I think i mentioned this elsewhere... but here goes.
Okay, the whole of the first act for me was sad!!! The line SMG delivers is great... the 'mom? mom? mummy?'... that got me right where it hurts (the heart incase anyone misinterprets it). And then actually seeing Joyce there... all lifeless and pale, it was disturbing, haunting and sad all at the same time. The eerieness of no music, it was uncomfortable but very real. I think Joss did a great job at getting the realness of the first few hours after the death of someone you love (personal experience can back that up). Also i think the point in which Buffy phones Giles is a real sad part too... she finaly acknowledged that after everything Giles is her father (although not biologically).
The act with Willow for me was the worse part though... i actually couldn't see though the tears. Ally did an amazing job. Ive said this before many a time... Ally has for me got to be one of the most emotional actresses i have ever had the honour of watching. She has it in her face... the awkwardness in the body language... the eyes! I also think the way she acts about the clothes, the whole focus on something so insignificant in the face of something major is very realistic. Also it was the first time on screen that Willow and Tara kissed... and placing it in an episode like this was the right thing to do i think. It was so understated and i think some people didn't realise until after... making it very special and comforting.
For me though the real tear part came when Anya gave her speach. My gosh did i cry. It was like when i lost my Uncle whom i loved dearly... i was about ten and i didn't understand it, and all around me people were upset but putting on brave faces, and i was kind of in a state of confusion... i didn't understand how he couldn't be back... where was he? What happened?
She delivered it perfectly! I think as well its the first time i really really liked her. I mean i had liked her but never really liked her, she was there but she was never in my heart... after that one scene she was! I think Anya needed something like that to make her less of an add on and more a part of the team.
The whole scene with Buffy and Dawn again made me go. I mean... Dawn grew up alot in that scene, and i think it was a turning point for the character. The whole scene was amazing. The way in which we dont hear Buffy tell her but see the reaction... We didnt need to hear it, but seeing the reaction was enough. I think Michelle did a great job.
Overall... theres not one sad part for me... and its hard to choose simply because for me its one of the best things i have seen. It could easily rival alot of the Blockbuster films out there... and beat them infact! I love the episode as you can tell. I cried about an hour after it and i was all sad for the rest of the day... it rarely happens!
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