What are your good and bad qualities?

[VisionGuy]

I know what you're all thinking. Here's another thread where VisionGuy lists all his good qualities to make his head even bigger. Well you're all wrong! In this thread we also list our BAD qualities. If we learned something while watching Buffy is that everybody has good and bad in them. So let's hear what you have to say.

Good Qualities

Trustworthy
Funny
Generous
Honest
Attractive
Clever
Observant
Independant

Bad Qualities

Narcissistic
Spiteful
Confrontational
Manipulative
Impatient
Temperamental

 

[Angelic Slayer]

Nice Buffy reference, very true! So here's my list, all I could really think of but I did try to make it 50/50 to be fair. If I missed any bad ones feel free to correct me! :silly:

Good Qualities
Trustworthy
Friendly
Optimistic
Hard Working
Dependable
Honest

Bad Qualities
Gullible
Indecisive
Control Freak (not to the point of it hurting relationships, but all the same)
Irritable; especially while under stress
Procrastinator
Easily Distracted

 

[Bluebird]

Ok, I'll play

My Good Qualities -

Loyal
Patient
Generous
Considerate of Others
Enthusiastic



My Bad Qualities -

Lazy
Cynical
Arrogant
Not Trusting People
Oh and I'm very very evil don't-cha-know?😉

 

[white avenger]

(I like to think that...) My good qualities are

I'm loyal to my friends
I'm unselfish
I have a very vivid imagination
I try to be honest without offending anyone
I've never set myself up as being better than anyone else

My bad qualities (at least the ones that I admit to) are

I tend to procrastinate
I often rant about subjects that I feel strongly about
I often overreact or exaggerate situations
Given the opportunity, I can be disgustingly lazy

 

[Willow Rosenberg]

Bad qualities? *smiles innocenlty* I don't have any of those! 😉

Good Qualities

• Good listener
• Loyal
• Honest & Trustworthy
• Generous
• Loving
• Friendly
• Helpful

Bad Qualities

• Find it hard to say no
• Perfectionist
• Moody
• Quick tempered
• Find it hard to let people get close to me
• Lack self confidence
• Shy

 

[Joyce Summers]

Okay, I'll bite. Haha.

Good Qualities
-Friendly
-Loyal
-Trustworthy
(Okay so far I have the qualities of a pet dog....)
-Family oriented
-Smiley...even when being negative, haha.
-Motherly (This is also listed in bad, haha)
Considerate

Bad Qualities
-Neurotic...at times. It happens okay?
-Sarcastic
-Paranoid at times regarding relationships- friendships, romance, family.
-Motherly (Because it can be a bad thing sometimes I'll admit)
-Over imaginative. HOURS can go by without me realizing it as I go off in what my 12th grade teacher told my Mom was 'My special place'.
-Babbling (Especially in situations where you REALLY shouldn't)
- I can be incredibly naive
-Perfectionist, not in my Mom's Symmetry is the Meaning of Life way, but rather a 'If you want something done you have to do it yourself' way.

Why is it easier listing bad qualities? This can't be good....

 

[Lyri]

Damn it, VG, why do you always come up with the tough threads? lmao

Ok, here we go *deep breath*

Good Qualities

Loyal
Understanding
Good Listener
Loving
Generous
Patient
Trustworthy
Friendly

Bad Qualities

Quick Tempered
Bad Tempered ('cause sometimes they can be two different things)
Stubborn
Selfish (to a certain extent)
I tend to hold grudges for YEARS
Self conscious
Quick to judge people
I'm easily...OH! Shiny! Um, easily distracted.

 

[Aethra]

Good Qualities:
Caring
Loyal (with that comes the fact that I never gossip. If someone says "please don't tell anyone," I won't)
Friendly
Hard-working
Funny

Bad Qualities:
Lazy
I procrastinate a bit
Forgetful
What, I'm not stuborn! : erm :
I get pissed off very easily (as some of you have already learned)
I could stand to be a bit more punctual, even though I'm never more than a few minutes late, usually.
I'm anal about... everything
Picky eater
I talk a lot, though I usually know when to shut up.
Shy, at times
I've been known to hold grudges for... well, it's been six years now.
I put myself down a lot.

It is easier to list the bad ones...

 

[Buffanator]

Good Qualities

Good sense of humor
Generous
Honest (most of the time 😉 )
Attractive (somewhat)
Witty
Observant (when I feel like it)
Independent
Willing to Help
Great hygiene
Snappy dresser
Kinky


Bad Qualities

Narcissistic (can't get enough of me!)
Confrontational (esp. during PMSy times)
Manipulative (when I want something)
Forgetful (as hell)
Impatient (ALWAYS)
Suspicious (of others)
Dee-dee-dee (sometimes)
Daydreamer
Kinky

 

[Washburne]

Something to start with.

Good

Caring
Kind
Helpfull
Trustworthy
Honest
Punctual (being late is rude! 😉)
Loyal

Bad

Shy
(Too) Sarcastic
Easily irritated then tired (or extremly hungry)
Lazy
Procrastinator
Nosy
“Boring” (I know what I mean so shut up!)
Manipulating
Easily distracted and can´t concentrate.
Have a hard time trusting people
Babbling (then you get me to talk at all that is)
Overprotecting
Bad memory
Overthinking

 

[Tueuse de Vampires]

Since I think that no quality is ever just purely good or bad, I'm just gonna list my qualities

-smart
-naive
-hyperactive
-pessimistic
-friendly
-easygoing
-either really quiet or talking nonstop
-strange sense for morals
-lazy
-great memory skills


And I don't know if this is a real quality, but I do seem to fall asleep a lot in other people's bed...some say it's cute, others are really annoyed with it.

 

[Ripper 08]

hi

good qualities

i like to think im friendly, easy to approach, loyal, caring, and extremely emotional

bad qualities

i think my bad qualities are that i'm extremely emotional, take things to heart to much, extremly un-confidant and can be extremely quiet when i'm in a bad place

yes i no i listed extremely emotional in both but to me it has good sides and bad sides so is both

 

[Rebecca]

Here goes...

Good qualities:

Patient
Generous
Trustworthy
Punctual
Loving

Bad qualities:

Pessimistic
Sarcastic
Overly sensitive
Paranoid about certain things
Slightly obsessive about some things which I guess is a part of my addictive personality..which is also bad
Shy in some circumstances
Stubborn
Procrastinator
Easily distracted

I'm sure there's quite a few more bad qualities but I'm having trouble thinking right now.

 

[LorneyTunes]

Good Qualities

Trustworthy
Honest
caring
creative
Chatty
Friendly
I guess I'm funny in an obscure way


Bad Qualities


you have to earn my trust
Temperamental
emotional
bad spelling
saying the wrong things at the wrong times
clumsy
obcessed with things

 

[StuckinTraffic]

Hmmmm.

Good Qualities
Friendly
Loyal
Trustworthy
Fun
Generous


Bad Qualities
Selfish
Impatient
Argumentative
Procrastinator (BIG time, that's probably my worst thing)
Control Freak

 

[willow23]

Good
moderately amusing
Bad
snarky, overly sensitive, overly cerebral, lazy, and the biggest control freak you will ever come across

Yay?

 

[definition of insane]

Aww heck, why not?

The Good
Funny (well, I crack me up 😛)
Loyal
Efficient
Kind
Caring
Friendly
Independent
I get over things quickly...most of the time.
Shiny hair 😛

The Bad
Lazy
Messy
Daydreamer
Naive
Easily annoyed
Easily bored
Impatient

The Downright Ugly
Neurotic
Paranoid
Narcissistic and over analytical
Contradictory
Annoyingly emotional

And more insane than what anyone will ever realise....shhh!

 

[Yam Sham]

Well, how about I tell you my weaknesses?
I work too hard, I care too much, and sometimes, I get too invested in my work.

 

[Relic]

My good qualities are that I am friendly, kind, and imiganitive and I do so try to be fair.

My bad qualities are that in my attempts to be fair and with my poor skills at communication I sometimes come off as cold or small minded to strangers or maybe unloyal to friends. I don't like seeing my friends get hurt, so I speak up when I feel they are going down the wrong path. This next part might sound odd....I think maybe I should be vocal more often and apply the 'loud and proud' to not just my friends life but my own! Who knows maybe that is how you make friends? (seems hard outside the net ...not like its easy here either though.)

I guess I'm pretty insecure outside my element and very specific in what I consider my element. I think it makes me end up being a recluse that probably should contribute more to society....I'm trying to work on this though.

My stubborness has led some to believe I'm dumb and maybe I am...but I have potential! I'm also an optimistic in a pretty much pessamistic world. I've been led to believe that is bad thing, as I'm pretty trusting. Trying to work on that as well, sadly.

Man, I sorta sound like a bad guy. (I'd like to think I'm not though!)

Overall, I like me as a work in progress not a finished product.

 

[eponinethen]

Good ones:
Helpful
Honest (at least I think that's usually a good thing)
I'm a pretty good listener
I make people feel good about themselves

Bad ones:
Shy
Procrastinator
Pessimistic
Paranoid
Easily hurt
I think way way way too much, I guess that goes with the paranoia though
And oh yes I'm a control freak too, really really am..