So much has changed since the last time Buffy's father appeared around. And I'm thinking how weird and intense it would be for Buffy if he had returned all of a sudden. How would Buffy react? And Dawn? What will Buffy tell him? What would be his reaction to Buffy and Dawn's life?
That would be pretty crazy if Hank showed up suddenly after all this time.
I believe Buffy would welcome him with open arms. She's always been so forgiving. She'd want an explanation for his absence, sure, but having her father back in her life? She'd love that, I'm sure.
Dawn, however, holds a pretty mean grudge, and she wasn't as close to Hank as Buffy was.
My question is; was Hank imprinted with memories of Dawn? If not, that'd make for a interesting situation; Buffy would have to explain the whole Key thing to Hank.
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In defense of Hank in one detail, not that I am defending him in general, he might have had no idea whatsoever that Joyce was dead. She was healthy the last time that we saw or heard anything about him, and if he is living in Europe, it's doubtful that he would be likely to read about it in any local paper. I got the impression that neither Joyce nor Buffy corresponded with him, so it's possible that he believed that everything was going along just fine back in Sunnydale. He might not have even heard about the town being "swallowed by a giant sink hole," which is, I believe what the press called it, or, if he did hear about it, by then had no way to get in touch with Buffy or Dawn.
This is a good point. I remember Buffy (or maybe Willow?) mentioning that they
tried to call Hank, but the number they had he was no longer at, or was disconnected. My understanding was that they simply lost touch with him and he never bothered to call them and tell Buffy where he was and give her a contact number for him in Spain. Now, obviously, that is no excuse, and don't think anyone is going to vote to give Hank the Parent of the Year award, but there is no indication that he had any idea that Joyce was sick, or that she had died, and certainly the situation in Sunnydale. Hank is your typical absent parent, sure, but we need to be careful in vilifying him.
I disagree that Buffy wouldn't want a relationship with him if he came back. Buffy has lost her mother and Giles - it seems likely she'd try to salvage any relationship she could with her father, regardless of how crappy he's acted in the past. He's still her father.
That said, having a relationship with him would be difficult, based on how much he knows about magic, vampires, and Buffy's true calling. How in the dark is Hank? He might be able to handle her being the Slayer, but telling him for the first time about the existence of magic and vampires? Her lifestyle? The people she spends time with? What happened before when he wasn't around? Needless to say it'd be over-welming. Not to mention Dawn...