bespangeled
Scooby
Well gross might have been the wrong word, but I just don't see them as ever having anything which could be deemed romantic, at best there is a begrudging respect. Even when they are supposed to be on the same team they still seem to scribble😀
Yeah - no romance. Not big on the fluff. They squabble like old marrieds but n a crisis Angel is in charge, and Spike has his back.
Love is about what you do, not what you say. And shagging, hey they've really done that since Spike was first vamped. The good stories deal with who these characters are - how they understand each other far more than any human can. So no flowers, candle light dinners, and pretty jewelry. Just a bond that goes back over a century. The long view is that when Buffy is dead, and all the scoobs are dust, Spike and Angel will still have each other. Even if they go decades without contact, that bond will always exist.