Thoughts on "Ted":
This episode"¦ugh"¦ticks me off. Not the concept of the episode or the theme, those I actually like (or don't mind). It's more the execution.
For starters, Buffy's decisions in the first two acts of this episode boggle the mind a bit. I know she's a teenager, but she's not a little kid, and she's proven how much she can handle. If Ted had threatened me like that on the golf course I would have either hit him or gone to my Mom immediately. Either way a scene would have been caused, and an ultimatum posed. I mean, if you're Buffy, your own personal safety aside, as soon as he said that would you have wanted your Mom with that guy? No. Chance. And when she does tell her Mom, and her Mom doesn't believe her, she essentially just lets it go. Oh, I would have been pissed. Beyond pissed.
Which leads me to my next complaint. Is Joyce one of the worst supposedly "good" parents of all time? Seriously, the amount she screws up or just doesn't seem to get is staggering. I know she's eating Ted's drugged food, but so were Willow and Xander, and they both listened to Buffy ("Hey, we can do that thing anytime. I'm tired of doing that thing. We're on." That whole scene was priceless). So obviously those cookies can be overcome. Joyce just chooses to ignore her own daughter when she's telling her a guy is threatening her. Not only that, but calls her a liar. That's, to put it bluntly, inexcusable. Everything that happens from that point on is essentially Joyce's fault. That got me thinking back to some of the conversations she's had with Buffy since the beginning of the series and she's always harping on Buffy, making her feel guilty for Joyce being a single Mom, constantly reminding her of the mistakes she's made. That's pretty bad.
Oh, and Giles takes a shot from a crossbow and just gets up? Wow, he's a LOT tougher than I thought he was. Seriously, from that range a crossbow would rip you in half (and don't get me started on the sheer stupidity of using crossbows in close combat at all"¦).
Not a horrible episode, but there's so much about it that just pisses me off it's hard to enjoy. I felt horrible for Buffy the whole way through, but angry at her at the same time for the way she handled, or didn't handle, things. If she'd used her head things never would have gotten as far as they did.