Have anybody else seen the SMG interview ( how Buffy staked our hearts ) where she says that there was heated moments with Alyson and she and her Buffy co stars were pitted against one another and how she envied others co stars as they had a better life/work balance as she was the one who was always working and that that would not happen today , SMG says she regrets the way some things went down and there were times she wishes she could have done things differently but she did not know how to handle the stress she was under, also in a interview for the same book Emma said the problems came from the top