Oz or Tara for Willow?

[Wiccaness]

He kissed her to get her in she wanted him... she wasn't getting in any other way. Don't you see that?
Why would he kill her... he was trying to protect her and the rest of the world from her. Have you even seen the episode?
The reasons he didn't tell the gang was because he was ashamed that the wolf was having such power over him.
Making him think and smell and feel veruca while he was trying to be happy and love Willow.

I'v seen the episode plenty of times, funny though....i was just wonder the same about you.

And i see why he was trying to get her into the cage, i really do, it probably save people, but why kiss her....why not just pull her in, she couldnt possibly now he was going to kiss her till after their lips met, why not just pull her in and lock the door. She didnt know the key to open it up, she couldnt have gotten out
He ends up killing Veruca.....even though he tried so hard to "protect her"

Why not tell Buffy at least...hell even xander would have helped him with out telling any one. he would have helped.
He didnt need to keep it to him self...it put more people in danger that way...he didnt know if she would actually show up that day.

And technically he cheated on Willow the first time he woke up with her and didnt tell any one. He kept it to him self...and why be ashamed if the wolf is something he cant control...it wouldnt have been his fault if the wolf was attracted to her, the gang would have understood that.

 

[GATEGOD]

I'v seen the episode plenty of times, funny though....i was just wonder the same about you.

And i see why he was trying to get her into the cage, i really do, it probably save people, but why kiss her....why not just pull her in, she couldnt possibly now he was going to kiss her till after their lips met, why not just pull her in and lock the door. She didnt know the key to open it up, she couldnt have gotten out
He ends up killing Veruca.....even though he tried so hard to "protect her"

Why not tell Buffy at least...hell even xander would have helped him with out telling any one. he would have helped.
He didnt need to keep it to him self...it put more people in danger that way...he didnt know if she would actually show up that day.

And technically he cheated on Willow the first time he woke up with her and didnt tell any one. He kept it to him self...and why be ashamed if the wolf is something he cant control...it wouldnt have been his fault if the wolf was attracted to her, the gang would have understood that.

You still do not understand! When he goes wolf he can not control himself and can barely remember what happens.
If he remembers at all! He has 0 I repeat 0 control over his actions! He never cheated on Willow!!
He killed Veruca to save Willow surely you can't be upset with that as well ... can you.... :drunk:

 

[Wiccaness]

You still do not understand! When he goes wolf he can not control himself and can barely remember what happens.
If he remembers at all! He has 0 I repeat 0 control over his actions! He never cheated on Willow!!
He killed Veruca to save Willow surely you can't be upset with that as well ... can you.... :drunk:

See you just proved my point.

When he goes wolf he can not control himself and can barely remember what happens.
If he remembers at all! He has 0 I repeat 0 control over his actions! He never cheated on Willow!!

If he has no control, then why would he be ashamed to tell them anything about Veruca, no matter what the wolf felt. After all its not him, its the wolf.
they wouldnt blame him....

He never cheated on Willow!!
He killed Veruca to save Willow surely you can't be upset with that as well

No im glad he got Veruca before she got Willow. But he wakes up in the woods with her. So perhaps he didnt cheat on Willow straight on, but it was getting real close to the line. He wakes up with her, when they wake up his confused of coarse, but he doesnt push her away. He stays there wondering what just happened... If he hadnt felt anything for Veruca, wolf or no wolf. He would have tried to get away from her. He would have jumped up and asked what the hell was going on. something like that.

 

[Kean]

Personally I prefer Oz with Willow, nothing against Tara I just like Oz and to be honest I didn't really care for Willow after season 3. I don't think it is fair to say Willow loved Oz but not Tara and vice versa, she clearly was very much in love with both of them, that just can't be denied. And as far as the whole cheating thing goes, what about Willow? She betrayed BOTH Oz and Tara. Her cheating with Xander was faaaar worse than Oz with Veruca becuase Willow LOVED Xander and it was just a one time kiss, it was kisses! plural!! and Tara begged her to stop with the magic and she refused. I think Willow is the bad guy here not Oz or Tara.

 

[Wiccaness]

as far as the whole cheating thing goes, what about Willow? She betrayed BOTH Oz and Tara. Her cheating with Xander was faaaar worse than Oz with Veruca because Willow LOVED Xander and it was just a one time kiss, it was kisses! plural!! and Tara begged her to stop with the magic and she refused. I think Willow is the bad guy here not Oz or Tara.

I see what your saying,but I don't think it was far worse, if at most it was just as equal to it. Xander and Willow tried stopping, and afterwards, she tried to prove her self to Oz, she tried talking to him till he told her not to, and once they were back together she tried to prove her love for him. Oz necessarily didn't kiss Veruca the first time, but there was no need to initiate a kiss the second time, and there was all that time in between.
And the whole Tara stuff, that doesn't fall under cheating, it was wrong yes, but it doesn't fall under cheating.

 

[Kean]

I see what your saying,but I don't think it was far worse, if at most it was just as equal to it. Xander and Willow tried stopping, and afterwards, she tried to prove her self to Oz, she tried talking to him till he told her not to, and once they were back together she tried to prove her love for him. Oz necessarily didn't kiss Veruca the first time, but there was no need to initiate a kiss the second time, and there was all that time in between.
And the whole Tara stuff, that doesn't fall under cheating, it was wrong yes, but it doesn't fall under cheating.

Maybe it doesn't fall under cheating but it was a HUGE betrayal of trust and their relationship, which is just as bad if not worse.

 

[Wiccaness]

Maybe it doesn't fall under cheating but it was a HUGE betrayal of trust and their relationship, which is just as bad if not worse.

Agree with you that it was just as bad

 

[Wiccaness]

I love Tara and Willow, Oz is cool, but the love between T/W is pure. I love in season 7 'HIM' and Buffy says..."Willow, you're a gay woman" Haha, that makes me laugh. And she was willing to turn him into a woman, if she was not a full on lesbian I think she would have taken him as is.

she wasnt angry in my opinion, but man when she is.... god shes hot.... id love to just.... oh sorry must be a diffrent type of "lesbo" 😉

well after tara, she was in fact with kennady.... and she did say to anya " hello gay now" proclaiming she was and is in fact gay.

Oooh and also in entropy when she's with tara and she's telling her about the adventures that have happened while taras been gone she talks about the wig lady. Tara asked what it looked like and she said "Well if i wasnt gay before"

 

[Elithustra]

Y'know, I really liked Oz. Laid-back, caring, attentative. Except the whole Veruca thing, or whatever that female-wolf-like-person's name was.

Yet at the same time, there wasn't really a lot of chemistry between them. By that I mean it seemed that Willow was more wrapped up in the fact that yes, he was her first love, and first in the true sense of the word. It sometimes struck me as a high-school thing, y'know? Willow finally found someone who got her, who accepted and loved her for who she was and she was just... awestruck by that, more in love with the idea of being in love than being in love itself.

Whereas with Tara, it never, ever came across that way. From the first time Willow saw Tara, she was just captivated. That first meeting of the Wiccan group, Willow took quite a good look at Tara, almost as if to say 'I need to be around you, I can't explain it, but I do.'

I'm a lesbian, and I know it might seem I'd always say Tara over Oz, but I freely admit that Oz was fantastic. Still, sexuality aside, Willow & Tara were the kind of couple on-screen that even if I weren't a lesbian, I would see it as a wonderful, fulfulling relationship.