Suicide

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My friends cousin commited suicide about 5 days ago and she found out last friday. Shes going to her funeral on saturday in New Mexico. Her cousin was 12 and so happy and fun. She locked her door and shot her self in the face with a rifle (they went to the shooting range that day) her sister (who is 15) heard the shot and tried to get in the door and wasn't able to so she called 911 and they took the door down and she was there dead.
I mean when you think about this....what could b wrong in a 12 year olds life...she had everything, a perfect life with two loving parents and a great sister.....they were rich and happy........what would drive a 12 year old little girl to kill her self???

Can somone explain?? ::crying2:
 
we cant explain seein as how we are not your friends cousin she probably had something wrong at school maybe she was teased a lot-but you may never know
 
That cannot be explain with good reason I guess. Who knows, maybe she was hidding something that was killing her from inside coz even tho if she appeared to be well, there was sommin wrong.
Or maybe some ppl just can't stand to live. I donno how suicide can comes in such a young mind, but that's really sad.
 
Sometimes, people can seem happy on the outside, fun and happy as you said...but no one ever knows how a person really feels inside.
And even if there may be nothing wrong with someone, like if they had a perfect life, it still doesnt stop you being depressed.
I have everything I ever wanted, yet, Im still broodier than Angel, and even I dont know why.
We can never *really* tell...
 
Now like everybody else here, I can't look into her psyche, so I really don't know what drove her to this, but know, that looks can be perceptive.

My condolances.

Just know that she's in a better place now.
 
That is so very sad. Like the others I'm afraid I can't offer any explanations, only condolences...
 
Awww, that's really upsetting.

There can be so many things wrong with epople's lives that we just don't realise. It's so sad for someone to be that unhappy at such a young age.

My condolences go out to everyone who knew her.
 
omg,thats terrible,my condolences,its so terrible when things like this happen and as Lee said..we can never really tell ...
 
I'm so sorry LA!!! my heart is really acking for you at this moment! i hope you'll be okay! 🙁
i didn't know the girl, but i don't really know what to tell you! i mean cause the girl seemed happy she might not have been..

(when i was 11 i wanted to kill myself!! my parents was fighting and i wasn't very hapy at school!(the other kids didn't want to play with me and they told me so!!) but luckly i didn't!! my family seemd pretty normal!)

wow i have a bad feeling inside!!MY thoughts are with you LA! if you need to talk just PM me! Okay...
 
Woa. It's like Me age 12 all over again. When I was 12, I admit that I had really bad acne. Everyone made fun of me and my brothers and sisters were mean to me. Then my parents divorced when I was barely 12. I was really bad at school and teachers were always ridin' me. I thought about killing myself so much. I even came close to it. I had the gun in my hand and it was loaded but then my dad came in and made me see a counciler. She might have been having problems at school. Maybe people were picking on her. You should maybe try talking to one of her old friends because I know when I was 12 I told all my friends what I was planning and they didn't try to stop me. Find out if she told them anything... Nothing is worth your life, I've learned that. ::nono::
 
Well that's exactly what I was going to tell ya to do. Tell your cousin and aunt and uncle to ask around. Could have been a guy, could be that she was teased badly, could have been a chemical imbalance...does any mental illness run in your family? Sometimes an imballance or something along those lines can be easily hidden from those around you while underneath there is an internal war raging. Especially at her age what with all the hormones changing. All they can do is poke around and see what they can find out. I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope your family can find some peace.
 
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