I loved the comics when they first came out, despite not being big on comics at all. I think in some ways I would have prefer Joss written books. So I bought all the comics the day they were released and read them back to front, then all of a sudden I started finding it really hard to keep up with this Fray crossover stuff because I was never into it. I don't want to get into Fray to be able to enjoy Buffy. (and yes, if I made the effort with Fray I'd probably love it, but I just don't have the energy!)
I don't really like the direction that Season 8 has gone in. I find it to epic, hard to follow and a tad unbelievable. Despite my dislike for the comics and my wanting to forget that Season 8 never happened, I understand that so many people are really into it and really enjoy seeing what could have happened without the constraints of money and realism.
I don't think I would want the TV series back, I have built Buffy up to be something so important and meaningful to me that I would be terrified of being disappointed.
Maybe that's what has happened with the comics to a lot of people that aren't overly keen on it?