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...for I haven't got a clue...

valentines near...and i'm feeling the mood...so you should to...

tell us...the one action...the single moment...that the a person you like..becomes the person that you love...

what does a person have to do...to steal your heart??
 
urm... protecting me.. or smot.. doesn't take alot for me to have my heart stolen.. and then they crush into tiny pieces😀... (so.. not feeling the whole 'valentines' thing..)
 
Ummm thats a good question... I don't trust too many people... It's hard to earn my trust, in the sense of, earning my heart... But basically, I don't know... Doing something to prove that you are different than everyone else... That theres a reason I should give you my heart I guess...
 
Gotta go with Amber on this one. Trust is a big thing. Get me to relax and for once show someone my feelings. To be all serious and tell me to stop being cold. Don't get me wrong, I don't want them to change me, but let me know that it's okey to share everything with them without them running away screaming. It's nice when you are able to do that, but then again the crushing of the heart into tiny peices, as Danio put it, tends to follow in your footsteps and before you know it. There is no more sharing.
 
To me, it's not just one thing, its a combination of many things. I don't think I could pinpoint the one thing that made me fall in love with someone.
 
...feed me (and feed me well🙂)...simple needs...uncomplicated man 🙂

Seriously, when you feel comfortable with someone - that includes the whole trust thing btw...
 
be different from the crowd, stand up for what you beleave in but beleave in it for the right reasons. oh and live to laugh! (if you don't know the last one i'll teach ya!)

egad im too deep!
 
Be comfortable with yourself, believe in what you're saying and have opinions and be smart (in ways) but don't feel the need to show it all the time. (Oh, and don't act like you're the most original and special person ever, that's just such a cliché..) Make me feel relaxed and like I'm a real person and like my opinion matters and that I can be smart, sort of.. But don't be too "kind" and "nice", (if you let me treat you bad I will, and that's not a good thing, and then I won't like you either, so)..
 
Oh dear, well...just to be clear this is different from what we are attracted to...

Be there for me when I need you, always include me so I don't feel left out when we're together with other people, share something with me you don't feel like you can share with anyone else, and give me your heart.

Time to go wallow in dispair now...thanks SG for bringing us down this road of depression with you... 😉
 
its not hard to for me to fall for a guy...it usually just takes the guy being himself and being there when i need him most. It doesn't take alot at all.
 
People who talk too much and who show a lot of emotions scare me, so that's not the bestest way to my heart.
I do appreciate those who have lots of oppinions and that are not afriend to stand for what they believe in. But not those who love to hold looong monologues about their intelligence.
A revolutionist mind and a rebellious soul, is what I want (and need). But also someone who is not afraid to show me some sweet lovin', preferably when we're alone cause I'm not so keen on displaying cordiality in public.
Oh and someone who likes, no; LOVES my cooking cause I love cooking.

And finaly, don't be a manipulative, bossy bitch. I can't stand that. Be free for crying out loud, and let me be free.
 
I think I'm taking my answer back and agreeing with KD. Just got back from a long celebratory business lunch wherein drinks and good food were had and I'm thinking those may be the two most important things to a long lasting happy relationship 😀
 
killerdwarf said:
I'm with Mr. P, ***deepens voice*** FEED ME! And ply me with alcohol...I'm much handsomer when I'm drunk...
You're much handsomer when I'm drunk too 😛🙂
 
K
killerdwarf
Thanks, du...HEY!
Well... I'll have to say choco milk!!!

Nah, in all seriousness, say something nice once in a while... it goes a long way! 😉 OM knows what I'm on about.
 
like what buff said...i'm attracted to tough and yummy...but...

compassion...nothing is more real...that's how you steal my heart...by being a compassionate person that doesn't think twice to help somebody...
 
Someone that i'm comfortable enough with to share things, who see's me for who I am not what I am. He needs to be able to make me laugh in the subtle way, no over the top jokers. The quickest way to my heart is a bottle of Jack Daniels and an excellent guitar solo 😀
 
E
elmo
That's why you're the soolest scot alive!!!
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