Pay Back

Hero

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Over the past year I've posted numerous threads about this girl in my grade. She's the type of girl who lives off her dad's money and doesn't do anything for herself. She has a big pool in this school and either people are afraid of her or she picks on them and makes their lives Hell. I became friends with her a while ago, but it was my mistake. She treated me like a slave, and when I protested, she tried to make my school life Hell. Luckily, fate was on my side and my pull on this school was able to over rule hers. She's caused so many troubles and so much drama in this school. She's made countless people cry and countless people feel as if they aren't pretty enough or good enough to live on this planet. She accused some guy of attempting to rape her and got him arrested. She had me jump into a fight against someone who was carrying a knife. She got a teacher fired because he was...well...I can't tell you here although you people wouldn't know what I'm talking about.

Anyway, I told her that if she ever did something to me I'd get her back so bad. And since she did, I got her back! I told Chezney (one of my african american friends) that this girl is extremely racist. Chezney told all the other african american people and there all planning something.

Here's the thing: I've gotten her back, not just for me but for everyone else in this school that she's made feel bad. It's our day of justice. It's like Buffy taking down Cordelia. So, here's the thing.... Why do I feel bad for getting her back?
 
You probably feel exactly the way that i would. (I've got this big guilt thing going on.) And since you've kinda sunk to her level now my friend, you have every reason to feel that way.

Never-the-less, I'm glad that you have done something about her. I hope that it won't get her hurt or anything though. If whatever it is makes her realise what an evil prat she is then it's all well and good.

Here's hoping. 😀

*hugs*
 
You feel badly because you are a decent person, whereas she is not. She sounds like she has some serious self-esteem issues to go around making everyone else feel like crap so she feels better. Of course it's only temporary so she has to keep doing it. It's also a way for her to control her life. Perhaps her home life or personal life is out of control and this makes her feel better.

Seems to me she got what's been a long-time coming.
 
It's natural to feel bad...sometime retaliating can make you feel as bad as the person who your getting back at. (Although your not)

I had a friend like that last year...she was evil, used me so I got back at her and felt really bad after doing so because not only was she in the wrong anymore so was I.
 
Im not trying to come off rude! But dont sink down to her level! Dont do thighs she would....cuz that would make you just as bad!! I lost many friends like that. I drag them all in to my problems and they hate me afterwards. Look I know this is a total bs shot.........but leave it alone....lt her go on, people will relise real soon that she has a stick up her ass.....and there will be no problems. But payback is stupid! VERY BAD!! It will make things worse not better. I know from experience.........
In middle school this girl stole my boyfriend and I wanted to get her back. So I draged all my friends in it (who were also friends with him) and turned them against him. Then all my last few weeks of school comsumed of was fighting with my ex. I couldnt let it go and my friends turned on me cuz I turned in to a bad pearson......
There is always a price to pay if you are gonna go and do the same thing back.

Look, Im sure summer vacation is comming up soon....so just lay low, dont try to do anything that would make you lower then her and just enjoy. You will be the true winner and people will see what kind of looser she is!!!
 
oh shiz...gotta agree with LA...LA got a good head on her shoulders...

here's the problem...the gasm doesn't have problems with payback...i don't do it...but...i can understand situations that require them...but...you gotta do it right...fight it on your own...by spreading a rumor that she is a racist...is dirty pool...and one day may bite you in the ass...

with a b i t c h like this...its hard to pull retalliation cause she can always fall back on the accusations...accusations and police don't mix well...as your examples have shown...

for me...unless she lied that my wang was small or something...i would just ignore her...the way to beat her is not to play...show her that she can't get under your skin...show her that she has no control over you...

if she did lie about the wang being small...i'd be like...unzipping my pants and dangling it out...to dispell any rumors...plus it would hella classic...

if she were a dude...call the boys...beat down...but...can't do that...
 
It's not a rumor or an accusation though. It's true. And I don't have to worry about the police and accusations part because she said in front of a group of African American girls, "I don't say racist things in public, I say them on the phone so no one beats me up." But then my sister said that she does say things in public all the time. It's not like she only hates black people, she hates everyone. She dated an Asian guy just so she could play with his mind and break up with him and see if she can get him upset. She wanted to know if Asian people cry. Isn't that ***ed up? I don't really feel bad about it now. Because we got in this big fight during gym and all my girls came to my aid. She stepped down when confronted by Chezney, Daria, Sabrina, Lauren and Stephanie.

Now she's trying to push it off that I'm racist but no one believes her so she's making an ass out of herself and spreading the fire even more.
 
Soulgasm said:
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if she did lie about the wang being small...i'd be like...unzipping my pants and dangling it out...to dispell any rumors...plus it would hella classic...
oh wow thanx for the images gasm baby!!!! ::eyes:: ::water:: ::disturb: 😱 ::drool::
 
I completely understand the desire for revenge. There are a couple of people out there that have a target on them with my name on it. I want to "pull the trigger" when I get the chance! But. I realize that once I pull the trigger and the people I'm "shooting" at realize they are being shot at, it is open season...and I can easily become a target myself! That's why I don't go looking for revenge...it comes to you, at some point. And the best revenge is making the person irrelevant to your life, and letting them know it, then walking away. If you do take the offensive, have a plan. Sun Tzu advocated this...know your enemy, anticipate their probable moves, and be prepared for them, and be ready to improvise if they do something unexpected. In this particular case, I advise backing away and watching the fallout. But be ready if she comes at you, 'cause SG is right...accusations and police don't mix.

Why do you feel bad? Because you are basically a good guy, and you feel guilt when you resort to the level of the evil others do. Normal response actually. If you stop feeling guilt...that's when we all start to worry...
 
Hero said:
She dated an Asian guy just so she could play with his mind and break up with him and see if she can get him upset. She wanted to know if Asian people cry. Isn't that ***ed up?
Ahhhhhhh THATS TERIBLE!!!! ::crying:: How dare she mess with ASIAN'S!?!?!?!?!?!? Damn her!!!
Grrrrrrrrrr.....shes sooooo mean!!! <------- Shamless plug for asain people~ ::water:: :: teeth :

But still dont let her get to u!!! Thats important!
 
Lost Angel - Yeah, she's pretty mean, for no reason. She hates everyone that isn't white. She makes a girl cry almost every day just because she comes from some sort of Middle Eastern background.

Dwarf - She's a stupid (bleep). It's really easy to see any move she might make at me next. She's tried and people cleary see that I help people on a daily basis and she hurts people on a daily basis. People know who the bad guy is. Luckily, she moves the last day of school and we never have to hear from her again. I just did what I did because I couldn't let her walk way from all the crap she's done thinking she can get away with it. Because that's not how the world works.
 
You know, there might be a way to solve it......bring it up to your principal...dont involve classmates or your friends....or hers! Tell the adult and maybe they will talk to her in private.
(Im protecting the Asians!!! No one messes with my race....well partaly my race!!!)
The important thing is that ur not racist, and that will make you many friends!!!
(Trust me I get **** for being partaly Chinese and partaly white!) I dont like racist people!!!! They need to learn more about other countires and cultures!! My mom (bosnian/white) and dad (Chinese1/2-white1/2) sure did!
 
I'm not racist at all. That's why what she said added fuel to the fire. She accused me of being racist, and that struck a big nerve. All the people on my mother's side of the family (not including her of course) are extremely racist. I've tried to distance myself from that as much as possible, to the point where I don't even talk to them unless I'm forced too. So, my fear is becoming just like them so that's why I'm going at her full force.
 
tats good!! Im glad ur not racist, and I think you need to tell the people tht think you are............tell them ur not!
My family is not close to being racisit. All of my aunts and uncles that are half chinese are maried to eather full japanese/chinese/korean/white/black and mixed people. (I think a 1/4 chinese and black are the most beautiful children!) I have lots of aunts and uncles. My grandpa is full Chinese and my Grandma is American and they are very happy but they get crap in America for being in a mixed marige....they live in Taiwan and there they have no problems.
America is one of the most racist countries....and we have every race!
 
Hero said:
Dwarf - She's a stupid (bleep). It's really easy to see any move she might make at me next. She's tried and people cleary see that I help people on a daily basis and she hurts people on a daily basis. People know who the bad guy is. Luckily, she moves the last day of school and we never have to hear from her again. I just did what I did because I couldn't let her walk way from all the crap she's done thinking she can get away with it. Because that's not how the world works.

I'd say that she has "fluttered into your sights" with the fact that she's moving at the end of the year. It's even better that she's predictable and obvious. And I agree, some people get what they deserve. Hmm, sounds like time for a (well-thought-out) offensive...give her something to remember you...hehehhehheh! Do your homework, cover your butt, and then go mobile...fire up the tank division, whatever...racists get what they deserve...
 
Dwarf - Carlee and Chezney know, I don't think Jessica will survive the last two weeks. I told them not to hit Jessica because then they'll get arrested. No matter how much I wanna see Jessica get her butt handed to her, I don't wanna see my friends get arrested because of her. It would make her win even more.

Lost Angel - I have a black aunt and two black cousins. Then earlier this week I found out I have family from Korean background or something like that. I didn't even know I had family from somewhere other than Europe.
 
Hero said:
Dwarf - Carlee and Chezney know, I don't think Jessica will survive the last two weeks. I told them not to hit Jessica because then they'll get arrested. No matter how much I wanna see Jessica get her butt handed to her, I don't wanna see my friends get arrested because of her. It would make her win even more.

Yeah, never give the other side ammo against you. Hands off is a good policy, considering her past uses of the police as catspaws to carry out her schemes. Other than that, it's "game on". Think before you act, and make sure you cover your butts...no criminal charges!
 
I haven't talked to the girl in question in about a week. Today during gym she was sitting with my sister who I have every right to go talk to, of course. So Jenna, Darren and I walked up and sat next to my sister and the other girl (Jessica). I leaned over and whispered to Jenna, "Dude, I bet you whispering in your ear like this will drive her up the wall." And it did. This is the conversation.

Jessica: "If you're gunna talk about me, you can walk away."
Me: "Why don't you walk away?"
Jessica: "Because I was here first."
Me: "You were here first? What is this kindergarten?"
Jessica: "It is kindergarten with you here. You act so damn imature all the time."
Me: "At least I'm not a racist whore!"
Jessica: "(bleep) YOU! YOU STUPID (bleep) (bleep) (bleep)."
Me: "Did that even make sense at all? Do you actually notice how stupid you are? You can't even diss someone correctly."

Then she got pissed and stormed off. Later on I found out that she started crying, went down to the guidance office, reported me to the principal, cried somemore, and left school. I learn what happened and I'm thinking "She shouldn't have started with me if she can't take the heat." So I'm sitting during geometry and I get the call to the guidance department. When I'm there I find the principal, two guidance officers and Jessica sitting there. I want in there smiling because it takes a lot to scare me. I wasn't intimidated at all. I start going. I'm speaking clearly, using big words, hands gestures, sitting up with good posture, looking the adults in the eyes, not speaking badly, using I statements instead of you statements. As I'm talking, the two guidance officers caught on that I was right and they got up and left. The Principal was on my side too and at that point Jessica started to cry. She tried to slap me with a sexual harassment suit because I called her a whote, but the principal over ruled it. HOwever, he did suspend her for a few days and she's being spanked with a hate crime suit! VERY NICE! You see what you people get? racism never pays.
 
The best revenge is being true to yourself...and you did it...you faced down the inquisition and since you only did what you always do, you won. You did right!
 
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