Buffy ends up with Parker Abrams.
LOL. In the biggest shocker of all!! Joss did say that Buffy's most important relationship ever was with Parker (DVD commentary of Chosen - yes I know he was kidding).
Buffy ends up with Parker Abrams.
LOL. In the biggest shocker of all!! Joss did say that Buffy's most important relationship ever was with Parker (DVD commentary of Chosen - yes I know he was kidding).
I been saying that since forever!Buffy's most important relationship ever was with Parker
I love Drusilla. She needed more airtime & her chance for redemption like the other three.I want some Drucilla.
But not fit his AtS character. Angel wants friends/family/connection. It's about time the story goes against the eternal punishment because that would be shockingly new. Give Angel everything he wants and Spike ends up with nothing, revolutionary. Which is why it won't happen. But ultimately it doesn't matter because...
I wish for everybody to die, in every reality. So that this poor, dead horse (aka the franchise) can finally stop being beaten.
Yeah, cause what Buffy wants doesn't matter she's just Angel's prise !!!
I agree it should be about what Buffy wants, she is not some prize (not for Angel and not for Spike). Although some would argue it feels like Spike has won his prize. He set out to get a soul to get the girl. He got a soul and got the girl. Joss said it himself when he said that he is the better long-term guy because "He went and got a soul." So it cuts both ways.
And really, what does Buffy want? Has she truly been afforded a choice in the matter? Present her with a curse-free Angel option. Maybe she picks Spike, maybe she pulls a Kelly Taylor and chooses herself (shout out to @Grace 's fic). But if this is a question of choice, she has not really been presented with all of the options?
Angel sees her as something to covet, to protect. That's not what she wants.
So let’s examine how Angel behaves when he is with and around Buffy to see if he is ever “too protective and overbearing” with Buffy:
Angel in s1 BTVS: You really can’t make the argument that Angel considered himself Buffy’s great protector during Season 1. He would pop in, give her some information, during The Harvest he basically said: “some dangerous stuff going on down there but I’m outie.” He was no one’s great protector that season and he was just providing casual assists to help Buffy fill in the blanks. Xander was more of Buffy’s protector during Prophecy Girl.
Angel in s2 of BTVS: Angel comes into his own a bit the early part of this season by being more of a partner to Buffy, helping her patrol, and helping with some scooby investigations. But I never hear Angel say anything that would constitute over protectiveness. And in fact, Angel is saved by her in WML so that everyone knows who the stronger of the two are.
Angel in s3 of BTVS: Angel is gaining confidence in this season. He expresses concerns regarding Buffy being careful and worrying about her which are I think normal sentiments for a loved one when your significant other has a dangerous line of work. For example, the spouse of a police officer might say “take care of yourself honey” and I don’t think this means that the spouse believes the police officer incompetent or unable to perform his job without assistance but a genuine concern over the wellbeing of someone you love. At no time does Angel tell Buffy to stay home, not go out patrolling, not to fight or do her job. Angel merely backs her up.
The break up may be seen as Angel’s protecting Buffy from himself. But ultimately, Angel’s breaking up with Buffy is not just about protecting her but protecting a whole lot of people. If Buffy and Angel stayed together, they are risking triggering his curse. Triggering his curse would not only mean death and destruction to Buffy but to many innocent people that Angelus may decide to harm. And Angel’s decision to break up and leave Buffy is greatly informed by Buffy’s desires for a normal life (at this time in her life) and Angel’s understanding that he cannot provide that to her. This decision is about Angel himself as much as it is about Buffy.
BtVS s4/AtS s1: The first time we really see Angel’s being protective over Buffy is when he makes the decision tocrossovergo to Sunnydale during Pangs. However, you have to remember that it’s not like Angel woke up one morning and thought to himself “Hmm I wonder if Buffy is safe.” No. His connection to the PTB had a vision of Buffy in trouble. The Powers literally send Angel messages that they want him to act upon. So it would have been rather ridiculous a notion for Angel to get a message directly from the Powers about Buffy needing an assist and him ignoring it. His decision not to let Buffy know he was there was stupid but understandable. It is never easy seeing an ex. Angel is trying to carry out the Power’s mission without making things any more difficult for Buffy. And anyway, Buffy calls him out for being stupid about it in IWRY.
During IWRY, Angel allows Buffy to team up with him to track down a big ass green demon. So Angel isn’t protecting her, he knows she is stronger than he is and he could use her help in dealing with the demon. After he turns human and they share the happiest day ever, he makes the decision to fight the demon alone. I really don’t think this is about protecting Buffy. Because he knows he is human and not nearly as strong as she is. When Doyle asks if Angel wants to wake Buffy and he says “not for the world” my interpretation is that he doesn’t want to ruin this day for her. Also, he tells Doyle that he needs to know that he can still do things on his own without relying on Buffy. This is less about Buffy and more about finding out if he is going to be able to hold his own in Buffy’s world now that he is human. He quickly decides the answer to that is a resounding: No.
Here again, the decision that Angel makes to turn back the day (not to erase any memories…. btw) is made for a number of reasons. One of them is because the Oracles have told him that Buffy will die sooner if he remains human. I always find it incredibly interesting when people feel they have a problem with this because how selfish would it have been of Angel to have been like “cool too bad for her but at least I get to eat lots of ice cream”? But also, Angel tells Buffy that part of his decision to become a vampire again is directly related to the fact that he won’t be able to save or help as many people. This decision is not all about protecting Buffy. It is also about protecting the people they were meant to protect. And by the way, Buffy understands this.
When Angel and Buffy see each other during the Sanctuary/Yoko crossovers you certainly can’t make the argument he is trying to protect her there. Afterall, he hits her then yells at her to get out of his city. In fact, it is Buffy who is incredibly overprotective of Angel in this episode - she chases down Faith when she thinks she is after Angel and then she makes a scene at the police station when Kate is about to stick him in a jail cell so that he can burn. (Again they are both protective of each other not always a bad thing). But when Angel goes over to Sunnydale, he sees she is injured knows she is up against some big bad and yet he trusts her to be able to handle herself and after she turns down his offer to stay and help he walks away no questions asked.
AtS s4/BtVS s7: The next relevant example where Angel is presented with an opportunity to help Buffy is during Home. W&H offer Angel a chance to go and help Buffy. He says: “Buffy can handle herself.” The only reason he taks the amulet is to save Connor. When he goes to Buffy in EoD he provides an assist to Buffy when she is in a difficult position with Caleb and then when Buffy says she wants to finish this on her own he happily obliges, he stands back, crosses his arms and settles in for the show. Again, not really seeing how this is Angel being too protective or having a power struggle with Buffy. When the fight is over, he once again offers to stay and help and when Buffy says no he leaves just as she requests.
AtS s5: TGIQ is the only time I really see Angel (and Spike) being extremely overprotective of Buffy in a strange and OOC way for both of them. I suppose you can chalk it up to personal feelings about The Immortal but it is Spike that (jokingly) suggests they lock Buffy in a box where no one can touch her. To which Angel replies that he doesn’t think she would let them because she is pretty strong.
For the above reasons, I don’t believe that Angel is extremely overprotective or incredibly overbearing where Buffy is concerned. While I do think it is in his personality to want to protect those he loves. He doesn’t see Buffy as weak or unable to fight on her own. Angel has shown as late as s7 of BtVS that he respects Buffy an equal and feels she is more than able to handle herself.
Even if Angel had his soul anchored or became humane do you really think Buffy is that shallow to just say see ya Spike, nice knowin ya, sorry I used you again and broke your heart, you were just convenient and I deserve an Oscar for my performance.
I disagree with this. First, if Angel wanted to "covet" or "possess" Buffy he wouldn't have broken up with her, moved away, or given up his humanity so she could live a life without him. Further, this idea that Angel is "overprotective" when it comes to Buffy is not really based on canon evidence. I've written about this before elsewhere so I'll just quote it here:
I truly believe that Comic!Buffy loves Spike. I don't think she is using him, or lying to him. It is very evident that is not the aim of Christos' story. I think Buffy also cared very deeply and maybe even loved Riley. That doesn't mean that Buffy didn't/doesn't still have feelings for Angel. In season 10, she says she doesn't know what she feels for Angel and that she found that notion scary. If Angel had his soul anchored or became human then Buffy would consider her options, search her feelings and make a decision on who she wanted to be with. If that choice was Spike because she is currently happy with him then good for her. All I am trying to say is that she has not been presented with this option.
Seriously ? I think the answer is simple. He was on his own show which was on a different network which make the crossover more complicated to do. That's why we never saw the meeting between Buffy and Angel in season 6. Are you seriously blaming him for that ? That's not fair IMO.Where was he when she was fighting Glory ? Why didn't he help with Dawn or the hellmouth. No he was off in Tibet cause it was all about him not Buffy's family/friends.
I must have seen a different "Pangs". She was pretty pissed about him showing up and interfering and not letting her know he was there
And anyway, Buffy calls him out for being stupid about it in IWRY.
giving up his humanity for her is bs, he did it for himself cause he couldn't handel not being strong and about her being in danger of dying, that's every damn day she walks out her door.
Where was he when she was fighting Glory ?
Why didn't he help with Dawn or the hellmouth. No he was off in Tibet cause it was all about him not Buffy's family/friends.
She's moved on, matured, its over a year later.
Even if she had the option to be with Angel right now from what I've seen and read in season 11 she would never take it. She is in love, let her have it. Yes I'm 110% Spuffy but if she was with Dawling (think I spelled that wrong) or someone else (not Angel) I may not like it but I would be happy for her cause she more than anyone deserves.
Because I mentioned Buffy in my post? Oh wait, I didn't. I would appreciate not having words put in my mouth. Thank you. I don't care about Bangel or Spuffy as endgame. I said that Angel deserves to have things he has wanted for himself (not as some sort of prize) instead of being eternally punished by Joss because he's got issues.Yeah, cause what Buffy wants doesn't matter she's just Angel's prise !!!