Buffy's Boyfriends

You didn't notice that the murder or the torture have stopped since season 4 ? As for the stalking and the rape attempts, that's something particularly relate to the story of Spuffy, not something Spike did to everyone. And of course it stopped in season 7, that's logical for the continuity of Spuffy but concerning Spike, the character more directly, that's not a big change because that's not something he usually does !



So, you are saying that because of the soul Spike can feel guilt and shame and pain ? and that's why the First can torture him ?
I disagree because :

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Soulless Spike can feel sadness, empathy, shame and guilt for the people he cares about / loves (Buffy, Dawn, Joyce, Tara and Willow to a lesser extent). Soulful Spike feels guilt and empathy for everyone he's hurt/killed.
 
Soulless Spike can feel sadness, empathy, shame and guilt for the people he cares about / loves (Buffy, Dawn, Joyce, Tara and Willow to a lesser extent). Soulful Spike feels guilt and empathy for everyone he's hurt/killed.
I guess Wood is an exception 😛.. Anyway, that's not at all logical for me. If he can feel emotions (like all the ones you have said) when he is soulless, for the people he cares about, that means he has that human capacity and so it's his choice to care or not care about people. But the soul doesn't give to him the capacity to feel emotions about people he doesn't care. That's a no sense for me. He already had that capacity without a soul. And honestly, we are humans, we have souls and still there are people on earth we don't care, so this argument........ doesn't work for me.
 
Soulless Spike can feel sadness, empathy, shame and guilt for the people he cares about / loves (Buffy, Dawn, Joyce, Tara and Willow to a lesser extent). Soulful Spike feels guilt and empathy for everyone he's hurt/killed.
If soulles Spike can feel guilt, then he doesn't need a soul. Because he is basically all soul having already. Guilt is specifically something associated with a soul in the Buffyverse. Which funnily enough, makes Spike one of the worst vampires ever because he had choice and agency over his actions. If he can feel guilt, he has a conscience and he could have chosen not to murder, rape and torture for 120 years. But he did it anyway. Which to me means Spike deserves a dusting, even with a soul because he is a murderer who chose to be one.

And soul or no soul, Spike never had empathy for random strangers. You are confusing him with Angel. Spike, at most, still only cared about his obsessions or someone like Fred (the only one to give him the time of day while he was a ghost so he clung to her). See also Wood for whom he had no empathy whatsoever. And he actually had something to do with Wood's loss.
 
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If soulles Spike can feel guilt, then he doesn't need a soul. Because he is basically all soul having already. Guilt is specifically something associated with a soul in the Buffyverse. Which funnily enough, makes Spike one of the worst vampires ever because he had choice and agency over his actions. If he can feel guilt, he has a conscience and he could have chosen not to murder, rape and torture for 120 years. But he did it anyway. Which to me means Spike deserves a dusting, even with a soul because he is a murderer who chose to be one.

And soul or no soul, Spike never had empathy for random strangers. You are confusing him with Angel. Spike, at most, still only cared about his obsessions or someone like Fred (the only one to give him the time of day while he was a ghost so he clung to her). See also Wood for whom he had no empathy whatsoever. And he actually had something to do with Wood's loss.

You enjoy keeping the S1/2 black and white view of the 'verse, and that's fine. I enjoy the more nuanced aspect of the question that Spike (and other characters) brings. To me it's more of a spectrum than a either/or thing. Soulless Spike has a great capacity for shame and regret, but it is limited, hence his quest for a soul. Souled Spike might not cry everytime a random stranger breaks an ankle, but he does feel bad about what he did in the past, as is brought up in Beneath You, Sleeper, Never Leave Me, etc...
 
Soulless Spike has a great capacity for shame and regret, but it is limited, hence his quest for a soul.

But, genuinely asking here not simply trying to argue a point, if Spike has capacity for shame and regret without a soul then are his heinous acts, such as using railroad spikes to torture victims or slaughtering orphanages, worse for it? Because deep down Spike has the capacity to feel shame and regret but didn’t and carried on with his evil ways.
 
RomanticSoul
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Logical thoughts. What a rare thing.
thetopher
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Indeed. 'Shiny Special Vampire' is the worst of the bunch, by far, because he had more autonomy. Apparently. :)
You enjoy keeping the S1/2 black and white view of the 'verse, and that's fine. I enjoy the more nuanced aspect of the question that Spike (and other characters) brings. To me it's more of a spectrum than a either/or thing. Soulless Spike has a great capacity for shame and regret, but it is limited, hence his quest for a soul. Souled Spike might not cry everytime a random stranger breaks an ankle, but he does feel bad about what he did in the past, as is brought up in Beneath You, Sleeper, Never Leave Me, etc...
Black and white view? Who looks at things with such a narrow mind? I don't do colors, I do logic. For Buffy to just nilly willy walk around every night and kill vampires, the rules need to be clear. Because there is a difference between killing an evil being with no free will and a being with free will. You can attribute as much humanity as you want to Spike but you CAN'T stop there. You need to extrapolate that in every direction. If Spike basically doesn't need a soul, like you suggest, it means he had free will over his actions and decisions. Meaning he decided on his own to murder, rape and torture for 120 years and accumulate thousands of victims. He deserves death row and in the case of a vampire, dusting. Soul or no soul, because according to you he didn't need a soul to have choice. Which funnily enough, also according to you, makes him one of the WORST beings that ever existed in the Buffyverse. See, funny how logic changes the picture isn't it? But hey, I keep my logic, you keep your romantic view of a 'human' stalker/murderer/rapist/torturer...everyone goes home happy.

Also what does that mean for Buffy? Buffy kills vampires just rising out of their graves without hesitation. She basically kills people, not evil demons who are connected to evil and therefor compelled to do evil. Any of them can be a Spike, and just like him have a conscience even without a soul. And hell, they might even be better than Spike and NOT chose to kill/rape/torture. Why are they killed? Because they sure shouldn't. According to your 'logic', Buffy is a mass murderer who is doing genocide.
 
But, genuinely asking here not simply trying to argue a point, if Spike has capacity for shame and regret without a soul then are his heinous acts, such as using railroad spikes to torture victims or slaughtering orphanages, worse for it? Because deep down Spike has the capacity to feel shame and regret but didn’t and carried on with his evil ways.

He has the capacity, but it is limited to the people he loves, as I said.
For instance, even if you don't care about most strangers on the planet, chances are, if you see one getting hurt, tortured or whatnot, you're going to feel bad for them and maybe try to help them. Soulless Spike wouldn't.
 
He has the capacity, but it is limited to the people he loves, as I said.
For instance, even if you don't care about most strangers on the planet, chances are, if you see one getting hurt, tortured or whatnot, you're going to feel bad for them and maybe try to help them. Soulless Spike wouldn't.
You just described plenty of humans. There are plenty who wouldn't lift a finger to help. Or who only care about their family/loved ones. Like it or not, there's plenty of humans who are like that. So really, Spike is just like a human. And he should be judged harsher than an actual soulles vampire. Because he is what we call a mass murderer who chose to be one.
 
You just described plenty of humans. There are plenty who wouldn't lift a finger to help. Or who only care about their family/loved ones. Like it or not, there's plenty of humans who are like that. So really, Spike is just like a human. And he should be judged harsher than an actual soulles vampire. Because he is what we call a mass murderer who chose to be one.

There are also plenty of humans who are like Angelus. I don't know much about psychology, but I believe they are called psychopaths. So the same could apply to him. In the end it's just about accepting the vampire metaphore in its limitations.
 
There are also plenty of humans who are like Angelus. I don't know much about psychology, but I believe they are called psychopaths. So the same could apply to him. In the end it's just about accepting the vampire metaphore in its limitations.
See that's the issue I have. Soulless vampires were supposed to represent the worst of humanity; by virtue of being humans-turned-demons they are exxagerated and warped versions of our worst possible selves. If they are then shown to exhibit some of our better traits then doesn't the metaphor become somewhat diluted? 😕
 
If all demons are essentially the same as humans, then there should be some form of demon justice system, not just a rogue executioner.
She's not rogue - that's kinda the point. She's been fed a clear "Them" and "Us" dualism by Giles and the Watcher's Council (in a sense the WC is the demon justice system - Judge, Jury and Executioner). It doesn't make her or Giles - or any one else - intrinsically "bad" - or a mass murderer. They've both internalised patriarchal ideology as hegemony. It's her rejection of patriarchy, her awareness that she's colluded with it, that causes the complexity of S7 - it culminates in the power vacuum in Empty Places - that's why it's so chaotic. Ideology constructs reality - in the absence of an ideological underpinning meaning disappears (signs - which are place holders in the real - are empty). It's what's happening to Giles in the mini but the level of complexity has been racked up to make a critique of gender, race and class. No one's saying there's no line - it's simply that the line is relative to everything else around it.

But, genuinely asking here not simply trying to argue a point, if Spike has capacity for shame and regret without a soul then are his heinous acts, such as using railroad spikes to torture victims or slaughtering orphanages, worse for it? Because deep down Spike has the capacity to feel shame and regret but didn’t and carried on with his evil ways.

Vampires have traditionally represented the Id - they operate in accordance with the pleasure principle. Spike pre-Sunnydale didn't have the capacity for shame or regret (they don't originate with trieb - they're social not instinctual - based on prohibition) but he did for love (Eros and Thanatos being the fundamental drives) - until he met Buffy. The turning point is the chip. The chip marks the beginning of a rudimentary superego (yes/no - the mother's fort/da). Then he realises he's in love with Buffy - she's takes the place of the mother in the imaginary and the father (the Law, the Slayer is the Law) in the symbolic - all his shame or regret is relative to her. It's then he begins to reality test. It's the testing that makes his behaviour so erratic. If it causes him psychic pain - shame or regret - he doesn't repeat it.

So really, Spike is just like a human. And he should be judged harsher than an actual soulles vampire. Because he is what we call a mass murderer who chose to be one.
. Alternatively, humans are just like - or worse than - vampires. Which is kinda the point being made in the Giles mini.
 
See that's the issue I have. Soulless vampires were supposed to represent the worst of humanity; by virtue of being humans-turned-demons they are exxagerated and warped versions of our worst possible selves. If they are then shown to exhibit some of our better traits then doesn't the metaphor become somewhat diluted? 😕

To bounce off what @TriBel said, identity isn't static. Just because you are something at some point doesn't mean you're bound to stay the same forever. It is overwhelmingly the case with vampires though, because they have no motivation or desire to actually change their identity : they're having a blast being evil, living on their demonic impulses,etc... Spike didn't just wake up one night and started being capable of empathy. It happens gradually, with right circumstances, and probably with the right personality traits.
 
The chip marks the beginning of a rudimentary superego (yes/no - the mother's fort/da). Then he realises he's in love with Buffy - she's takes the place of the mother in the imaginary and the father (the Law, the Slayer is the Law) in the symbolic - all his shame or regret is relative to her. It's then he begins to reality test. It's the testing that makes his behaviour so erratic. If it causes him psychic pain - shame or regret - he doesn't repeat it.

This is a pretty compelling argument for chipping all vampires. Wouldn’t you say?
 
It doesn't make her or Giles - or any one else - intrinsically "bad" - or a mass murderer.

Well, I understand that people can do bad things without being intrinsically bad (ignorance and misunderstanding can certainly cause much pain and cruelty), but I don't understand how it doesn't make Buffy a mass murderer. If it was always wrong to slay vampires on sight (not just in self-defense), and she just didn't understand that, it's still wrong. If vampires are symbolic of an oppressed group in society, instead of metaphors for obstacles we must overcome, then Buffy is no longer the person to root for in any given fight.

It's her rejection of patriarchy, her awareness that she's colluded with it, that causes the complexity of S7

I agree with this, but I don't get a strong sense of the show applying it to the evils that Buffy fights, only in the way she has treated the Potentials. If anything, it seems to me that Season 7 puts more emphasis on the importance of the soul than Season 5 and 6 did.

No one's saying there's no line - it's simply that the line is relative to everything else around it.

But how would you know where the line is? Is it only OK to kill vampires in self-defense? If Buffy lets a vampire go because she can't be sure it's evil or not, and then it kills others, should she be willing to accept that?

Alternatively, humans are just like - or worse than - vampires.

Humans certainly can be seen as worse than vampires. People choosing to do evil with complete free will do seem worse to me than demons who are unable to understand human morality. I don't see the soul as an automatic "on" button for being good. The reason not to kill an evil human is that they can choose to do better (even if many don't). If a vampire can also make an informed choice to do better, then it doesn't make sense to me to automatically slay them.

ETA: I should also point out that it seems to me there has always been a difference between vampires and demons in general because vampires require blood to survive, and so their existence directly imperils humans. Buffy has generally taken a more wait-and-see approach with demons that are not vampires.
 
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Well, I understand that people can do bad things without being intrinsically bad (ignorance and misunderstanding can certainly cause much pain and cruelty), but I don't understand how it doesn't make Buffy a mass murderer. If it was always wrong to slay vampires on sight (not just in self-defense), and she just didn't understand that, it's still wrong. If vampires are symbolic of an oppressed group in society, instead of metaphors for obstacles we must overcome, then Buffy is no longer the person to root for in any given fight.
Buffy's war, the council's war and the war of every slayer against vampires (specifically, different from demons in general) was always a preemptive one. Vampires were demons without souls and therefor without free will to chose to be anything other than demons. Demons with blood lust, a direct connection to evil which compelled them to do evil. They are slaves to their fundamental nature. They show said nature differently, which is in large part due to the former human who they form their personality out of. But it's all the same. They kill, rape and torture. Just for the fun of it. That made the war ok. It made it morally right for Buffy to kill them even when they got out of their graves without having done any harm to anyone. Buffy was saving future lives by killing preemptively.

When the show suddenly wants to be clever and change the rules to justify one vampire's continued existence and non-staking, it needs to be taken to it's full conclusion. And that is whether what Buffy does is still correct or not, given the new rules. As long as the vampires, due to lack of soul, can't change then what she does is ok.

But since so many fans insist on Spike being special, attributing the kind of humaity or consciousness to him that used to only be possible with a soul, him and his whole species need to be looked at differently. He can't be the only special case. And also...what's Spike's metaphor within these new rules as he continues (as both unsouled and souled) to kill vampires without a second thought. He is killing his own species helping this genocide along. He's like the Jew who conspired with the Nazis to kill his own kind for personal gain or maybe because he prefers there not be any more special ones like him around.

A show can't base it's premise on one thing and halfway through throw it out the window and come up with something new without an explanation and without considering the implications it has for the whole show and it's characters.
 
This is a pretty compelling argument for chipping all vampires. Wouldn’t you say?

Probably - and it would certainly make raising kids easier. Seriously, on the surface it looks like a "solution". However, that's ignoring the part Buffy plays in the (Spike) equation. With just the chip you have a demon that can't kill but not necessarily a demon that's socially productive or useful. For it to be productive, wouldn't there need to be an incentive? Either financial or a place in society (in effect identifying with the symbolic father)? Of course, you could put an overseer in charge and make it labour for free. Just feed it enough pig's blood to keep it fit enough to work and threaten it with death if it doesn't. Which then validates Marx' metaphor: Capital is dead labor, which, vampire-like, lives only by sucking living labor, and lives the more, the more labor it sucks. 🙂 I'm no sure what the economic effects of this would be - it'd put a lot of people out of work. It probably makes more sense to slay.

If vampires are symbolic of an oppressed group in society
I don't think they're necessarily symbolic of oppressed groups. I think they draw attention to the structure of otherness and otherness makes oppression possible. They have different functions at different times. According to Nina Auerbach in Our Vampires, Ourselves "Each age embraces the vampire it needs" (which is why I think we'll get Roux).

But how would you know where the line is?
I don't know. Isn't that the difference between moral absolutism and moral relativism? Best ask a philosopher...don't ask more than one - you'll get conflicting answers. 😉

If anything, it seems to me that Season 7 puts more emphasis on the importance of the soul than Season 5 and 6 did.
Buffy certainly puts more emphasis on it. As does Spike. But then there's Buffy's "Why does everyone in this house think I'm still in love with Spike" remark. This seems to imply she loved him soulless. There's also this line (shooting script - Never Leave Me) "There's a man in there underneath that monster. A man who - even when he had no soul - struggled to find redemption". I'm not being deliberately provocative - what I am saying is, I think there's a certain ambivalence towards the soul even in the TV series. The characters might believe in it - I'm not sure to what extent the text does - except as a marker of difference. Perhaps the soul just allows the justification of belief?
I honestly don't know. I know I won't feel robbed if Whedon dilutes or changes its significance but at the same time, I'll understand if he doesn't.
The only thing that irks me about the soul is all the sources of knowledge about it are men (so it could be another aspect of patriarchal discourse).
 
Grace
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I actually lol’d at the philosopher comment. Fair enough! ;)
ETA: I should also point out that it seems to me there has always been a difference between vampires and demons in general because vampires require blood to survive, and so their existence directly imperils humans. Buffy has generally taken a more wait-and-see approach with demons that are not vampires.
Yes, it is the demons on BtVS - and more so on AtS - who have often been intentionally used as symbolic of oppressed and alienated minority groups. The only vampire who was intended to be a social outcast was Angel, and that was only enabled by the fact that he had a soul and so had one foot in both human and demon worlds. But then this aspect isn't really explored until he gets his own show, where his apartness is set against the backdrop of L.A. as a locus of demon otherness and hybridity. Even so, Angel himself isn't oppressed in any way that identifies him with the demon communities.

So while I agree that the absolute demon-bad, slayer-good binary preached by Giles is an enforcement of the WC's rigid patriarchal ideology, I don't think that the flaws of that ideology are supposed to extend to the point where are meant to see vampires as a group, as stand-ins for the oppressed other, at least not on the show.
 
What about Darla? Her experience in S2 and S3 of AtS seems to provide some insight from a female and even maternal perspective.

Yes - she's the exception (which I remembered to mention last time I made a similar remark). Problem is - are we going totally off topic with this? Sigh...stupid internet connection! 😡 This might post three times.
 
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I don’t even remember what the topic of this thread was supposed to be! :)
EarthLogic
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Nope it's just posted the once. It's fine.
What about Darla? Her experience in S2 and S3 of AtS seems to provide some insight from a female and even maternal perspective.
Yes - she's the exception (which I remembered to mention last time I made a similar remark).
There's also the fact that it was a gypsy elder woman who first restored Angel's soul. We don't know how much knowledge she had of metaphysics of it.
 
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