Nobody is asking what she did to deserve it, no one is making excuses for it, what people are saying it that, there may be more to the story than what she has said. Not in he said she said way but we do not and as we weren't there, never will know exactly what happened.This! People should stop asking what she did to deserve that treatment! So sad that it keeps happening, making excuses for abusive behavior because she's not a saint and she should have done something.
I cannot say I am surprised. Hollywood has always run on who you don't piss off. People who want careers have had to shut up about some deep, dark horribles, particularly female people. From the things she barely alluded to, and from everything we saw on screen, I knew she had gone through some horrible things. Her last arc on Angel showed the massive disrespect and ruination toward her and her career that was intended. Every other role she's had after that was tainted by that history.
Until you're an established top drawer actor, you cannot pull off the 'Full Monty monster' and continue in a career. That goes double for a woman. Her career ended in that bed with Connor and was unrecoverable. Perhaps now, with time and change, she might be able to build something new. I wish her joy and success. I'm grateful she has been able to be open and validate others who have spoken.
It is funny.. no, sad. Joss was so vindictive and egotistical he actually killed the entire series because he had to 'get' Charisma for daring to be human.
I hope the world is changing. Humans aren't but maybe the lies aren't so completely concealable anymore.
The fact that Amber Benson came out and supported her only strengthened what she had to share.
#IStandWithCharismaCarpenter
and now Sarah!
I think the brown stuff has just hit the swirl bits...
I can see hair being more of an issue than tattoos. Unless it's a honking Mike Tyson facial tattoo I don't really see the big deal. You work around it. Tyler Posey got a tattoo he wasn't supposed to in Teen Wolf so they made him keep his shirt on. Oh, the horrors.
Nobody is asking what she did to deserve it, no one is making excuses for it, what people are saying it that, there may be more to the story than what she has said. Not in he said she said way but we do not and as we weren't there, never will know exactly what happened.
I suspect that they were happy... to see each other. I get the impression that the cast was seriously close. Maybe BECAUSE it was a hard set to work on. When you work with a monster, one way to survive is to become very close. I always wondered why SMG stopped taking part in the show's publicity bits, DVD specials etc. Now, we know why.It’s strange and sad to know all of that while I’m thinking how they were all happy at the reunion last year.. it was just acting I guess...
Honestly, yes. DB got shit for growing old and getting "fat", and JM got shit for growing old and getting "too skinny". I do agree with the idea that, up to a certain extent, being an actor requires certain concessions when it comes to looks, depending on the part. Imo it's not him being upset that's terrible, it's the way he allegedly chose to act on it.She is an actress yes but also a woman not some barbie doll to never grow old and change. Did DB or JM get stick for growing old?
I wonder if James or David will say something. Or just a man, until now there are just women who are talking. I’m just curious to know what they will be saying.
His not appropriate behaviour. Just so everyone is clear, MT was 14 on S5 Buffy. If what she is suggesting happened then that's not just abusive but pedophilic
Show gets picked up on a seasonal basis. Sign a contract to be available for whatever it is 3—12 months. Complete that and then evaluate if you want to resign.She is an actress yes but also a woman not some barbie doll to never grow old and change. Did DB or JM get stick for growing old?
Honestly, yes. DB got shit for growing old and getting "fat", and JM got shit for growing old and getting "too skinny". I do agree with the idea that, up to a certain extent, being an actor requires certain concessions when it comes to looks, depending on the part. Imo it's not him being upset that's terrible, it's the way he allegedly chose to act on it.
"Michelle Trachtenberg, who played Buffy’s sister Dawn, shared Gellar’s statement in an Instagram story, adding: “We know what he did. Behind. The. Scenes.”
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Sarah Michelle Gellar speaks out as Buffy co-stars accuse Joss Whedon of ‘toxic’ abuse
Sarah Michelle Gellar sought to distance herself on Wednesday evening (10 February) from Buffy the Vampire Slayer creator Joss Whedon amid a swelling wave of abuse accusations from co-stars.uk.news.yahoo.com