One Thing to Love - One Thing to Hate...

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I wanted to try this out as a thread on the boards because you guys are way more interesting than anybody else I could ask to do this. I want you to make a list of two things: first write something you hate about yourself, or rather, slightly dislike; second write something you love about yourself.

I'll go first:
1. I hate that when I'm angry or upset, the one thing I tend to do, is pig out on junk food. Food is the devil!😡
2. I love how athletic I am; especially compared to my smartie friends.😀

I'm hoping this will get something out there; off your chest; and then remind yourself of something good.🙂
 
I hate my temper (even though I only get angry once outta 10 times)...had to see a phsy, psyc , something alogist cause of my temper which is like I said 10 timnes better.

I love my ablility to anyalize things and Notice the smallest things about peoples actions. (I can't spell behavoural or how ever you say it)
 
I hate the fact that I seem to get depressed a lot and self involved.

I love the fact that I have a good memory and am able to recite random and useless facts ive picked up at any given moment.
 
I hate the way i'm so shy around guys i fancy. I'm into Laurence big style but can't bring myself to tell him-the embarressment of failure or something.

i love that i'm so open and friendly, and care about people i talk to. a genuine girl here.
 
I hate the way I can speak, and people give me absolutely no respect; I don't know if thats so much about me or them, but as it's happened in every aspect of my life, I'd say it's something to do with me. I can speak, and garner no respect simply for being a person, or my position.

I love my temper and ability to argue(strange I know) because it's the one time everyone sits up and takes notice; when this girl loses her cool (as she does freqquenly) she does big style, and people sit up and take notice. my temper means things get done and people take notice of things I've been trying to say for weeks that they just won't hear. I can ague anything; and even if I don't lose it to the "swearing screaming crying" lengths, if I get angry, I argue. And I win every time.
 
this was a god ide🙂

i hate my temper, and how i shut down when i think there is a posibility to get hurt, and i get STONE cold!

i love my ability to care for others, that i can talk almost anyone into a good mood(or at least i can do that 8 out of 10 times) and i'm very creativ🙂

oh, wait was there just one thing?

I think i did this in psyc. class once...🙂
 
I hate my emotional problems...I have a negative childhood and it makes my temper uncontrollable and my emotions a roller coaster.

I like my loyalty. The people I love can ask me for anything and depend on me to do it for them. i think of that as my best trait.
 
i hate that im self centerd and selfish and get avrage grades, i also hate my friends homecoming dress lol

i love my homecoming dress (the self center is talking) and how i am very patient and happy-go! Takes ALOT to piss me off lol
 
I hate how I can completely lose control sometimes. Like I'm breaking down. I hate feeling weak and afraid and it seems like it happens more these days. I fear going crazy.

I can't say I really like too much about myself but I can love with my whole heart and show it. I think that's good. Love is good.
 
lol @ all yall....lost angel is like this typical cool cheerleader....lol...

i'm not even close to being perfect...so don't take this the wrong way...

i hate nothing about myself....

i love every aspect of myself...accept every facet...no matter how perverted or embarrasing it may be...

lol...about 7 months ago...i would've been like yall and say that i either love or hate losing control...waiting in that punk bitch emergency room taught me allot though...i'll never lose control again...i remember how stupid it was...if there was anything that I hated about myself...it would've been that...but that has been remedied...always in control...no matter how boiling the anger may be...
 
Hate is such a strong word, can I just say what I think I need improvement on.......I think that sounds better.

What I need to improve is speaking up for myself. Especially when someone is putting me down for something silly like being a bit vague/ditzy. Its part of being me and I don't think its that bad that people have to give me an insecurity about it. So must stick up for myself.

What I love about myself.........I love that i'm easy going. Nothing really fazes me. Take people as they come and don't judge.
 
You know whats funny...every thing that can be considered a strength...can be flipped to a weakness...and every weakness...can be flipped to a strength...

don't worry buff6....assertiveness just comes with time...for most of the gasm's life...i was a doormat...lol...kinda just grow out of it....granted if you keep growing through interaction with people....
 
You are so right Soulgasm, you can easily turn my easy goingness (?) around as a weakness cause i'm a little too easy going hence my lack of assertiveness. i might use being easy going as an excuse for not sticking up for myself.....ok i'm thinking too much and now analysing everything about me!

I'm off to ponder life..........
 
I hate the fact that I can't trust people easily, I used to trust people until they broke my trust, now people have to earn my trust.

I love the fact that I'm over protective with my friends and family, I'll not let anything bad be said about them and if their in trouble I'm there for them and they know I will be.
 
yups...trust is a very intimate thing...something that is hella important in everyones life...

lol...jules...your pic of eliza is hott!!...why is it that like eliza looks hot in every pic...lol
 
1. I hate the fact that I've mostly lost my good faith in people and the fact that I'm deathfully honest. Alot of people think I'm rude because I tell people what I honestly think. If you want me to say what you want to here, I'm not the person to go to, and I think I'm often hurting my friends feelings. I hate the fact that I was once a trusting person and now I feel trust has to be earned and once it's broken, I'm done with that person. I hate the fact that when I think I'm going to be hurt I put this wall around myself and my emotions and just take it with an emotional detachment(like now as I'm filling this out thinking of all the crap I hate about myself) and I hate the fact I WILL NOT cry when I need to. I hate the fact that people use me and I don't do anything about it, and when I do, I completely loose my cool and ruin a perfectly good friendship. I hate the fact that whenever a guy talks me, I think of Glenn and how I was sexually harassed by him and question the guy's motive. I hate when someone puts pity on me. I hate that I can't tell my best friend "thanks for all the times you've stood by me, and you're the only person I completly trust."
2. I like the fact that I'm usually good with helping people with their problems, and my sense of humor; I can usually get someone from a bad mood and make them laugh it off with a good joke and a sarcastic quip.
 
i hate that i forget about looking after myself and just run after other people i always end up getting hurt


i love the way i can make people feel 100% better about themselves even though im just lieing LOL
 
Yup SG, you are right. i hope one day I will be as enlightened as you. But, I think a few things have to happen for that to become a reality.
Trustno1, I don't think all of those things are too bad. Some of them seem kinda good to me. Like honesty. 🙂 Maybe with a bit of tact...
death_is_my_gift, I am horrible at that too. I'm always getting yelled at for it! We should always take care of ourselves! I know for me I feel selfish if I take care of me first but sometimes, MOST times, you need to to better help the ones you love.
 
I hate everything.

I love the same as I hate.

How does that work it for you?
 
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