You know what, that is a fair point. I think I disagreed with the original post because I felt it was saying that I, and other Bangel shippers, should feel degraded by S8. And I don't feel like that at all and I don't much appreciate being told that I should feel that way.
I never thought Bangel shippers should feel degraded by Season 8. I don't think any
fan should feel degraded because their ship goes through a dark time. If that were true, all of us Spuffies should feel mega-degraded, lol.
I just feel that Angel's actions as Twilight reflect very, very poorly on his character - which, until this time, has been mostly very strong. The spacefraking wasn't so bad - yeah, it was cheesy and over-the-top, bordering on softcore but not
bad - what was bad was Angel saying that Twilight, this "place of pleasure", his "paradise" where him and Buffy could be happy and together, regardless of who died or what mayhem it caused. Angel couldn't understand why Buffy wouldn't choose him over her friends. That's what never made sense to me, and never will. Angel of all people should understand loyalty to family. He's gullible enough to believe that the universe "chose" them, and all they need to do is "leave behind" their friends, family, and the rest of humanity. The very people Angel had dedicated his life to protecting. Sure, he follows her in the end, and that's great, but...what if she had agreed? What then? Who would that make her? Who would it make him? I go over this scene over and over and I still can't understand why Angel could be so stupid.
Anyhow, I'm digressing, true...my whole point here is that while I don't think that you should feel degraded by any means, I find it hard to believe that anyone could justify Angel and what he has done. Sure, he could have been "under the influence" but the only for-sure we've gotten is that he "might have been." That's not good enough for me. He seems well enough to me. All I can astertain is that Angel
has changed, and I don't like the person he is now.
As for Bangel and the spacefraking, whatever. It is what it is. I didn't think the actual fraking was degrading, more like what was said after that got to me.
I can twist S8 in ways that I am more comfortable with it. I can make sense of it, but I have to do it in a way that I really don't want to. No matter what way I look at it, my Angel and my Bangel lost (or had taken from them) elements of who they are that I feel are fundamental to who and what they are.
Does that mean I stop shipping or stop believing? Not in a million years.
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