The readers and fans that believe firmly in the Buffy-Spike relationship will continue to hold firm to that belief - because that relationship was infinitely more compelling and complex than a simple romantic love. The viewers and now current readers of the comic book season will continue to be engaged by the journey of transformation that Spike and Buffy took together. While it would have been terrific to have their romantic/love confirmed, in the end, it is not something that is really needed.
You hit the nail on the head. It was clear to me Buffy and Spike loved each other. It was obvious to
me that they shared something special and trans formative. Who cares what Joss thinks. I respect him, but at the end of the day - the story belong to the fans. We take what we want from it. We see what we want in it. It is whatever we want it to be. It's
our story. Buffy and Spike? They're, for us, perfect, immortal and true, destined to be together (no universe intervention involved).
Spuffies don't need a 'forever' love. Bangels base their love for the couple on the unwavering belief that, in the end, the two will end up together. The Spuffies, on the other hand, have an unwavering belief that Buffy and Spike were true love, even though we don't care if they end up together 'in the end' (by and large). In other words, how we think their relationship will 'end' does not determine why we love them. We ship Spuffy
as it was ; perfect love, in our eyes, anyway.
The fans devoted to their relationship will continue to love these two characters, and we will always believe that these characters shared a truly powerful and complex and utterly rich life journey. Buffy and Spike brought to the television audience one of the most complex, compelling and dramatic life and love stories ever - that is something that will never change.
*nods vigorously* This statement deserves double-karma. This is EXACTLY how I feel as well. There's a reason why Spike and Buffy continue to fascinate people - old and new fans alike. Joss never meant, I don't think, it do what he did. For him, Buffy was all about her and Angel's love - that was the whole point - but in the process, he created something much better and much more interesting - Spuffy. Their love trumped anything Buffy and Angel ever had and will ever have, imo.
The thriving online Spuffy fandom should be a testament to the power this couple still has on the its fans. The Bangel fandom can't touch it.