Soulmates

kanga said:
I used to believe in soulmates when I was younger, but largely I just think we're whole on our own and that's the real journey, getting to know yourself. And then anything else (including romantic love) is just a bonus.
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My thoughts exactly. Even if you do find "true love," I don't think that necessarily means you were destined to be together.
 
I tend to agree with Wicked about that it's ridiculous to think that we have one person who is perfect for us or makes us "whole". But I'm not totally against the idea of soulmates, even if I don't think it's got anything to do with "fate".

Faith said:
I don't believe you can have just one though, because after there are different parts that make us whole and therefore different parts will connect with others.
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I agree witrh Faith about this though. Even though I tend to think you can connect with almost anyone at some level, I believe there are some people just make you feel home, or whole, who you especially want to keep in your life forever.

Ok so my theory is not so much a theory as random thoughts, and yeah I guess I'd say I don't believe in soulmates. Heh.
 
I believe in 'Soulmates', I think they do exist and that it IS possible to find them BUT, I also believe you can be almost as happy with someone else and not realise that something is missing.

I also believe that in this stage of our existence, its not necessary for us to find our Soulmates. I believe in eternal life and in eternity you have the freedom of time to find that 'one'.

We are all bonded together in this reality yet we separate ourselves from each other by adding barriers to every relationship and placing 'titles' on them.

If you DO find your soulmate in this stage, thats wonderful for you, but don't worry if you don't because of the next stage.

Thats what I believe.
 
Faldor said:
^Blimey, if thats how she treats greek mythology don't let her anywhere near the major religions she'll go wild mad!

"Virgin birth thats ridiculous concept, how could somone give birth without being fertalised and where would she get the needed Y chromosone? it makes no sense!"
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I believe in soulmates, I just don't believe that 99% of us will ever really find them.
 
I entirely agree with she... I mean Wicked

I think she (The aforementioned Wicked) is complete right on this one.

Although with that said I do absolutely agree with Freakydorky who is absolutely right (even more so than Wicked)

Of course I'm one of the few people that actually understands that reality as we know it is a ludicrous and abstract concept.
 
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lol... 'she' isn't going to like this
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Edmund Blackadder
You rude little man
Faldor said:
I entirely agree with she... I mean Wicked

I think she (The aforementioned Wicked) is complete right on this one.
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I don't care WHO you think you are but you are behaving like a right twat.
Now, you stupid little gobshite, Wicked has already shown her displeasure at being referred to as 'she', yet in your unbelievable attempt at comedy, you have done it twice.

Why not do everyone a favour, heed Killerdwarfs "Yup. Apparently. Back on topic, please" and grow the hell up.
 
I read the news today, oh boy. The headline read 'Soulmates Spotted on Mars and Venus'.

There was an interesting article on hypocrisy. It made me laugh, though it was rather sad.
 
freakydorky agrees: if she hadn't been such a little bitch to me lately, i'd be agreeing w/ you.
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You have an issue with her, you sort it out there, that shouldn't affect when someone else is being an asshole for no reason, and its DEFINITELY not cause for you to encourage the behaviour.

I'm not wanting to get into a fight with you over this, but I expect more from you.
 
DDLM you're one to talk, when have you ever sorted anything out privately. You ever have a problem w/ someone you go out of your way to make some snide remark. Don't be a hypocrite and don't try to deny it, you've done it to Sara, you've done it to me, why do you think she doens't come on BB anymore.
 
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What I don't do is use other people to make my comments for me. What I don't do is use other peoples arguments to get in a snide comment.
THATS what my main issue is.
As for 'Sara' honestly, I varely ever said anything to her, if she has left here because of me, well i'm not gonna cry over it and i'm certainly not to blame because she can't take something said to her by some random anonymous person online.
 
I believe in soul mates but I don't think you always end up with that person. I also believe in people who fall in love and make things work.
 
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Rayne
Awwww! You're sweet!
I believe a soulmate as the Dawson's Creek version. The one that you've spent your life with, doesn't necesarily have to be the one you're married to, but the one that knows you better than anyone. The one that you can't get anything past, who you can tell anything to, who knows what you want to say before you say it. That's your soul mate. Your best friend.
 
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arabella
on topic karma :)
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StuckinTraffic
My best friend and I are like this....
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Rayne
Points!
I never asked Faldor to start anything. He just did. And honestly, if it was anyone else freaking out over that like Wicked did, I would have made the same remark. You should know this. I admit he did take it too far, but I don't see why Wicked freaked out about it. I'm sure if we were to look back through Wicked's posts, we would see that she has most likely done the same thing and thought there was nothing wrong with it at the time.

As for you not using other people's arguments for your snide remarks... come on DDLM, you're really gonna try that one. Look who you're talking to here. You've jumped into my arguments w/ other people to say something mean to them back when we were closer, not saying it was bad, it felt nice for you to help me out there.... just don't lie.
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sk8rj04 said:
I believe a soulmate as the Dawson's Creek version. The one that you've spent your life with, doesn't necesarily have to be the one you're married to, but the one that knows you better than anyone. The one that you can't get anything past, who you can tell anything to, who knows what you want to say before you say it. That's your soul mate. Your best friend.
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I agree. I believe at times that Sara (PrincessZombie) is my soulmate, but not in the lesbian love kind of way. She's like me in a different body, we can never fight, we hardly ever even disagree.. but i definatly won't be marrying her, no matter how many times she asks 🙂
 
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Cohen
there is one person I know that we can read each other, and know what's going on. But we wouldn't take it anywhere further than that. We're best friends. Plain and simple. lol
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Rayne
^ 1st paragraph sings true. > sara & you lol! ;)
freakydorky said:
DDLM you're one to talk, when have you ever sorted anything out privately. You ever have a problem w/ someone you go out of your way to make some snide remark.
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Actually, there have been quite a few instances where he and I have sorted our differences out in PMs...

But, I dont want to jump into this argument, I just wanted you to know that he does have the capability of keeping private things private.
 
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Edmund Blackadder
Who are you kidding, we never have worked owt out. I hate you and you me...you on MSN anyway:)
freakydorky said:
I never asked Faldor to start anything. He just did. And honestly, if it was anyone else freaking out over that like Wicked did, I would have made the same remark. You should know this. I admit he did take it too far, but I don't see why Wicked freaked out about it. I'm sure if we were to look back through Wicked's posts, we would see that she has most likely done the same thing and thought there was nothing wrong with it at the time.
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I was referring to your 'she' rep. That is what I don't like.

freakydorky said:
As for you not using other people's arguments for your snide remarks... come on DDLM, you're really gonna try that one. Look who you're talking to here. You've jumped into my arguments w/ other people to say something mean to them back when we were closer, not saying it was bad, it felt nice for you to help me out there.... just don't lie.
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I step in WHEN the other person is wrong and blatantly trying to continue something that should be stopped. What I don't do is push my own agenda through someone elses arguments and try to colour it my way but remain 'free' of any backlash.
 
I know he is capable of doing it. We've sorted things out in PMs before too. But there have been many many many many times where he hasn't. You don't so much do it anymore, i think maybe you've grown up ( too bad I haven't).
 
I don't believe in soul mates. nope. Love yes. soul mates no. it was a greek myth...not so real to me.
 
Cohen
Cohen
on topic karma. ;)
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