Yeah she was mentioned when they explained dracula and hooked him up with Renee but still other then that it was like Anya who? Oh I dont know the love of Xanders life!! Geesh -__-
Well, hasn't it been at least a year or two since 'Chosen'? I think it's natural to stop mentioning deceased loved ones after a while - though I would've liked to have seen Buffy and Xander reminisce about Spike and Anya respectively.
Didn't Emma Caulfield specifically request being killed off in the most human way possible so that her character COULDN'T be brought back? I recall something about Emma saying that she didn't want Anya to be in any future incarnations of the show, so she asked Joss to kill her.
I'll see if I can find the story, but if this is true, then maybe Joss is just following Emma's wishes. I get that he's the creator of these characters, but he could be just being nice.
I'm really pissed about that, Anya is my favorite character in both BtVS and AtS, it was already incredibly stupid for her death to be ignored in "Chosen", but for another full season to pass by and Joss again chooses to ignore Anya? Something is wrong with him...
Other than a few fantasies about Spike, he wasn't ever mentioned either, nor were any of the others who never made it out of the hellmouth. Probably the subject was just still too painful, and the sense of loss too great, to bring up. I could see that as being especially true for Anya, out of deferment to Xander's feelings. Even though he was trying to move on with Renee, Anya was still almost certainly a tender subject.
I've always loved Anya, and I think she totally got the shaft in both her death in season 7, and being completely overlooked and ignored in season 8. Nobody seemed to care that she died, and conisdering that she was on the show from Season 3 till the end, to me that's doing her character a great injustice.