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SOMEONE was using my debit card and my bank alerted me (Well, my mother because her number is on there.) They noticed spending patterns that weren't my normal spending patterns and crap.

This has never happened to me before! But it sucks! Sucks real bad.
 
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Willow My Love
I've had that happen. My bank refunded the money I didn't spend.
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soulunsung
Ugh! That does suck arse! I feel for ya and I hope you and the bank gets this mess straightened out.
My aunt needs to leave me alone and stop talking about my mother when she's not here to defend herself. Really, she just needs to stop being a selfish bitch and realize that I don't care that she lives here. I don't come here for her at all. I come here because my grandmother needs my help, and I owe it to her to help her. I can, and I want to help my grandmother. If this situation arises with my great aunt, I'm not helping her. I'm not doing everything I do for my grandmother for her. Not gonna happen. I don't owe her anything.

Taking care of a grandparent with dementia is hard enough. Why does this woman insist on making my life hell while I'm here?!
 
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soulunsung
Oh my god! I know EXACTLY what you mean. I helped my gran take care of my grandfather when he was sick for the last year of his life - I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS. True facts. *hugs*
Willowmylove agrees: I've had that happen. My bank refunded the money I didn't spend.
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It sucks, doesn't it?! My bank is going to do that. Their going debit it out and then give me credit or something. They picked up on it so quickly and I'm glad they did.

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Willowmylove said:
My aunt needs to leave me alone and stop talking about my mother when she's not here to defend herself. Really, she just needs to stop being a selfish bitch and realize that I don't care that she lives here. I don't come here for her at all. I come here because my grandmother needs my help, and I owe it to her to help her. I can, and I want to help my grandmother. If this situation arises with my great aunt, I'm not helping her. I'm not doing everything I do for my grandmother for her. Not gonna happen. I don't owe her anything.

Taking care of a grandparent with dementia is hard enough. Why does this woman insist on making my life hell while I'm here?!
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Eek. Sorry about your Aunt making things worse. My stepmoms aunt had dementia and when it got worse, it wasn't too long before she passed.
 
I can't rep you again, but my bank caught it too. Not too hard to figure out that a 17 year old girl wasn't visiting strip clubs... >.<

Gramma's had dementia for a while now. It's not getting better or worse, just kinda staying the same. But I don't need my aunt making it harder on the family than it already is. Gramma never recognizes me, but she recognizes, literally, everyone else. It's really hard on me, and my aunt making her snide comments and passive aggressive actions doesn't help one bit. I don't exactly aspire to spend every weekend here with a grandmother who doesn't know who I am. The thing she needs to know, is I'm NOT here for her. I'm here for Gramma.
 
Willowmylove said:
I can't rep you again, but my bank caught it too. Not too hard to figure out that a 17 year old girl wasn't visiting strip clubs... >.<

Gramma's had dementia for a while now. It's not getting better or worse, just kinda staying the same. But I don't need my aunt making it harder on the family than it already is. Gramma never recognizes me, but she recognizes, literally, everyone else. It's really hard on me, and my aunt making her snide comments and passive aggressive actions doesn't help one bit. I don't exactly aspire to spend every weekend here with a grandmother who doesn't know who I am. The thing she needs to know, is I'm NOT here for her. I'm here for Gramma.
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Hehe. Yeah, obviously a 17 year old wasn't visiting strip clubs. Mine was like paypal and I think some kind of download or phone thing. The bank noticed pretty quickly that these were not my spending patterns. Because I've got it down to a pattern/routine. I obviously go and spend at the same place often.


Right. I wish she wouldn't make it worse or harder on the family. That's definitely not something you guys need right now. Right. It's hard when your Gramma doesn't know who you are anymore. At some point, since my stepmoms aunt's dementia got worse we ended up putting her in a home. She started seeing things and stuff like that. She say these things that just didn't make sense. She try taking taxi's to the mall all the time. It just started to get so out of hand that we had to take her to a home.
 
oh, those pesky double standards.

Ugh! I cannot stand people who bitca about SOMEONE ELSE having double standards, but then turn around and display THEIR OWN brand of said double standards.

Frustrating. Really, it is.

And it's making me want to scream at them forever and ever. It's not like it's my fault that I have a difference in fandom opinion and I have the audacity to express it, which ultimately makes ME the bad guy. Whatever.

Pfft. I do not have time for this.
 
Abbeycat
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That stinks!
brinkster130
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I'll scream with you ;)
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I woke up this morning and my computer wouldn't turn on 🙁
 
The holidays are over. 🙁 Now it's just crappy weather for 2 months until March. Possibly the most depressing time of the year, no?
 
brinkster130
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i think so :(
I'm sick, I haven't been sick in a really long time but my sister came home with a cold and now we're all ill.. I didn't sleep well cos my throat hurts so much, I slept for a few minutes, Kyra Sedgwick ate spiderweb and got high... I hate being sick.
 
Just sick of feeling like this, why am i always so unhappy? I always have to put on a fake face everyday for people when i feel like killing myself.

I think i need help, i just don't know how i ask for it.
 
Washburne
Washburne
Aww swetie. If help sounds like a big of think, think of it like support. Everyone need that. And you got loads of online friends that would love to help you in any way they can. But more can be needed.
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This Year's Girl
You can do it! It's always hardest just before you do it, the doing part isn't really that difficult, it's more of a relief. And there's loads of people to talk to, conselours at your school, family, doctors, friends, telephone helplines...
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Willow My Love
All I'm saying is, we love you here. I, personally, would be very upset if you weren't around anymore.
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zobothehobo
Awwww I know how that feels. We love you. I'm going with Miki's advice.
This exam is killing me. If I'm reported missing under the last days to come you all know why. It was because I died of boredom.
 
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Tasha
thanks hun, i really appreciate it x
I might have to move again... so tired of this 🙁
 
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msfantastico87
Moving sucks. I feel your pain. I'd help ya but i'm like thousands of miles away!
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My roommate keeps complaining about this girl who did some horrible stuff to her. I feel for her, but it's ALL she's talked about for weeks now. I'm in my room pretending to sleep because I don't want to hear about it anymore. I just want to scream at her to shut up and get over it!
 
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I can't imagine what it'd be like if I was friend with Alyson Hannigan (cf the "when she cries it's impossible not to cry with her" conversation)
 
Bleh. I feel incredibly talentless now. I need to learn how to take criticism, but I just worked so hard on the layout and coding for the website (first time I've EVER done it all by myself, and not to be cocky, but it looked good!), and it was completely shot down.

I feel so crappy right now.
 
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soulunsung
Ugh! That sucks, I'm sorry bb. *hugs* It's no fun when something you've worked hard on is totally shot down.
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