My husband wanted to comment, but he's not allowed to join the forum yet (as he's just reached The Body for the first time, and we're trying our best to avoid spoilers). 😛 His opinion definitely falls into the minority's, but here it is: "The episode was a good concept, but he tried too hard, and therefore all the stylistic interpretations of what death feels like take away from the viewer's actual connection with the characters' emotions. There were some moments of believability (I did find myself tearing up during Anya's speech and Xander's encounter with the wall, which I can relate to), but they were so few and far between that overall I feel that Joyce was not given a proper exit scene. It is impossible to accurately convey on film how a person feels when someone close to them passes away, and getting close only serves to detach the viewer from the personal connection that we feel in nearly every other episode. ... The lack of music and out of the ordinary camera movements perhaps convey a sense of confusion that comes with a death, but in the context and frequency with which they were used, they make the episode seem like a 'demo,' a rough draft that would be referenced when filming the 'actual episode.'"
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My opinion, however, is a combination of that of the norm and that of my beloved's. ;-p I feel that Joss' goal in this was something that would sting us emotionally as would the death of loved one of our own, and I feel this is accomplished in the initial viewing (as well as every subsequent viewing), but that it was not something that has stuck with me since the last time I viewed this episode, as do the emotions I've experienced from other episodes (ie: Seeing Red). I believe the no-music and, as my husband put it, 'out of the ordinary camera movements' contributed largely to the realism, or rather surrealism, one feels in such a tragic scenario, almost as though it really could have all been a terrible nightmare, the way we feel the next day (or in the middle of the night when we wake up crying after such an event), thinking there is no way what we are remembering could have been real, like I'd wake up and go running into my mother's room just to see her sleeping soundly, breathing softly, only to realize... 'she's gone.' It is for that reason that I rate this episode highly: not because it sticks with me, not because it has any resemblance to the quick-witted or action-packed experience I expect from Joss (even in the life or death, down right depressing and gut wrenching, 'leaf on the wind' moments), but because it captured the 'no way this is real' feeling in such a real way.
(I'm not the review critic my husband is, I just speak, err type what I feel.)