Don't think I would run, immediately anyway. It depends so much on the person. But if I really liked that person I don't think I would have any problems liking this persons child too. But I would defenitely think more then twice about getting serious with the person.
elmo
Anyone here speak Whale?!
My sister and many of my friends have gotten into relationships where children are already involved. I have seen how they can go wrong. So I guess I'm biased because I haven't really seen how they can go right. That would really shape my decision I'm afraid. It doesn't mean that we couldn't be friends though.
Willow Rosenberg
I might be just like you!
Oh no...You didn't pull out the "Let's Just be Friends" line....
It's like chopping off his manhood... 😀
It's like chopping off his manhood... 😀
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elmo
LMAO! I never thought of it that way. "Can't we just be friends?" = axe!
polexia
always been barely alive
well, if i met a guy now, that i liked and he had kids, i would prob back away. at this point I do not want kids!!! NOPE-y.... i'm no where near ready!
i just know that i want to be ready before i have kids. at the moment i deal with anxity and depression and for the ones of you who have sufferd or suffer from the same knows what its like. for me its important that i work through alot of issues before i have kids, because i don't want them to be me when they get to my age, and i don't want to be my mom. (no offens to her, cause i love her dearly, but i just want to make it different. to break the circle we are in.)
for along time i did't see myself having kids ever. but then i met my boyf and slowly the thought has crept into my mind... why should i deny us that? to have kids and to make a family(consistent of more then two people). But still, we both want to be ready.... and we want to be able to give our future kids all thats good in life. and to break the circle now.
mr pointy: i like what you wrote... in that way you remind me of my dad( he is such a good man! ) he met my mom when i was like 8 years old (my little brother was 6 my sister was 2/3). and he came into our lives and he stayed there. been such a good suport for us, such an inspiration and a good parent 🙂 *sighs* i 'm so greatful for that man. He is just such a pearl... too take on the responsbility for 3 kids like that. and to love us all uncontionaly... ( i guess it was a blessing for him as well, since he later found that he can't have kids of his own.)
nice thread!
i just know that i want to be ready before i have kids. at the moment i deal with anxity and depression and for the ones of you who have sufferd or suffer from the same knows what its like. for me its important that i work through alot of issues before i have kids, because i don't want them to be me when they get to my age, and i don't want to be my mom. (no offens to her, cause i love her dearly, but i just want to make it different. to break the circle we are in.)
for along time i did't see myself having kids ever. but then i met my boyf and slowly the thought has crept into my mind... why should i deny us that? to have kids and to make a family(consistent of more then two people). But still, we both want to be ready.... and we want to be able to give our future kids all thats good in life. and to break the circle now.
mr pointy: i like what you wrote... in that way you remind me of my dad( he is such a good man! ) he met my mom when i was like 8 years old (my little brother was 6 my sister was 2/3). and he came into our lives and he stayed there. been such a good suport for us, such an inspiration and a good parent 🙂 *sighs* i 'm so greatful for that man. He is just such a pearl... too take on the responsbility for 3 kids like that. and to love us all uncontionaly... ( i guess it was a blessing for him as well, since he later found that he can't have kids of his own.)
nice thread!