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Which you prefer? Just want to get my girlfriend a gift to show I love her and wanna get the right one.
 
First of all: is it for a special occasion or just because? Because it might be too early in the relationship for something that pretty "just because."

Otherwise, I like the first one best. 🙂
 
For something like that, yeah. You don't want to scare her. That's a pretty special gift, and unless you've been together for years, might be a bit much for a "just because" gift.

It's really up to you, though. I don't know the details of your relationship.
 
Maybe it's just me, but that's awfully shiny for three months...flowers and chocolates would be just as nice and cute and romantic without seeming too full on.

My vote would be for the first one though. And yay for three months 🙂
 
Depends on the girl really, some may think it a really lovely gesture, some may think it's a bit much & too soon in the relationship.

At 3 months I'd think that too serious a gift if it were me, something less expensive but with lots of thought might be an alternative way to go. 🙂

But if you think it won't freak her out buying her jewellery, then I'd also pick the first one. 🙂
 
It would be a bit too soon for me, unless it was something that was more cute and funky looking rather than something elegant and shiny.

Like edb said, something less expensive and thoughtful would be a great option.
 
Yeah, those look kind of nice for 3 months...it depends on the girl, but I think that, if a guy got me something like that before a certain point, I'd be a little intimidated. But if you think you're ready, I really like the first one!

As for other gift ideas, flowers and chocolates are always a nice, safe, and thoughtful gift!
 
Right im now thinking something along the lines of nice flowers some choclates and a nice bottle of red wine and a cimfy sofa what you think?
 
I think a necklace like that after only three months is too early. You want to make her feel special but at the same time don't want to come off as desperate by buying a flashy gift that says, "Don't ever leave me or I'll die!" I remember for Valentine's Day, I bought my girlfriend a heart shaped box of her favorite chocolates and some singing stuffed animal thing because she collected them and took her out to dinner. Sure it was for Valentine's Day but something like that can work for you too. Something thoughtful would be better at this time. Find out what she likes, what her interests are, and buy her something in that area.
 
If you're going jewelry route... definitely the first one. (And it depends on the girl who will be receiving the gift on whether or not your relationship is ready for that. My husband (then boyfriend) got me a tanzanite and diamond necklace only after a month of dating. But, he knew I was a diamond kinda girl (and he learned that fast!) So, it's dependent on your relationship)

Otherwise, something low-key. What's her favorite kind of candy? Get her that, and maybe a cutesy singing card. Take her out to dinner.
 
Ya i deffinately agree my first thought when i openned this thread hun was didn't he just start dating her and ummm thats alittle creepy

No offense but it really is just wayyy to serious for a 3 month thing in my opinion... Honestly My boyfriend didn't get me anything for like 9 months and when he did it was for like my birthday thats when the nice stuff started rolling in....

But even he doesn't buy anything like that unless its for special occasions usually its just little things here and there

Flowers, Little pretty Glass Collectiable thingys (like little angel's or dolphins) anything shiny lol, stuffed animals, even little goody bags of my favorite snacks like a 24 oz pepsi, 4 bags of ruffles, and like 4 things of reese's....

It really is the thought that counts and for a just because this early your definately better off with the wine, couch, romantic movie type thing 🙂 ooooo maybe cook her dinner we like that if you can cook...
 
Angels baby101 said:
Ya i deffinately agree my first thought when i openned this thread hun was didn't he just start dating her and ummm thats alittle creepy

No offense but it really is just wayyy to serious for a 3 month thing in my opinion... Honestly My boyfriend didn't get me anything for like 9 months and when he did it was for like my birthday thats when the nice stuff started rolling in....

But even he doesn't buy anything like that unless its for special occasions usually its just little things here and there

Flowers, Little pretty Glass Collectiable thingys (like little angel's or dolphins) anything shiny lol, stuffed animals, even little goody bags of my favorite snacks like a 24 oz pepsi, 4 bags of ruffles, and like 4 things of reese's....

It really is the thought that counts and for a just because this early your definately better off with the wine, couch, romantic movie type thing 🙂 ooooo maybe cook her dinner we like that if you can cook...
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No I cannot cook at all, could take her for a meal though.

Okay guys thanks for the advice Im so glad I started this thread before giving her a gift that could of been werid.
 
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taking her to dinner is good too :)
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