Survey for my class, please fill out! Help!

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Michelle

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Okay, I have to survey/interview random anomonus people for my perspectives class. Here is a survey that I need you to fill our please as soon as possible!
The questions:
1. Do you date?
2. If yes why? Or if no why not?
3. What are some problems and some good things about dating?
4. When is it all right to kiss?
5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person?
6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating?


please help me!
Michelle
 
1...No
2...Cause no more money....no more honey...
3...problems-it uses up precious money....rewards...prospect for some action
4...Any time
5...lol
6...17 for chicks...boys...as soon as they get a job...
 
1. Only if it can't be avoided

2. I am extreemly conceded and percieve all people availiable to me to be not worth the time or effort required (not really, just no one in my area that i "connect" with).

3.You spend the first few dates getting to know the false impressions that people (and yourself) are displaying, and then you have to spend the next few getting to know the real people, who you may not like, and even if you do, there are inevitably conflicts of one kind or another, and in the end someone just ends up hurt, angry, or with the little pieces of their heart ground into the carpet. It's not worth it.

4. When you you feel like it's right.

5. Again, when you feel like the timming is right, or, in the words of Anya "Sometimes intimate sweaty relations with the wrong person seems like a good idea at the time".

6. Different for every individual, but as a generalization, not younger than 15 for both boys and girls (by this i mean real dating, not just saying "he/she's my bf/gf"
 
1. yeah
2. Cause I am weird and strangly attracted to men even though they should only be used for breeding
3. Problem- Guys being jerks.... but good thing is you feel good all the time
4. Anytime
5. Can't really answer that cause it depends
6. 13 (I can remember me arguing for it so)
 
1. Not anymore, lmao.. I am married
2. See first answer
3. Good things, meeting people, connecting with someone, learning, growing as a person..
Problems, breaking up, going to far, getting used..
4. When you have known the person long enough to feel comfortable with them.
5. Depends on the person, the situation, and how long I had been with them.
6. That depends on the person. Your maturity level should be adequate to handle the problems and decisions required by dating, since many choices you make in regards to dating could impact the rest of your life.
 
1. Sometimes.
2. Only if I meet a really nice girl.
3. - Good; the whole thing is pretty much fun.
- Bad; the nerves
4. I don't know, I never initiate one.
5. Depends on what she wants, I'll let her lead.
6. When you're ready. I think when you get into high school, you may start.
 
1. no
2. i have boyf, we live together
3. problems: if you turn out to dislike the person, or that you are really dfferent, good things: well, it can be fun, and you can make a new friend if you don't make a siqnificent other, or both... and you may gain new expiriences...
4. when it feels right! if you're comfortble with the person, and you like the person.
5. not very far, not 'all the way'...
6. well 15,16... maybe.. or, well what ally cat said
 
1. yes
2. it's a lot of fun, and you can go to cool places and hang out with someone you really like
3. sometimes other people are stupid about it, or you might screw everything up by doing something tiny wrong.
4. when your relationship has reached the stage where it's ready for kissing- not every relationship will be at the same level after the same period of time.
5. i don't think i'm old enough to answer this one! well, we hold hands and hug!
6. i started at 13 and i think that was okay age...most people around here start it then.
 
1. Do you date? lol yes

2. If yes why? er cause it feels natural to want to share your life and body with someone special

3. What are some problems and some good things about dating? you have to go through alot of bad eggs to get the perfect omlette! this can help to form your personality and your fears, however experience is good as you learn what you do and dont want and you learn what you are actually looking for..

4. When is it all right to kiss? when it feels safe and comfortable, not for fashion or cause others expect it

5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person? well being a nymphomaniac i supose i dont have to answer that one lol... i go as far as what feels ok

6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating? i dont think you can set an age for dating as i was hopelessly in kove when i was 6 but i do think that physical relationships should have an age limit and be monitored as the mental capacity for emotional highs and lows that sex brings is different, i personally dont think sex should happen till 17 for boys and girls..

well hope that answers you, not sure what kind of answers you wanted as the Qs were a bit vague🙂
 
1. Yes
2. Because Im and a Girl and thats what most girls do
3. erm...i dont know...
4. when you feel comfortable..
5. I go as far as i feel
6. I dont think there should really be a age wen u start dating..
 
1. I have had dates......
2. Trying to find "Mr. Right"
3. You will find all sorts of people, sometimes you would like to forget you even met some...One good thing about dating is that you can find out if you do have things in common/hit it off with another person-then you go only grow from there.
4. Depends on the kiss type. I believe intimate kissing comes only after you feel very comfortable with a person and would like to start showing shared attraction.
5. If I was only "dating" a person-kissing is how far it would go. If I was ready to share something more with that special somebody, I would term the relationship, exclusive.
6. I think dating in groups with friends at the age of 14, 15 is acceptable. I think privately going on dates around the latter of 15 and 16 is also acceptable.

I sure hope this helped for your class!!!!!
 
1. No i do not
2. The reason is because I am a very career Oriented girl, I want to get my studies over and done with and I do not want to get involved with Love
3. Sometimes you do not find the right type of person and there is no guarantee that that is the right person for you
4 After marriage or atleast when you are in a relationship coz ther is no point kissing someone and then the next month you have broken up with him or her
5. If dating then speaking is as far as it would go, this is becoz I am not going to date for a very long time as it is going to be after my studies are complete
6. 18 as you are an adult , not when you are 16 you are still only quite young
 
1. No.
2. I haven't found anyone yet.
3. Dating is good because it makes you feel good inside, but love can mess you up.
4. On the first date.
5. Everything but sex when I date.
6. 15.
 
1. Do you date?
Not very often. I tend to make female friends and then bypass the "date" stage and go straight from friend to serious relationship.

2. If yes why? Or if no why not?
I think it depends on whether you're more comfortable spending an akward evening with a stranger or masturbating. Me, I prefer my own company. 🙂

3. What are some problems and some good things about dating?
I suppose that it's possible to meet "The One" by dating. I call this the "Lotto Jackpot Theory of Matrimonial Bliss"

4. When is it all right to kiss?
As soon as I feel comfy with it. (although it's usually considered appropriate to wait until AFTER the romantic dinner)

5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person?
It depends. A good rule of thumb: if either one of you is too embarassed to discuss it, it's probably too soon.

6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating?
Junior high-ish. Thirteen or fourteen.
 
1. yep
2. because people ask me
3. Sometimes you're just not attracted to them, but they're nice and you don't wanna be mean and dump them. Not really dump, but ignore and turn down dates or whatever.
4. When you're feelin it
5. Not very
6. 16ish
 
1. No
2. Cause I'm not a people person, and I havn't found anyone intresting.
3. problems are break up and money. good things are nice times, make outs, and eventually sex....I guess.
4. When your alone with the person, truth or dare game, or your really in the mood. (might wanna make sure the person likes you first)
5. I can't reall say. Guess maybe seeing naked, but no sex.
6. 16.
 
1. Do you date?
No
2. If yes why? Or if no why not?
Cuz I don't have a boyfriend
3. What are some problems and some good things about dating?
4. When is it all right to kiss?
I'd say whenever both parties are comfortable with it
5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person?
Depends on the person, and how long we've been dating.
6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating?
High school
 
1. Do you date?
Not as of late...

2. If yes why? Or if no why not?
I am married now...

3. What are some problems and some good things about dating?
Dating helps you to narrow down the possibilities...helps you get a better idea of what you're looking for in a "mate". Though dating also comes with many pressures...

4. When is it all right to kiss?
When you can't help but feel that pull in your gut. The one that tells you that if you don't kiss him/her right then you may just die. I love that feeling...the feeling of certainty...

5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person?
Me...I'd go all the way if I were old enough and my heart was in it for a prolonged enough period that I was sure it was more than just a wave of hormonal need and uncertainty than true need for the contact of a particular human being due to circumstances of love and not of just desire...😛
6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating?
So long as you're responsible I think that the age will still vary...but I think that as far as REAL, TRUE dating, like with little pecks and make out plans...8th grade...I think that before that it is just silly puppy love...but as far as really "serious" datig...I think as soon as you are old enough to truely understand and accept the consequences of your actions...
 
1. Do you date?

Not right now

2. If yes why? Or if no why not?

I'm in a long term relationship

3. What are some problems and some good things about dating?

Well problems could be that you feel one way about them and they don't feel the same. Good things could be that you could have a long term boyfriend/girlfriend out of it, even get married, have kids... i don't know... the full monty i suppose!

4. When is it all right to kiss?

I agree with Rayne on this one... when you get that feeling of longing! You just can't wait any longer! I love it!

5. How far intimately would you go while dating a person?

It depends on how you feel about it! It can be tricky sometimes! If i feel like they are trust worthy and something good is going to come out of the whole relationship then i'd go the whole nine yards.

6. What age do u think is appropriate to start dating?

This varies... I think it's really up to you but i didn't start dating properly til i was 18.
 
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