What do you find sexy in everyday life?

[Joamna]

Hey everyone! Me and my friends are having a little talk about this, and I find it very interesting what people find attractive/sexy in everyday life. Is it something someone is wearing? Something they are doing? Something they are saying?

An example, I think that it can be sexy with people who wear totally ugly things, but the way they wear it (hm) makes it sexy.

 

[teentitan]

A person's smile but only when you know it's natural. You know the one where the eyes reflect/gleam with the smile.

 

[nerd4hire]

I was just going through this long list in my brain like backless gowns, torn, faded jeans, the color white, and Jessica Rabbit, but for every generality there's exceptions. What I find sexy others don't, and what's sexy in one person isn't necessarily so in another. Torn faded jeans might look sexy on one person, but on someone else they'd just look homeless. I prefer a woman with shape, but I've been attracted to the thin as a rail, big, brown gamin eyes type. Sometimes vulnerability is sexy, and sometimes it's a pain in the ass.

Basically, as far as sexiness goes, I know it when I see it, and what works for me, ain't necessarily so for someone else.

 

[definition of insane]

In terms of an everyday-type thing? A good scent.

I can walk by heaps of people without giving them a second glance but if someone passes me with a deodorant or cologne that smells nice I'll do a double take.

Also if they look you straight in the eye and smile and then look away...it's coy and cute.

 

[Old Master 3.0]

It's an odd thing really, but I've always found glasses on a woman's face to be totally sexy.
I can't put my finger on why.
Certainly something can be said for the conventional sharp mind, bottled scents, midriff shirts and low-rise jeans...but a pair of specs on a gal just does it for me everytime.

 

[eponinethen]

It's an odd thing really, but I've always found glasses on a woman's face to be totally sexy.

Oh me too, me too, hehe..

Clothes wise I find it sexy when people look as if they don't really care what they're wearing, that they look really comfortable in the clothes they wear. Say baggy jeans/trousers (on girls) and some top and/or hoodie.. As long as it's not in a "hey look at me and my cool style"-way, I think that can be very attractive.. Generally people looking comfortable and yet not in a lazy way..

Generally.. girls who act a bit geeky/dorky in a not too obvious way..

Hmm, cute/funny/smart/geeky girls who decide to travel to the other side of the world to see you..? (Hm, guess that's not really every day life though, heh..)


(Btw Joamna posted this thread as a dare, we played some drunken truth or dare last night, heh, guess it wasn't as daring/embarrassing as I would have pictured.. Good thread though! Heh)

 

[Lyri]

people who don't try too hard.
one huge turn off for me is a guy who stands in front of the mirror for hours until he perfects the 'i just threw this on' style. it looks the complete opposite.
i like guys who are comfortable enough to wear what they want, without the pressure of lables and what others are wearing.
someone who smells nice will turn my head every time.
and a guy who doesn't avoid eye contact...there's nothing worse than talking to someone who doesn't look you in the eyes.

 

[Slayergal]

I have to agree with Lyri and people who don't try too hard. I like guys who are comfortable being themselves and don't have to lie about who they are by wearing clothes they normally wouldn't wear or pretending to like all the same things you do. Major turn off when you know they are faking everything just to get your attention. Another thing I find sexy is a guy who rides horses especially race horses. Something about a guy who can handle a high strung race horse turns me on. Maybe it's because I've spent too much of my time around the race track working, I don't know.

 

[Randy Giles]

Well, I like it when hot girls don't act like they know they're hot...

And I like when girls wear the faded/destroyed jeans.

But honestly, after I talk to a girl, no matter how attractive she is, if I can sense she doesn't have very good values and is materialistic or snobby or hates kids, I suddenly find them not attractive at all. I'm attractive to girls who are nice, have morals and values, would like to have a family, etc.

 

[StuckinTraffic]

It's all about personality for me. What gets a second look are nice eyes and a nice, genuine smile (and I have a thing for hands for some reason ???), but if they don't have a good personality, I don't care how great looking they are.

 

[Randy Giles]

I think I know why you like hands.... 😉 *wink wink*

 

[white avenger]

To me, there has always been something terribly sexy about a beautiful woman (whatever your individual definition may be) wearing nothing but a man's shirt, just big enough to be almost decent.

 

[mogwaid]

Oh wow...hmm smiles, i like smiles.

And i like it when they can get somewhat excited and into things, when talking about things they're passionate about.

And it's sexy if they find your tv obsessions/internet obsession/general geekyness cute.

Oh i forgot to add:

I like it when i see them with kids/babies, and are generally having fun and enjoying themselves. I love that.

And when they are wearing anything (or nothing 😉) but can feel completely comfortable with me. Thats sexy. I think just generally being laid back is sexy.

 

[Xander]

Generally (althouh not always) I prefer girls with long hair. I dunno what it is. And I don't care whether its straight or kind of 'flicked' (see Joamna's sig). I suppose it links up with style. Its that oxymoronic idea that they need to look as if they've not put a great deal of effort into it, even if they have.

And I dunno what it is but theres something very sexy to me about a guy just wearing jeans, in a very casual way. Like you may do if you were just lounging around on a hot day.

 

[Darling Faithy]

For some real weird reason, I absolutely LOVE it when guys wear eyeliner, I think men are soo sexy in eyeliner. I also like the way a guy for no reason will smile at you after looking completely somber, omg it make me melt. I also find it adorable when they look really shy, and have a real deep intelligentl voice...omg lol.

 

[Randy Giles]

For some real weird reason, I absolutely LOVE it when guys wear eyeliner, I think men are soo sexy in eyeliner. I also like the way a guy for no reason will smile at you after looking completely somber, omg it make me melt. I also find it adorable when they look really shy, and have a real deep intelligentl voice...omg lol.

There's a character on Lost - an Other - who wears eyeliner. He looks really scary with wearing it. lol

 

[freakydorky]

Every single thing about my BF is sexy. The way he walks, talks, his gorgeous eyes, the eyebrow thing he does, his smile, his skin, the way he can be completely oblivious to how totally hot he is and how many girls want him, his shyness, the way he holds me 🙂 He's just everything sexy rolled up into the nicest guy I've ever met in my life 🙂