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Silum

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So I just did a really really stupid thing.

Talking to my sister who was asking a few questions, I sent an email on facebook to her talking about a girl I met while i was away last week. Not in any great detail, but enough.

Write out the email. Put a subject in. Go to select the 'To:' line. Select the person I was thinking about. Send.

Unfortuantely I was thinking about the girl I just met instead of my sister. ...I freaking sent an email to a girl I barely know discussing various things about her... I need to be yelled at right now for my stupidity...either that or hugged...ive been single for ages and this is what I do. I really am the stupidest man on this planet.

<bangs head against wall>
 
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BillyidolwannaB
Aaargh that would be horrible. Sorry, no advice from me but you have my sympathy ;-)
caitaintdead
caitaintdead
Big hug from me! I did the same thing but with a text message a couple of years ago but mine was much worse... Believe me!
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Harley
i think its adorable...
I can relate, many times when texting on my phone I'll mention something bad about a person I know and then send them that text. Not good times. Who knows though maybe she'll see it as a sign to get with you.
 
Bad mistake all right but for all you know she might see the funny side in it or you could say you did it on purpose to get her attention or something, im sure you will think of something just bring in the charm 😉
 
Now change your facebook status to something about her, and include your plans for a future marriage in your "About Me" section. If I understand women (and I clearly don't), she'll be yours forever at that point.
 
Revolver said:
Now change your facebook status to something about her, and include your plans for a future marriage in your "About Me" section. If I understand women (and I clearly don't), she'll be yours forever at that point.
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That would be really really balsy lol.... especially considering weve been 'together' less than a week. I think I should change my staus though now that I think about it
 
Ok first of all *hugs you*...since you need one 😉

Second of all...you say that what you wrote wasn't in great deatil but was it positive or negative?
 
Kean said:
Ok first of all *hugs you*...since you need one 😉

Second of all...you say that what you wrote wasn't in great deatil but was it positive or negative?
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I said quite a few things positive, i talked about how shes got a really nice heart and really kind... but I was talking to my sister and babbeling away a little, about things im not even sure too. Like my sister asked if she was christian and I told her yes...when im not entirely sure, not only that I called her apathetic haha.... yea im screwed.

I feel really crap right now, ohh well, guess it wasnt meant. Ill keep you guys posted anyway on the inevitable destruction
 
Silum said:
I said quite a few things positive, i talked about how shes got a really nice heart and really kind... but I was talking to my sister and babbeling away a little, about things im not even sure too. Like my sister asked if she was christian and I told her yes...when im not entirely sure, not only that I called her apathetic haha.... yea im screwed.

I feel really crap right now, ohh well, guess it wasnt meant. Ill keep you guys posted anyway on the inevitable destruction
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Don't think negative, you'd be amazed of a woman's reaction. If she's really interested in you she might take it as a very good signal, I mean the fact that you were already talking about her with your sis after a week of knowing each other 😉 I think it might turn out good for you buddy 🙂
 
Silum said:
I said quite a few things positive, i talked about how shes got a really nice heart and really kind... but I was talking to my sister and babbeling away a little, about things im not even sure too. Like my sister asked if she was christian and I told her yes...when im not entirely sure, not only that I called her apathetic haha.... yea im screwed.

I feel really crap right now, ohh well, guess it wasnt meant. Ill keep you guys posted anyway on the inevitable destruction
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Ok, you are so not necessarily screwed. If you really like her and want to see what happens I would send her another email.

I'm guessing she will think the first one was actually cute (the apathetic remark will need some work though). Email her saying you are sorry about it. That, obviously, the email wasn't for her but she was on your mind (be sure to emphasise that) when you sent it and that's why your back now hoping you haven't messed up cuz you really like her.

If she questions you about the Christian thing and the apathetic thing tell her what you told us here.

If she is worth it she should get it cuz we have ALL been there. I have lost count the amount of times I have sent things to the people I was writing about instead of the person the email/txt was intended for.

Good Luck!
 
Yeah, I see that as a sure GOOD sign, no jokes or sarcasm at all here.

If I got that email, and I was that girl, I'd be feeling pretty coy. I say, wait. Wait and see what she says. Did you email her back explaining your mistake?

I think you're in there, dude. Don't be so negative.
 
That and I've seen much dumber things done on facebook. A girl I used to work with at a restaurant put pictures of herself up on facebook getting drunk in the restaurant's walk-in cooler while she was working one night.....and our boss was one of her facebook friends and naturally saw it immediately. THAT is facebook stupidity.

You may be allright yet. Who knows? I've spent a lot of time in my life worrying about things that may or may not occur. It's an easy trap to get yourself into, but try not to get yourself worked up before she's even responded.
 
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Silum
true, i guess ill have to wait. Still....it was an almighty scream that came out when i first noticed her name on the To line.
Yea, I emailed her right back after about 10mins. Said sorry, that my sister is protective of me and that 'well if you didnt guess already...turns out i like you' lol....

Very suave silum... what a douche
 
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Revolver
Don't call Silum a douche!
Silum said:
Yea, I emailed her right back after about 10mins. Said sorry, that my sister is protective of me and that 'well if you didnt guess already...turns out i like you' lol....

Very suave silum... what a douche
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Not necessarily...alot of girls would find that adorable. Be positive!
 
I am feeling better (hence creating this thread) so thanks, even if ur all telling me what i want to hear. I suppose it could be worse
 
Here, Si. This will cheer you up. Laugh at the silly dog. Haha.

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2BgjH_CtIA"]YouTube - Bizkit the Sleep Walking Dog[/ame]
 
LOL Awww, sorry to hear about the mess-up but it definitely happens. *HUGS* Hope it works out well for you!
 
Early days yet Silum....I've held on to man-boys that have done worse....

Damn, what does that say about me.....?

Anyway, I think she'll see it as kinda cute. What can I say? It's the type of thing when you're first starting to see someone, if you really like them, you want to know what they think about you, and if you said positive things, that will bode well.

Maybe it's a fun story you tell the grandkiddies one day 😉

Hang in there! *hugs*
 
Like everyone else said... All will be fine. Us girls are strange! We like things like that and find it very flattering and sweet. I think you may be suprised at her responce (sw)
 
^ Strange? (sw) We're more thant just strange Nix. You know that!
 
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