She's hardly all-powerful if she got herself so messed up,
Being all powerful is what allowed her to get so messed up, she has to the power to skip an argument and she wrongfully used it, but the fact she could do it is that makes her all powerful. Also season 6 was 3 seasons ago, Willow now is an all powerful witch and has overcome the addiction side of magic, she doesn't use it in the same way she did in season 6.
and (I frankly don't know What books you have on this series, Sir) but if you read the Sourcebooks, even DarkWillow (Willow when she's bad) Wants to do and be good!
I've read very very few of the book, I don't think any of the books are cannon and only a few comics are cannon, so they are nothing but opinion pieces.
But yes you are right, Willow wanted to destroy the world, not to casue suffering, but becasue Giles opened her up to the worlds suffering and she wanted to stop it. She wanted to end suffering, yes it was a bad plan, and involved killing everyone, but there is logic to her terrible logic.
that leads to what I call her 'using a spell to drug Tara so they'd be sexually intimate'
This is incorrect and exactly why, for me, it's not rape.
She did not erase her memory to have sex with Tara, she erases her memory to skip the fight. After she does the spell, they cuddle up in bed, in their pyjamas, the scene doesn't indicate the start of sex.
It actually tries hard to do the opposite, they could have had angry sex while fighting, the scene instead shows the two of them cuddling up and being cozy, so as to show they aren't mad at one another, which was the exact purpose of the spell, to skip the fight.
Had Willow wanted to just have sex with Tara, she would have just done that spell Amy does in the Bronze a few episodes later, were she waves her hand and some random girl seemingly drops everything to go for Willow. Making her have sex seems to be an easy spell, but erasing a memory is a completely different spell, with a different agenda and it wasn't sexually motivated.
(That, Sir, is what I call her 'Crossing the line into Rape).- the authors actually came out in the interviews (on the DVDs) and said that magic is a metafore for: lesbian sex, addiction, drugs... and such.
Not always though, they have used the depiction of magic to give the viewer a visual connection to sex. Like the scene where Willow enters another world, were her and Tara are intense, panting, holing hands and sweating, till Willow falls backwards out of her body. The network the show was on wouldn't have allowed a scene of lesbian sex on air, we know that because Whedon has mentioned having to fight for their kiss in The Body, having this scene depict sex was a place holder for the actual action, a way around the television guidelines.
But magic isn't always a metaphor for Sex, addiction and drugs, sometimes it's just magic.
I am a little sensitive to consent issues and sexual misconduct, as you people may have guessed (I just don't like such behavior), and I consider (though I may be disagreed with), even Partial Consent (regarding intimacy) as Total Nonconsent!
I agree with you, the issue is very hard to navigate, and consent is a very important part of sex (THE most important), but the issue is that Willows spell was little more then a lie in real world application. There is no real world version of the spell.
If someone roofies someone and has sex, the person can't give consent. If someone forces themselves on someone while the person is opposed, there is no consent. But what Willow did, was have a fight with someone, roofie them so they forgot the fight and then sometime later slept with them, but the "roofie" wasn't used for sex, it was used to make the person forget the fight, get me?
A roofie makes a person unable to say no to sex.
Willows spell skipped a fight, it wasn't a sexually orientated spell.
As I said about Willow: she loves, but wrongly... oh, her love of Xander is propper, (she seems to percieve him as a brother of hers- in all but reality) and that's good! She seems to have a sister's love of Buffy by the way. To verify; consider their hanging-out style.
Maybe that's just me... but that's how I see it.
Her love of Tara is proper also, her love of magic during season 6 is the only problem when it comes to love for Willow.
Her relationship with Kennedy gets her back on track to being the most powerful person in the universe. Love is not her issue, it's power.
Skills Aren't Evil, it's what you Do with them that's good or evil... you cracked me up about the hacking sewege lines,. I was talking about the computers (other people's accounts and such... for instance: (and I am NOT threatening Anybody- this is just a scenerio) how would you feel if someone changed your password on a shopping website and ran up a bill for you? THAT'S Deeply Evil, by the way. (running up somebody else's credit card.)
I agree, but Willows never done that, presumably she could (or she could have in 1996 and computers lacking security)
As far as behavior- NOBODY in that series behaves themself right, totally; according to the essay books: Buffy has horrible problems with lust, Dawn in the series becomes a thief (Willow starts stealing magic ingreadents too). I think the reason Giles didn't kill Willow when she was brought back to England was that he recognized his darkness in that deed and said "NOT AGAIN! I Won't Do It! This homosidal trait Ends NOW!" to himself.
I definitely dont agree, except about Dawn, she did deal with a klepto period, but Buffy doesn't have issues with lust! She's slept with 4 people over the course of the show on tv, I dont like or think of her relationship with Spike as healthy, but she was with the one person and just enhjoyed sex with him - that by itself isn't a problem, but the show even shows she's using as a form of escapism, it's not a lust problem.
I dont think Willow counts as steeling, Giles didn't care.
And Giles didn't kill Willow becasue she is his friend, Giles has no problem with murder, we know that officially from season 8, Killing Willow would never have crossed his mind, and not becasue of a conscience, but becasue of friendship (and honestly, no one cares she killed Warren, they've be more horrified to know she killed Bambi at the start of the season. Some viewers care, but the scoobies dont care, me personally, I think he had it coming, so dont care she killed him, same why I dont mind Giles killed Ben, Buffy killed knights and Xander is responsible for the deaths in OMWF)