I'm not willing to talk about this beyond what I share here (and I believe this is the first time I've ever shared this online), but I will share this only as a throwaway random fact: thanks to my grandmother arranging it, I was a Girl Scout Brownie and Junior. After the neighborhood girls shunned me, this was about the only real interaction I had with females my age, and it was a positive experience for me at first. My later BFF would join as part of her church group but she hated it. We essentially left it together and were besties for years.
Oh yeah, I will share my grandmother thought it was shady (I believe some would say dodgy) when we were taken to a ranch to earn horse riding badges and were expected to pay a lot just to be able to show up, more to actually ride a horse. My parents refused to pay it, and Granny paid the first part, but after more money was being charged (and an outrageous rate) she said no, and called the Scouts I was with and said even with the price of gas they could ride up to her place and ride horses for less than what they were paying (or making parents and grandparents pay). I don't know anything about it other than what my grandmother told me, but I was left out of things that cost a lot of money after that. My memory is fuzzy on all that, but in retrospect I agree that does sound shifty.
I figure I should add that I was shunned by neighborhood girls when I was 6-10 (I'd join GS when I think I was 7, left a few months before I turned 11, and then I was pulled into the crowd my best friend was already apart of at the school we went to).