Teenage girl guilty of creating child pornography... of herself.

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And what happens when those funky kids break up, or someone finds the evidence and youtube's it or blackmails them like in Wisconsin?

We'll have to agree to disagree here, Children can not smoke or drink or vote or be charged as an adult for a crime (admittedly some of the time) because of a pschological difference between them and adults. (Granted maturity waivers, but laws can not...only rulings and court decisions can)

They, for their own good, should not be sending stuff over the internet to who knows who...because the net is not secure even if your just sending it to one person.

Would you leave a naked picture of yourself in your girlfriends mailbox, even if you knew her (assuming you both live at home with parents and brothers and sisters and what not)

I don't think they should go to jail either, but at the root I find the behavior reckless and foolish for children to partake in, because as a rule society has noted they are less equiped to deal responsibly with hazardous consequences.

Am I even begining to get through to you?
 
I don't think they should go to jail either, but at the root I find the behavior reckless and foolish for children to partake in.

And dangerous.
If people want to be reckless and foolish and endanger themselves, that should be their business only.
 
I would agree, unless they are a minor and unable to recognize the sevarity of their situation and would react to said circumsatnces in a unprepaired manner, and/or are are easily duped/influenced or lack a social and financial network to stand up to threats etc..

I think, maybe due to your age and your smarts, you see it as age profiling. I'd grant you that maturity waivers and not all 18 year olds as mature as you. However, psychologists...hell society as a whole has decided that mid to late teens is the age of accountability as far as your actions go, and most importantly this is reflected in our legal systems. (Court and Law, Silum...not just a gallows, but an understanding of this lack of credibility/maturity)

thats part of the reason child porn is illegal, becayse they have no legal means to account for the action, can't sign contracts, must depend on others for their living conditions who could exploit them, etc. etc.

it is a population ripe for victimizing without legal deturent and representation.
 
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Well said.
And what happens when those funky kids break up, or someone finds the evidence and youtube's it or blackmails them like in Wisconsin?

We'll have to agree to disagree here, Children can not smoke or drink or vote or be charged as an adult for a crime (admittedly some of the time) because of a pschological difference between them and adults. (Granted maturity waivers, but laws can not...only rulings and court decisions can)

They, for their own good, should not be sending stuff over the internet to who knows who...because the net is not secure even if your just sending it to one person.

Would you leave a naked picture of yourself in your girlfriends mailbox, even if you knew her (assuming you both live at home with parents and brothers and sisters and what not)

I don't think they should go to jail either, but at the root I find the behavior reckless and foolish for children to partake in, because as a rule society has noted they are less equiped to deal responsibly with hazardous consequences.

Am I even begining to get through to you?
You have some very dangerous reasoning. Im trying to read your posts carefully so I dont misunderstand you point of view.

Are you really saying that a 17yr old isnt allowed to give his bf a photo? It appears you are, and your reasoning is what might happen if they break up?

WELL.... if the bf then decides to share that on the internet, he is guilty of child porn distribution duh, actually hes guilty of pornography without consent on top of that. Is this what your reasoning rests on? If I give you a gun are you guilty of murder? We dont lay down the law based on what 'could' happen.

..... but the idea that he's 'dealing' in child-porn for being in a healthy relationship where they share photos is... i need more metaphors for madness.

Maybe you are arguing for the sake of it? Do you really believe that or are you just jerking my chain?
 
I'm not yanking your chain buddy, I do mean it in earnest. If I devil advicate I'll tell you 😉

My reasoning is that a 17 year old should not give his GF a nude pic of him because although all 17 year olds are not equal in maturity, they are all equal according to the law , and that action of photo ditribution is illegal because of bad consequences releated to that distrubition

One 17 year old could be a mature person while another might not be, but law serves society not the individual. justice serves the individual where they look at these things and give a verdict and punishment

You can not set exceptions to the law or it has no effect and looses its role.

In this case what is the role? It's role is protection of minors.

I'm not a big fan of laws that rob us of responsibility by protecting us, but minors like it or not, have to play with that hand they are delt...to protect them as an age demographic with certain traits assigned to them.

It's for their own protection, Just like kids can't buy smokes or beer legally. I realize (as believe it or not I raised my fair share of hell) that as a minor it is a pain in the ass. It does serve a purpose though.

I'll go back to that example in Wisconsin, the reason laws are made are to avoid destructive outcomes and in minors case, protect them. That means sometimes they must face a punishment for breaking a law ment to keep them safe. 9else why obey it)

A 20 something is far less likely to be blackmailed by nude pics than a 17 year old living under their parents roof. Age, sadly, is a gauge of maturity that is used even if you or I know exceptions to the rule.
 
I'm not yanking your chain buddy, I do mean it in earnest. If I devil advicate I'll tell you 😉

My reasoning is that a 17 year old should not give his GF a nude pic of him because although all 17 year olds are not equal in maturity, they are all equal according to the law ,
Well again i find myself point out (not to you, earlier in the thread) that it isn't illegal.

Sure one wacky judge might rule one way but that doesnt make for precedent. In the same way that people sue McDonalds for millions because their 'coffee was hot' and win, stupid stuff happens especially in the US where the judicial system doesn't account for 'common sense'.
 
I'll try and fine the legislation, maybe things have changed here since you where in the states last?

I'm pretty certain (though now you have me wondering) that anything of ellicit nature under the age of 18 is considered child porography...there may be a clause concerning payment or it's use as a good vs. sending nana a pic of john boy in the tub. It is interstesting to add on that note that nudity need not be pornagraphy.

If your sending adult nudie/illicit pictures to nana though, you might have problems 😉

(Not you, personally Sel., just trying to inject some humor in a humorless topic.)
 
^ A few years ago, one of my co-workers was almost arrested because she'd taken pictures of her daughter after her bath and had them developed at Wal-Mart. The developer tried to turn her in for child pornography. I don't know what happened with that, but it seems to be at issue.
 
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I had a friend who worked at walgreens in the photo department. They actually had orientation on what to report and what not!
^ A few years ago, one of my co-workers was almost arrested because she'd taken pictures of her daughter after her bath and had them developed at Wal-Mart. The developer tried to turn her in for child pornography. I don't know what happened with that, but it seems to be at issue.

Yeah that happened in the UK a few years back. I seem to remember that it involved a TV celebrity of some sort. Can't recall who just now. Maybe someone less lazy could find out.
 
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My brother in lazy, I salute you. :)
^^^^It would seem that it may be against the law here then. Might i add that is total wank if it's just normal baby BS and any judge with half a brain...DA for that matter, would drop the case after checking into the details.

Thats kind of why i think the law exists, to check the details. Your co worker could be normal enough or maybe not. Without a question of a law possibly being broken the justice system would have no legal authority to decide one way or another.

Seems like this would give the courts a lot of busy work and waste a lot of time and money (look a stimulus plan!)....of course the alternative is possible abuse. I don't mind paying to stop it, though big brother senses are tingeling! And what if they take away the child from good parents during investigation?

No easy answer for me, for all cases....thats why I default to the law and justice system. I just wish it was immediate and flawless. is that too much to ask 🙁
 
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I disagree with your stance in this discussion, but I don't see the point of continuing it!
Your reconciliatory words are much appreciated. I also feel honored you'd see me as an excellent judge, lol.


Where you and I have a falling out of opinion, ultimately, is how we see this pertaining to children.

You see this case as an instance of 'unlawful' behavior causing no harm or victim, so what could the harm be while I see it as a violation of a rule or law that guards against hurting oneself when one is a minor.

These are kids and teens in this scenario, some undoubtedly lacking the experience of their seniors who can take advantage of them.

In this case you said it caused no harm, but for the law to serve the people and be fair and not serve an individual, all cases must be trialed/charged equally....thats why law governs the masses while judgement and mercy cater to the individual.
I see your point, still I'll have to offer "agree to disagree" here. Even with children/minors, I do not think that it should be the business of the state/laws to protect them from hurting themselves. It should certainly be seen a job parents/guardians should perform, bringing kids up in a way to not have them want to hurt themselves - but if someone does make that decision, I think the law has no business to interfere, no matter if they're 5, 15, or 55.


This case for instance in Wisconsin...there are a handful of minor males who were assaulted by an 18 year old male in Mukwanago or Waukesha Wisconsin. They were playing the wooing internet game's equivalent of the childhood version of Doctor and sent nude/explecive material to a guy who was posing as a girl on a social network site. The 18 year old man then used the images to blackmail the kids into sex acts or he'd show everyone what they sent him. The breaking point was when the monster tried to force one of his victims into making their younger brother pose.

Still think it her case not being prosecuted is harmless?
Yes, I still say it's harmless, and I say these boys have done nothing that should be considered illegal.

The 18-year old, however, has clearly perpetrated a crime - but I see absolutely nothing that would make this situation any different from if it had been, say, a bunch of 22year old college girls sending the pictures. Up until the blackmailing, I'm absolutely fine with it, regardless of the age of the people on the photos; after that, he should be made to face court for it, again regardless of the age of the extortees.


Why? Because although her action did not hurt her, it could have and has had for others. that is why child pornography is illegal, consented or not. Youths can be easily duped...so can adults, but they do not enjoy the same leniency as children do.
I don't agree that her action in itself (and that is the only thing she should ever be held accountable for) could have hurt her in any way. Worst thing that could have happened? Some weirdo getting, as JCC put it, "hand happies" by looking at a pic of her boobs. And since she took the photo herself, she obviously was ok with that. No harm done, no rights violated, no need for the state to even take notice.

If the weirdo doing abusive and exploitative thing to the girl after this, it is nothing the girl is responsible for anymore... or else we're back to the horrid justifications à  la "she deserved to be raped, look at that miniskirt she wore" - a standard which modern society has finally started to leave behind.


That example JCC posed about the hand happies and no harm being does not look at the law, merely this solitary infraction. It does nothing to curb illegal reckless behavior either.
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See, if the law put the fear of consequence into these kids, they may not have sent those pictures. The girl in this story broke a law and got of lucky. I don't believe her lucky streak should continue and she be allowed to get off scott-legally-free.
Another point where we disagree. IMO, it's not the job of laws to act as deterrent. There's more than enough evidence that fear of punishment does little, if anything, to keep crime down.

Basically, I do not believe in the idea of punishment. Laws and courtrooms, IMO, should not exist to "punish evil doers" (yes, I know that the judicial system still sees part of its job as just this, but frankly, I consider that a relic from less enlightened days past), but to serve as protection for peoples' right and to ensure amends and recompense wherever said rights are hurt. In the case where other people's rights continue to be threatened by someone, he/she has to be locked away - this is the only valid reason I see for jail sentences, everything else should better be handled by fines, smart money, and/or unpaid community service.

If however, as in this case, nobody's rights were ever violated, there's no need for a law in the first place.


Just like a youth can not drink or smoke, there are some activities they should not engage in until they are of legal age.

Oh and a side not, laws are meant to be simple to avoid loop holes in the like. You say kids can produce pornography if it is voluntary and I bet the numbers of it's availability skyrocket. I'd also wager those voluntary cases are few and far between, that the child is being threatened or paid off, or whatever and its not a simple case of...behold, my nakedness!
Oh, I wholeheartedly agree that those cases are few and far between. Look at my above point of "0.x%". But for the minuscule percentage where it is the simple case of "behold my nakedness", I still have one thing to say: Just legalize it - instead of wasting courtroom time on pointless lawsuits.

I disagree that laws should be kept as simple as possible - they should be at least complex enough to allow for discerning situations as this, where clearly nobody got wronged, to make sure no DA, judge and jury ever get bothered with it. If you bring someone to court only to have them cleared of charges, that's a waste of time and money. Tax payer's money.

And I agree there are things you have to keep illegal because a minor, even if agreeing to them, has no scope of the harm being done. This is why I make a sharp destinction as to who took the photo. Naked 14 year old girl posing sexily in front of camera? I see no reason to have that be illegal if said girl takes the picture herself, alone in her room, and I don't care what she does with it afterwards. Nobody is harmed. Legalize it, even if it's child porn.

Exact same picture, made by a 30 year old person of the girl? Call the cops and try your best to get the pic off the net if it got put up.
Exact same picture, but worlds apart in relevance.

Point is, what you do yorself with your own body should never be illegal, no matter your age. Or else, a 12year old masturbating should indeed be in for child molestation.

And it should go without saying, but I'll say it anyway: All of this discussion is just about nude pics. The moment we have depictions of minors actually having sex with someone, the line is absolutely crossed, and regardless of whether or not the kid consented to have the porn made, you're faced with evidence of abuse, period. That's where manipulation, exploitation, and the limited ability of a minor to see the consequences come into play heavily. But also note that it then is not a case anymore of things you just do yourself with your own body.
 
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Though we don't agree, you have given me points to ponder and a respectfull debate. It truely has been enjoyable, InsaneMystic.
The issue here seems to be whether we look at this case in a bubble or not.

IF we assume that this one girl took the pictures, sent them to this man, he looked and then never sent anything on, then it's NOT all that horrible.

Although, from this report, the one Scobro posted, what Harm mentioned, and what's been on the news about these events, this is NOT an isolated case. This is something kids are doing a LOT.
With no thought to whether these pictures are being forwarded or passed around until posted where ever. And there is NO WAY for them to control that other than to not do it.

The rule is NO EROTIC PICTURES of children under 18. And why? Because there is no logical "good" reason for child porn. Child porn is known to excite and escalate pedophiles, and really, even a 17 year old shouldn't be sending pictures to HER 17 year old boyfriend to arouse him either. There's certainly no reason for the government to be supporting children who can't even vote to be having sex.

And, Relic is right, even sending the pics to her 17 year old boyfriend...it's not like teens are known to stay together and make the best decisions. There is still no way to insure that picture isn't going to be passed and posted until it ends up in a place where it was NOT intended to be.
The people's hands they are trying to keep these pictures out of is NOT her or her boyfriend, but of pedophiles and/or rapists.

The police spend millions of dollars trying to get to these pedophiles, to stop child pornographers and to get these pictures OFF the internet. Having a loophole where SOME of these pictures are okay and thus flooding the internet with these images would be a nightmare.
Certainly whatever money they MAY spend in taking these kids to court (if it ever makes it that far) would be nothing compared to what the police investigations would be to deal with the added images pop up, trace them back to see if they're okay, or deal with the creepos who try to say their porn site is okay because the kids were "willing".

Granted, not EVERYONE who might see these pictures is a rapist or a child molester, but if this guy sent these pics to ONE of his friends, it could any number of places by now. And if one of those gets into the hands of ONE pedophile and even just the one decides he's had enough pretending and wants to act, that's one too many.

Nothing has said they'd be branded a sex offender or that they'd get prison time.
Everyone seems to agree she's not a diabolical sex fiend out to make children suffer or get raped. She's just done something stupid that she hasn't thought through.
Something stupid that COULD have gotten HER raped (or worse) if this guy on MySpace had been more of a creep, or maybe he is more of a creep and never got the chance.

I think the trick comes from looking at the big picture and all the effects that could happen or maybe DID happen. We don't really know all that much.
Someone said it's something that happens "all the time". If that is the case, this little trend is a dangerous one. For the kids doing it, other kids who aren't, and a pain in the butt for police trying to rid the world of child porn.

As for her right to sexually explore herself, surely there is a way to do it without taking photos and mailing them out. People have done it for YEARS without access to personal digital camera and computers. She might have to think her methods through a little harder, but some extra thought may have been a good idea before she tried this way.

What other way is there to get these kids to stop other than charging them? We've warned them. You can hardly watch TV without seeing some ad or show about why to NOT do these things. They tell the kids in school. Even my 9 year old has heard the warnings. But, teens seem to be the same as they always have been and think "it won't happen to me". Sometimes what happens only effects them. But, in this case, the effect has the potential to hurt anyone from them to any number of children all over the world. And to cause tax payer all across the country to have to pay more to get the child porn situation under control.

If I have to choose between letting children have the right to make a stupid decision vs. saving either that stupid child or some other child happily walking home from the bus stop from an unthinkable hell, I'm not going to vote for giving children the right to make stupid decisions. Especially when it's not legal for anyone ELSE to make child porn, why should they be somehow "special" because they ARE children?
 
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I think your stance is wrong but this topic is pointless to continue in
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big picture karma.
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I dont wanna continue rehashing my point but im glad we dont live in the pc health and safety nanny state your depicting where teenagers have no rights due to 'potential' disaster. Gf sending photos to his bf (provided its just her bf) is legal btw.
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Trying to prove a point on this topic is near pointless because of the wide range of division, but I heartedly agree with you.
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Besides what exactly does she find sooo pretty of her body that she takes pics of her naked?? I mean, I am 15 and I know from experience (and my freinds too) that a teenage body mostly isn't sooo sexy that you have to take pics and send it to strangers... that's just disgusting and perverse
 
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What a silly comment
The 18-year old, however, has clearly perpetrated a crime - but I see absolutely nothing that would make this situation any different from if it had been, say, a bunch of 22year old college girls sending the pictures. Up until the blackmailing, I'm absolutely fine with it, regardless of the age of the people on the photos; after that, he should be made to face court for it, again regardless of the age of the extortees.
I agree with this, but I would also go further: that situation could've been solved much sooner if the teenagers had felt comfortable with telling someone about their predicament, but who are they to go to if the law is hellbent on 'protecting' them? Going to the police about being blackmailed also incriminates them as creating, possessing and distributing child pornography. By protecting these children, you facilitate the dangerous situations that are meant to be the justification for these deterrents in the first place.

Lou said:
There's certainly no reason for the government to be supporting children who can't even vote to be having sex.
Then we have to get into the issue of the voting system disenfranchising the youth which is another thing that I have an issue with...

Lou said:
And, Relic is right, even sending the pics to her 17 year old boyfriend...it's not like teens are known to stay together and make the best decisions. There is still no way to insure that picture isn't going to be passed and posted until it ends up in a place where it was NOT intended to be.
The people's hands they are trying to keep these pictures out of is NOT her or her boyfriend, but of pedophiles and/or rapists.
Rapists aren't solely interested in minors. Regardless of whether the victim is 15 or 50, passing private pictures on, somehow finding the inspiration from that picture to rape someone, any heinous act of deception that you can think of as a reason to punish this girl's recklessness is not age-specific and is a horrible thing to happen to someone of any age. That said, while the photograph is linked to the crime, the person who sent that photograph is not incriminated at all, or blame for bad actions can be placed upon anyone if the chain of events under consideration is long enough. The person in the wrong is the perpetrator, not the inadvertent facilitator.

Lou said:
Certainly whatever money they MAY spend in taking these kids to court (if it ever makes it that far) would be nothing compared to what the police investigations would be to deal with the added images pop up, trace them back to see if they're okay, or deal with the creepos who try to say their porn site is okay because the kids were "willing".
Freedom > money.

Lou said:
Especially when it's not legal for anyone ELSE to make child porn, why should they be somehow "special" because they ARE children?
For the same reason that making an amateur porno is legal, but kidnapping a woman off the street, drugging her and filming your intimate encounter with her comatose body is frowned upon.

Amicelli said:
Besides what exactly does she find sooo pretty of her body that she takes pics of her naked?? I mean, I am 15 and I know from experience (and my freinds too) that a teenage body mostly isn't sooo sexy that you have to take pics and send it to strangers...
In a time of paranoia and peer pressure, this girl being happy with her physical appearance is definitely not something to be criticised. Besides which, there's no implication that the man is a stranger.
 
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very well put, your reply to my post is smth I hadn't even thought of yet. only serves to cement my view.
Just as an aside, thought I'd let you all know as this discussion got me thinking... I went to our local library and looked up the paragraph about pornography (child porn is a subset of that one) in the German penal code, and just as I suspected, neither the girl's nor the man's behavior fall under that paragraph here. So it would all be perfectly legal in Germany, and has been for many years... and the world did not come crashing down, nor are we considered "pedo paradise".

(Besides, this is one of the very few moments ever that I feel the least bit of patriotic pride, so I thought I'd share it. 😉 Don't hold your breath till the next one, though - wouldn't want any of you suffocating.)
 
Just as an aside, thought I'd let you all know as this discussion got me thinking... I went to our local library and looked up the paragraph about pornography (child porn is a subset of that one) in the German penal code, and just as I suspected, neither the girl's nor the man's behavior fall under that paragraph here. So it would all be perfectly legal in Germany, and has been for many years... and the world did not come crashing down, nor are we considered "pedo paradise".

(Besides, this is one of the very few moments ever that I feel the least bit of patriotic pride, so I thought I'd share it. 😉 Don't hold your breath till the next one, though - wouldn't want any of you suffocating.)

I'm not sure it would be illegal here in the UK to be fair, but I couldn't be bothered going to check this out offline and I don't rightly trust online sources and can't read tons of legalese on official sites.

Kudos to you and to Germany though!

WOW - Kudos to Germany...thats odd even for me to say!
 
I stopped coming here to Buffy Boards because of this thread and most likely won't participate as regularly as I had in the past. (You can all start cheering now)

I'd like to thank Relic for taking up the "This is absolutely WRONG" stance and defending it so valiantly. I have no tolerance for either pedophiles or anarchists (as noted in the tone of my previous posts on this matter) yet I'd like to take this opportunity to apologize simply because I was RUDE.

I do however think that if there was ever a topic to get rude about, the abuse of children is it.

I never advocated burning these folks at the stake, but the law is there to protect people too young to make these decisions for themselves.

I'd say and probably did state earlier that I have had first hand experience with victims of child abuse and it is easily the worst possible trauma that anyone can go through - period. It's unconcionable to think of protecting the right of so few to be skanky with a cell phone over the need to protect so many children.

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I stopped coming here to Buffy Boards because of this thread and most likely won't participate as regularly as I had in the past. (You can all start cheering now)

I'd like to thank Relic for taking up the "This is absolutely WRONG" stance and defending it so valiantly. I have no tolerance for either pedophiles or anarchists (as noted in the tone of my previous posts on this matter) yet I'd like to take this opportunity to apologize simply because I was RUDE.

I do however think that if there was ever a topic to get rude about, the abuse of children is it.

I never advocated burning these folks at the stake, but the law is there to protect people too young to make these decisions for themselves.

I'd say and probably did state earlier that I have had first hand experience with victims of child abuse and it is easily the worst possible trauma that anyone can go through - period. It's unconcionable to think of protecting the right of so few to be skanky with a cell phone over the need to protect so many children.

Uncle Rory

This isn't about child abuse, which I am confident most people on this board are appalled at the idea of, this is about someones freedoms being taken away because they decided to do something that really shouldn't be illegal.

IF the girl had been forced by anyone, then you would have an argument, but the whole thing seems to suggest it was her own idea.

No one here condones child abuse at all, BUT someone sending a picture of themselves to someone else should not now, or ever be illegal IF the content isn't hurting anyone.
 
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Actually, since the thread has popped back up......
There's been a giant rash of news reports on this sort of thing lately. Apparently, they're cracking down everyplace on it because it is happening so often.
The story a week or so ago was of a girl who sent a pic of herself to her boyfriend who, like kids tend to do, forwarded it to everyone he knows. The girl ended up killing herself and the parents are all for this law.
When they interviewed her friends and kids around here for the news story, they ALL said that this happens all the time.
That "everyone knows" that when you get one of these "sexting" messages that you forward them on. That it's just another way for kids to tease each other.
They Photoshop or Gimp words on them and send them all over the place. And see nothing wrong with this.
And, all these kids say they start with things like a girl friend sending a boyfriend a photo and then they break up and the guy wants to "get back" at her or just forwards it to his friends to show how "cool" or "hot" the girl is.

I'll go try to find some links to some of these stories for you. So, I'm not just rambling. But, I would bet if you googled "Sexting" you could come up with more than I could possibly post.
And that's not even counting if these pics are getting into the hands of child molestors.

Her teen committed suicide over sexting™ - Parenting Family

Teen sexting
 
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