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I'm sorry but its on page 8 for me and seriously can't we close it and move on?. There's no good from just going over and over the same bit of ground. Lets start to make the boards a community again. I mean personally I think there should be a board event to bring people together, like a reminder why this place (is?) was so good and why we all joined in the first place.

Number 1= Buffy the Vampire slayer.
Number 2-= the brilliant members and community atmosphere.

I know people have said some things, and yes some people are hurt and upset. But PLEASE can we all move on. I'm so close to just leaving this place all together its unreal. Nobody seems to be doing anything positive including leaving this thread open. Jesus. You know I CRIED I few days ago because of all this rubbish and people (my friends) are leaving. PLEASE members don't leave. I know people have been banned (whether I agree or not CotA for one SHOULDN'T have been banned or Jen ) hasn't it been dealt with?.

I might join ********* because tbh its better than this place atm.
 
BuffyElevated
BuffyElevated
I have an account on ********* and I was shocked, after all I'd heard, that there is far less drama over there than here. :( Crazy, huh? :(
You know what? Go right ahead and go to SA if you want to (hey, they steal every activity we do on here anyway).

But if you'd like the thread to be closed, don't make a an inflammatory post about it's topic. But Black Eye Guy has already posted why the thread is still open.

And if you don't think anyone on the board is doing anything positive, then you aren't looking.

PS If anyone isn't clear why Jen and Cota got banned, feel free to pm me about it.
 
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Harley
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EWR
Every is a big word.
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captain peroxide
You are sooooooooo right
You know what? Go right ahead and go to SA if you want to (hey, they steal every activity we do on here anyway).

But if you'd like the thread to be closed, don't make a an inflammatory post about it's topic. But Black Eye Guy has already posted why the thread is still open.

And if you don't think anyone on the board is doing anything positive, then you aren't looking.

Totally agree with this. A few moments in the the archives will show you some of the differences in board dynamics between the two, I can direct you to threads if you like Sweet.

If you really think that heated debates and control are a product of less interested members, or that having people so passionate about keeping this place so great is a bad thing, then something is wrong.
 
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Edmund Blackadder
I'd like to see the thread too - not for any other reason than a larf!
Totally agree with this. A few moments in the the archives will show you some of the differences in board dynamics between the two, I can direct you to threads if you like Sweet.

If you really think that heated debates and control are a product of less interested members, or that having people so passionate about keeping this place so great is a bad thing, then something is wrong.

Please do Silum, I like good threads 😀 maybe I'm just blind, or I'm feeling to negative about this place.
 
Slay alive?Sounds rubbish!!!!!!!!!!
This is the best place to be for all buffy connisseurs.
I wont leave,unless i'm dragged screaming(in a manly way of course)from here.
Sure we've had some low points,but it cant rain all the time.(unless you live in britain)
LOVE YA'LL:umbrella:
 
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Fredsicle
Thanks for clarifying the manliness
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xaphania
I don't think bashing another website is going to help things...
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EWR
If you haven't tried it, you can't bash it
caitaintdead
caitaintdead
I get your sense of humour ;)
Slay alive?Sounds rubbish!!!!!!!!!!
Always makes me think of
bee_gees_stayin_alive.jpg

but that is actually a good thing cuz ya know.. hello? bee gees rawk! but wouldnt want my website named after them
 
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captain peroxide
Look'at those pearlywhites,wheres my sunglasses
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InsaneMystic
look, it's the Castrated Smurfs! (sw)
EWR disagrees: Every is a big word.

But in this case, is the right word. I mean, they even copied my post asking people to use capital letters in posts. That site started as a cut and paste of our forums and their descriptions and have not gotten an idea of their own yet.
 
I just went to look at the ********* site.
It looked tacky, so I looked a bit harder, I should have trusted my first observation. I will not be going back there.
 
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Hero
yeah i checked it out also... wasnt that thrilled.
Reply to EWR's "you cant knock it till you've tried it!"

I have tried it,and as i thought,it sucked.I also checked out a few others too,and they were crappy also.We're all entitled to
an opinion you know.Seems like theres alot here that doesn't
like my opinions.
All i was doing was sticking up for this place,if anyone has a problem with that,please PM me.
Sorry if i offend anyone🙂
 
I have tried it,and as i thought,it sucked.I also checked out a few others too,and they were crappy also.We're all entitled to
an opinion you know.Seems like theres alot here that doesn't
like my opinions.
All i was doing was sticking up for this place,if anyone has a problem with that,please PM me.
Sorry if i offend anyone🙂

I have just nearly joined *********,to see if it was as crappy as it looked,then i saw the rules!!Whaaat!!How many are there!!.The things you cant do severely outweigh the things you can do.This place is very lenient and fair in its rules and regulations.
Actually crappy is a bit strong.Everywhere you look is ads and stuff.The site graphics are not a patch on this ones.
And finally you all arn't there!!🙂
 
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EWR
Rules=less drama! The graphics are ongoing and a lot of member get involved
Personally I feel you have now gone from discussing the original issue with the site to a bashing of another forum. Its distateful and again does nothing to build your own forum atmosphere. It's all very playground. 'My forum is better than your forum.' OH please, where is the maturity. (Rhetorical question)

I cannot agree or disagree with your cut and paste remark as I was not a member when it started. All I can say is that the site has clearly grown from then.

Every forum will be different, each has its own idea, each builds on forums past. EVERY (and I think it can be applied in this case unlike BF original post) forum will adapt and use ideas from other forums! SA has many great things going for it. SO does BB, you can see that through the members posts on both sites. Both sites have had issues, both sites have grown and learnt from them.

We are all Buffy/Whedon fans (are we not?) What does it matter where we go? Who we post with? We are united under the fandom.

I'm not saying either site is better and you yourself have earnt respect but continuing to bash what you seem to call a 'copy and paste forum' is just tacky to be honest. This site completely looses me thread wise but I'll still post here and keep updated unless you choose to ban willing members as well.


EDIT-
Please do consider you wish to stop a bullying/mean atmosphere on this site. By allowing members to post rude and flaming things directed at a site that also contains fans is rude. You may disagree with the site and the way it runs. But by wording a post wrong you are insulting over 1700 members.(be them active or not)
 
caitaintdead
caitaintdead
I don't see why people should NOT say that don't like ********* if they don't like *********.
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xaphania
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BuffyElevated
BuffyElevated
I definitely agree.
I have already apologised to EWR about this issue,and should not have put down another site without looking at the situation properly.This discussion is overwith in my opinion.🙂
 
Personally I feel you have now gone from discussing the original issue with the site to a bashing of another forum. Its distateful and again does nothing to build your own forum atmosphere. It's all very playground. 'My forum is better than your forum.' OH please, where is the maturity. (Rhetorical question)
It illustrates a problem common to all forums, though. That is, that an unguarded comment, even a single word, can set off an avalanche of vitriol (and I'm sure we all have a vivid mental image of what that looks like). That's why the concept of netiquette was devised, but always vying with it is that chaotic impulse to... well, I was going to say 'feast on the bones of one's enemy', but perhaps 'score a point' would be more technically correct (the best kind of correct).

There should be a 'Can't we all be friends?' smiley, modelled on that sun in the series where Lobo got drafted. Maybe there is. That can't be all the smileys, but I can't see how to access the rest...
 
^ beat me to it.. saw this and thought it was fitting
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---------- Post added at 12:38 PM ---------- Previous post was at 12:29 PM ----------

FauxShemp said:
I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!!
Yes, but we established long ago (in a galaxy far, far away) that you really have poor taste.. and see? even HisMrs agrees with me!
 
BuffyElevated
BuffyElevated
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Summers Blood
Hahahah that's ace! Love it!
I'm not saying either site is better and you yourself have earnt respect but continuing to bash what you seem to call a 'copy and paste forum' is just tacky to be honest. This site completely looses me thread wise but I'll still post here and keep updated unless you choose to ban willing members as well.

No being tacky is not coming up with your own ideas.


Please do consider you wish to stop a bullying/mean atmosphere on this site. By allowing members to post rude and flaming things directed at a site that also contains fans is rude. You may disagree with the site and the way it runs. But by wording a post wrong you are insulting over 1700 members.(be them active or not)

Circles and roundabouts, I find it rude our hard work is ripped off and i'm not going to sit and be quiet about it but whatever.

This thread is about Lyri and Kean, and for that reason it will stay open. Members are entitled and welcomed to post their thoughts and goodbyes to Lyri and Kean.

I'm going to say this once and for all if you (and this is a general you) are against how we are doing things and are not happy here then do yourself and us a favour and either leave or take some time out.

We all want the same thing - a happy posting environment, so lets do something about it eh?
 
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five x five
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BillyidolwannaB
Eh, ewr was only defending a forum. She'd stick up for bb if someone was slagging it off too!
I fully realize that this thread has gone OT onto the subject of ********* and perhaps my response will be unwelcome, but I feel that unwarranted accusations are flying.

Everything has been copied? Really?

Alrighty then. Here's a few things on the forum that aren't copied:

Scott Allie Q&A's (a monthly event for over a year now)
George Jeanty Q&A's (why yes, we've been doing this for quite a while now also - our first session was in February)
Brian Lynch Q&A's (over a year now also)
Comics Previews Galleries
Cover Art and Original Art Galleries
********* Scribes Writing challenges (I have no idea if you guys have something like this. Do you? Probably. A writing challenge is hardly an original thought, is it?)
Coverama Art challenges (art challenges to create movie posters, comic covers, etc.)
Original Emoticons -
spuffy.gif
bangel.gif
slice.gif



Not organized? Our forum has the most activity in Season 8. If you visit that board or the Angel comics board, you'll find buttons at the top of the page to visit discussion for every issue. And you'll even find sub-boards for every separate arc for Season 8 and divisions for After the Fall and the other IDW Angel properties. All threads pertinent to that arc are archived within each arcs' individual board.

Now if you have constructive criticism on how ********* might improve, that's great. I'd personally be interested to hear it. But the comments I've seen don't seem to be going towards this thoughtful reflection.

I vaguely understand there were issues between ********* and BB back when ********* first opened. I joined after this as did other moderators who are the chief bringers of content to the site. We don't copy you. To put it more bluntly, I don't copy you. Why bother? Our forum runs under a different format. We reach a more specific demographic of the fandom. Frankly, that negative history doesn't overly concern me (until now, rather). I prefer to live in the now. What has gone before will be righted by the passing of time and the entrance of new ideas carried forth by new individuals. Bashing the stereotype built in one's mind of what ********* was to me speaks more to prejudice against a diverse, sensitive and intelligent group of individuals. "*********rs are a bunch of disorganized thieves without an original thought among them" = does this really sound like a fair representation?

I like to be involved in the fandom in all arenas. I'm active on Whedonesque, I participate in discussions on Live Journal (you might know me as "angearia" there), I'm an active member over at Buffy Forums also. When I first visited BB it was with the intention to become equally involved here. I posted in the fanfiction and Season 8 threads primarily. Sadly, the antagonism towards my home site, SA, made me feel unwelcome. I do visit here from time to time, but I've never felt like I would fit in. C'est la vie.

The recent BB drama raised my sympathy for the board. It's a vicious cycle when negative attitudes grab hold of a forum. It can taint every dealing in what should be a community coming together in joy, sharing something they love intellectually and artistically. That's the ideal for fandom. I find it a bit ironic that this negative attitude is now being directed at another Buffy forum. And yet, perhaps it too is expected. What better way to stop the in-fighting then to choose a common enemy to attack? Yet all this accomplishes is continuing the destructive pattern of attacking more Buffy fans. Why? Why is there this need to tear other fans down? Does it make BB a better place?

Perhaps this appeal would be more politic if I'd sent it privately to Buffy Summers. Then again, I'd like to think my voice would be heard. That my measured appeal would reach your ears and be understood. I'd like to believe that there would be a time in the future when stereotypes and bashing would give way to consideration and compassion. I still bear hope for this positive change.



*** I'm still unclear on what exactly ********* has allegedly "stolen", but if anyone would care to enlighten me I'd be happy to work towards addressing the issue. ********* is ever-changing, ever-growing. Whatever necessary efforts are called for to wash away past components that mirror BB institutions - I'd find it a worthwhile endeavor.
 
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charmingslayer
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BuffyElevated
BuffyElevated
Very well said... I don't see what the issue is and why we all can't get along. We're all Buffy fans, after all. :(
That is all well and good, but bear in mind, it was not Buffy Summers that first mentioned *********- it was a member of our forum stating how much they liked it. Buffy, and other members in turn stated why they did not like it. EWR then said (paraphrasing) that members should not talk "bad" about *********.

A member, whose opinion, (if not otters) I trust called ********* tacky, I think this post adds to that appearance. But let's not forget, it was members of ********* that brought up the topic of *********.. so its a bit, um, tacky for you to come in and blame it on the Admin.
 
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