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I was just wondering if any could give me and my mates advice on this problem we have..Theres this girl at our school and quite a few times she has said mean things about me and my mates. Im kinda friends with this girl we get on but it was we was in the toilets and she said something about my mates and I thought why is she tellin me...dosent she think I wont go tell my mates. There was another time when she talked to one of my mates about 3 of my mates...I dont get why she says it to us...when its obivious that we will go tell them for the past 1hr me and a mate wo talkin about it and i said we should have a fight with her...but I thought that wont sort ought out she'll prob do it again. I just dont get it why she thinks she has the right to go around sayin things when she aint that perfect herself. none of my mates like her cause were being to see the real side to her. I just wondered if you knew wot maybe we could do? Thanks
 
I'm gonna move this to Caritas 🙂

This girl who is calling you and your friends is probably just jealous and after attention. The best thing to do would be ignore her, but that's hard to do. What I'd do is just have it out with her, ask her straight out what her problem is!
 
I have to agree with Jules. She probably wants attention or just to cause trouble between you and your friends. Some people have been known to do that because they want attention, or want something that they can't have while you are still friends with all of them. Its annoying and needs to be fixed whenever possible. I'd definatly confront her about it if I was you, she needs to give you some answers.
 
Wow! still not used to other languages. ex mates instead of freinds. cool though, sounds better.

I had someone like this before bother me and my friends. We eventually got sick of it and told him off. after that he left us alone, found some real friends (people he got along with) and no one ever had that problem again.

I know making fun of people is mean... but I think in order to learn, or progress (maturity wise), everyone needs to be told off at least once.

I used to be a real jerk. Bunch of gets leveled me out. In the next few days after that I got along with everyone.

If that don't work just kick the crap outta her.....or you could listen to Jules.
 
Honestly, if she talks crap behind all of your backs it's just a recipe for trouble. I have known several people like that and it actually bit ME in the @ss. I would ditch her. Tough love man...
 
what rayne said!! i would not be friend with her! (a girl tallked crap about me, to my b-friend and i haven't talked to her, and i won't ever!!!) 😉 i hope that you'll figure it out! good luck!
 
yeah...she's a negative influence...i'd just cut her line...say hi...but squelch any conversation with out a reply...
 
The problem is that she has her own friends she like popular...me and my mates arent like reali good friends with her we jus like know her and would hav the occasional conversation with her.
Thanks for your help
 
I agree with Rayne...have you tried telling someone like a teacher
 
No we aint really thought about it. But where in Yr11 and all they would say is just sort it out between urselfs..wich in our case wud lead to fightin.
 
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