Ok, you all will probalby think I'm nutso for this, but I really think that she would be happy with Xander. Think about it. Who's been with her from the beginning?? Xander and Willow, and I really don't see buffy being gay. They've been through everything together and he's proved time and time again how much he cares about her, and how worthy he would be of her. Also, if you noticed, they're both single at the moment. I really doubt An's gonna take him back. There's still love there, but I don't think she'll ever be able to forgive him, and Buffy and Spike just won't be able to work because he'll still be "young" when she's like 90. Same with Angel, plus the whole, Angel's evil Angelus right now. Riley's married, Oz and her just wouldn't work out, they'd always be thinking about Willow probalby, Tara's dead, Parker's an ass hole, and Giles, well EWWWWW!!
So, see, they should be together. Fate is pushing them together, it has been for awhile now, just not very noticably. Well, now I've shared my thoughts. I'll shut up now. But think about it....
Cate