Vent Here Some More!

[Abbeycat]

Yeah, well I don't know about that. Maybe. But, still it felt kinda weird for me to go through the trouble of sending a pm and waiting a week before I said anything, thinking they may be busy or something and then just not hear anything at all. Kinda made me feel bad and also made me feel like I might have been bothering or something.

Now, I just feel like nobody wants to make me one at all.

Maybe PM her one more time.

 

[Buffy Summers]

Guys, let's get back on the topic here and take it to pm's. Maybe the person hasn't even been on the board, or been busy. Try a little understanding before jumping to conclusions 😉

 

[Willow My Love]

Wow, no need to be rude. Darla has a good point.

My only vent is against insomnia. I can't sleep while my person is sound asleep next to me looking like a little angel. I'm jealous and annoyed...

 

[Tillow4ever]

My neck is TOTALLY killing me! I just got a new pillow today, but of course, I left it in the car! 🙁

 

[Skanky Vamp]

Not so much a vent but more like a cautionary tale of numero bro... so, to all the little boys and girls out there in cyberland heed these words:

never decide when you cannot see straight at 2am to grab a pair of scissors and give yourself a hair cut. 15 minutes later you will wonder what you did! Trust me, I speak from experience. ::grow hair, grow::

 

[caitaintdead]

Cyclone heading my way and I don't know what to wear. I'm not sure what is worse. I am pathetic.

 

[November]

I've just been out in the 40C heat and then pouring rain with my sick pony. She's got colic 🙁 Another bill I dont need, but I love my pony. I almost had to cancel dinner tonight but thanks to a very good friend I can still go out while she keeps an eye on Phoebe pony.

Now Im sat soaking wet with a blood nose and feral hair. I have no idea how Im going to be half presentable tonight. I spose this day can only get better.

Oh yeah, and the cyclone.

 

[zobothehobo]

My high e string broke. That's what I get for playing too passionately.

 

[Marisa]

Being quiet when I know I should say something. Man the dilemma's of when to speak up.

 

[soulunsung]

Tasha agrees: ooh beautiful banner!

Aw, thank you so much. I totally love it. 🙂

And now getting back on track before I'm well, anyway...looking for something I lost and can't find is really starting to bug me a bit. Ugh. I know where I put it, I just can't catalog it in my brain.

 

[msfantastico87]

I hate receiving/sending money through Western Union. They have messed up the locations on it so many times and I clearly wrote out the location on the stupid paper...CLEARLY AND LEGIBLY! *sigh* And now they are telling me that I have sent/received too much money in the last 6 months and I am not able to send anymore because they are linking it to criminal activity...um, hello! Poor college student with no food!! =/

 

[Tasha]

Kay, i've been eating healthy and excercising for 2 and a half weeks now. And then BAM, binge eating kicks in. 🙁 I thought i had moved past this stage. Feel so angry at myself. Really really angry. It's so embarssing how food can have that kind of control over me. Whyyyy 🙁

 

[Christopher]

Kay, i've been eating healthy and excercising for 2 and a half weeks now. And then BAM, binge eating kicks in. 🙁 I thought i had moved past this stage. Feel so angry at myself. Really really angry. It's so embarssing how food can have that kind of control over me. Whyyyy 🙁

I'm willing to bet that it is down to boredom in your case.

 

[zobothehobo]

Kay, i've been eating healthy and excercising for 2 and a half weeks now. And then BAM, binge eating kicks in. 🙁 I thought i had moved past this stage. Feel so angry at myself. Really really angry. It's so embarssing how food can have that kind of control over me. Whyyyy 🙁

Me too! I've been doing really well for a little bit now... and then BAM yesterday happens and all I want to do is eat. And it's not even healthy food. I've got healthy food but the thought of eating me makes me feel sick... and I've been eating unhealthy crap. And it sucks. I get so mad 'cause I know I shouldn't, but I really can't stop. I feel like a fat blob that has no control over herself at all... the food has ALL the control. It's awful.

 

[arabella]

Me too! I've been doing really well for a little bit now... and then BAM yesterday happens and all I want to do is eat. And it's not even healthy food. I've got healthy food but the thought of eating me makes me feel sick... and I've been eating unhealthy crap. And it sucks. I get so mad 'cause I know I shouldn't, but I really can't stop. I feel like a fat blob that has no control over herself at all... the food has ALL the control. It's awful.

Don't let a bad choice turn into a defeat. Just because you chose poorly a few times does not mean that you must continue to do so. Its a marathon, not a sprint and you are always in control of what you put in your mouth. You can do it!

Also, grrrr at joint pain! I want to go play!
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[Wishing Oceans]

Me too! I've been doing really well for a little bit now... and then BAM yesterday happens and all I want to do is eat. And it's not even healthy food. I've got healthy food but the thought of eating me makes me feel sick... and I've been eating unhealthy crap. And it sucks. I get so mad 'cause I know I shouldn't, but I really can't stop. I feel like a fat blob that has no control over herself at all... the food has ALL the control. It's awful.

🙁 One thing that might help... Don't buy any unhealthy food. If it's there, you'll always feel a pull.

I never really liked food (lol) so binging has never been a problem for me, but I don't think it's much different from, say, compulsively biting your nails. I bit my nails for a LONG time; I think I eventually got over it by always wearing nail polish.

I think what you want to ask yourself is "Why do I want to eat all this unhealthy food?" If it's comfort food, just try a different approach. Maybe go on a walk, or watch some Buffy. 🙂

Anyway, Yoda moment over! Lol 😛

 

[zobothehobo]

🙁 One thing that might help... Don't buy any unhealthy food. If it's there, you'll always feel a pull.

I never really liked food (lol) so binging has never been a problem for me, but I don't think it's much different from, say, compulsively biting your nails. I bit my nails for a LONG time; I think I eventually got over it by always wearing nail polish.

I think what you want to ask yourself is "Why do I want to eat all this unhealthy food?" If it's comfort food, just try a different approach. Maybe go on a walk, or watch some Buffy. 🙂

Anyway, Yoda moment over! Lol 😛

Yesterday, I didn't have unhealthy food in the house. I wanted ice cream. I dug through the mounds of trash on my floor to find money, walked to the store and bought some ice cream. Then I came home and ate it. The grocery store being so close to me makes the "don't buy it" approach very difficult.

"Why do I want to eat all this unhealthy food?" is the hardest question I've ever been asked. I really have no idea.

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Don't let a bad choice turn into a defeat. Just because you chose poorly a few times does not mean that you must continue to do so. Its a marathon, not a sprint and you are always in control of what you put in your mouth. You can do it!

Also, grrrr at joint pain! I want to go play!
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It's just sometimes it doesn't feel like I'm in control. I just ate a bunch of cookies... I didn't want to eat them... they're not even all that good... but I did eat them. It's just so difficult sometimes.

 

[arabella]

It's just sometimes it doesn't feel like I'm in control. I just ate a bunch of cookies... I didn't want to eat them... they're not even all that good... but I did eat them. It's just so difficult sometimes.

You are choosing to dis-empower yourself with this thinking. You are in control. You choose what you eat or don't eat. Making good choices isn't easy, but if it is worth it to you, you will do it. You can do it, it is within your abilities. When you are triggered, monitor your thoughts and challenge the unhelpful, out-of-control thoughts with positive, rational statements. Think of some ahead of time.
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[Buffy Summers]

Why don't you guys start a thread on this topic? 🙂

 

[zobothehobo]

On twitter, I was talking to a friend I have a while back and she called me "the spuffinator" because I love Spuffy so much and told me to change my twitter username to that. I did, but the plan was always to go back to zobothehobo. I've been terrified someone's going to take zobothehobo because it's such an awesome name... and today my fears came true. zobothehobo has been taken so I'm stuck as spuffinator. Not that I don't like spuffinator... it's just come on? Zobothehobo is freaking awesome! And it's me. I AM zobothehobo. That's how people know me ALL over the internet. It's my username here, it's my email, it's my username on all my other forums (except one Taylor Swift ones I'm on, my username there is Spuffy), it's my domain name, and it was my twitter name. Zobothehobo is who I am.

BananaBuffy agrees: Awww, Zoe! You'll get it back. Crossing my fingers. "hugs"

Thanks hun! I'm crossing mine too! I sent her this post so hopefully she'll see it and decide that since zobothehobo is who I am on the internet, I kinda need it.