from Spuffy to Spuffy.
Hm, let's see:
Edit again, I guess:
Spuffy. A 'ship that artfully combines passion, love, trust, friendship, forgiveness, and mutual understanding of the other person. It's the journey of realizing that a person who once meant nothing to you now means everything to you. It's about inspiration. It's about the moment. Spike and Buffy might not last forever, but we'll be sure to remember their spark until the end of time. So take your seat at the Back Steps of the Summers' house to chat about your favorite couple: Spike and Buffy.
Was that too long? It was total improv, lol.