Thanks for letting us know. If it's due to exceeding our bandwidth, then the page you get normally says 'Bandwidth exceeded' so I don't think that's the problem.😉
It might be useful if you could post what IP you use, and whether you use IE/ etc I know Buffy Summers normally asks people as sometimes this can effect things. I know personnaly I use AOl and sometimes this causes me a heck of alot of problems accessing some sites.
As for deleting posts in the cemetary, we do normally do this every so often and, yeah, it does normally reduce everyones post counts - even the staff - which shouldn't really matter as it's the quality not quantity of posts that you have - but some members have been a tad upset in the past about their post count dropping after old theads have been deleted.
Load time- I haven't found the site any slower or faster than normal and being on a 56k connection, trust me when sites take a long time to load I notice 'lol' My puter is so old I ought to put it out to pasture. Not sure why it's taking a long time to load for you though.
Anyway, we'll look into what you've told us and see if it's a problem on our end or not.🙂