Okay, I'm quite new to this forum, but I have been part/seen fandoms have shipwars like these. It always really bothers me. I just don't understand that if you have a differing view on something, let's say Spuffy vs. Bangel, then why don't you respect each other.
Tara is my favourite character, but I can have a normal discussion with someone who hates Tara. I might not agree, but I respect that person's view, since their interpretation and opinions of the show is just as valid as mine.
Idk, I am passionate about Buffy, it is my favourite show of all time, but I don't get the hate. We are all here together because we love Buffy, we might not agree on everything, but that's fine right? I think discussing a lot of the things in this show is a lot of fun. I have seen people giving me their view on some topics and realised that I never thought about this?
If this is really a thing, maybe we should start respecting each other again. If you don't agree you just say to each their own and that's it.
Idk, maybe you might not agree with me, but can't we all get along?