Ummm, okay. But that doesn't mean it's Fred. Here's my S5 opinion from
a thread.
Let's just assume that I was right, which I was: IT'S STILL NOT FRED. It's still Illyria, and no matter how she's feeling, or what she's becoming, it's not Winifred Burkle.
As for Wesley- sure, it's his ghost, spirit, call it what you will, but for us to say something constitutes a person would depend on our ability to claim the same for ourselves. Personally, I don't see myself as simply my spirit. I am my life, my recollections, my triumphs, failures, my scars, and my body. Maybe you arn't a 'whole picture' kind of person when it comes to this, but even so, anything less than the whole does not carry the identity of the whole, in my opinion, leading me to believe that Wesley "isn't all there". Also, we know how Wesley thinks, from his own S5 conversations with Illyria. She would reveal more and more of what is left of Fred becoming her (wanting to have sex with Wesley, having Fred's memories and appearance, etc. [some of which I mentioned in my above quote]), and Wesley didn't consider that enough to constitute Fred, and was offended at the allegation, so I doubt he would think of himself as Wesley Price now. READ: Wesley would argue that Wesley's not exactly Wesley.
As for the deaths being cheapened- I disagree. I think each character, Fred aside (the random variable in everything), has recieved exactly what they deserve, from a moral standpoint. Charles deserves to hate himself for all time, Wesley deserved worse I would argue, and Cordy deserves to be the being of pure bliss she was 'going' to be at the end of S3. I like Wes coming back because he's still a good man being used as an instrument of evil against Angel (so it seems), which really would make him have to fight to, once and for all, clear his name. Cordelia said she'd be watching Angel, and seems to have been working on getting into LA, in some form, which I take a breathtaking and utterly sensational keeping of her promise to fight evil, and always support and love Angel with evereything she has. But, as you said, to each their own.