No they didn't have the choice but Buffy presents the spell as if she is giving them a choice. As if the way in which she is forcing power on these girls, whether they want it or not, is any different from what the Shadow Men did. If anything it is worse, she is doing what was done to her only 2000 times over.
But she's still giving them the choice to fight, she might be forcing them to get their power now but she's not forcing them to fight. She asks if they're ready to be strong, that doesn't necessarily mean are you ready to be physically strong, but are you ready to use that strength and fight back.
If one of the girls didn't want to be a slayer, unfortunately it didn't matter, the alternative is the slayers get picked off one by one and she either dies as a potential, or she eventually gets activated as the first makes his way through them.
Potential slayers were being persecuted for who they were, similar to any other kind of racial persecution, something they had no control over.
They were being killed for what they could become, what they had the potential to be. The activation spell allowed them to fight, even if they didn't want to fight, bringers would come for them becasue they were already marked as a potential threat.
Had Buffys plan failed and the First killed Buffy and co. in the hellmouth, the slayer line would have been over, the fist would have made it's way through the rest of the potentials and picked off each newly activated inexperienced slayer. By activating them, she over throws the rules allowing for only one, presumably so the Shadow Men could control the slayer, and allowed each girl to fight back.
I totally get that it's not real female empowerment, but it is empowering to the potentials who were being hunted because of who they were/might be and had no way to stand up to that.
That only presents in some girls. Buffy never showed any extra abilities. She was totally oblivious until Merrick turned up outside Hemery High. We know Kendra was trained from a young age but not if she had extra abilities, same goes for Faith.
Even if those abilities did present in all Potentials they manifest as being more agile or maybe faster than other girls their age. That is a million miles away from super strength.
Well we dont really know enough about the whole thing to say it's only in some girls, Buffys aptitude for Figure Skating and Cheerleading might have been directly connected to her improved reflexes, stamina etc.
I dont think they have any particularly extraordinary powers or anything, just more of a natural predilection to it.
That is operating on the assumption that all Potential Slayers want to be Slayers at all. Being called as a slayer when you don't want to be one is the exact opposite of empowerment.
Totally agree, but that issue is with the original spell. All possible slayers were in this position becasue of the original spell, most didn't know what they really were and even if they didn't want it they were going to be hunted down and killed because of what they were, or they were going to get the power anyway.
When your options are to wait to be killed, or have powers forced on you and fight alone with no choice. Having powers forced on you and having people to back you up, or just knowing that there is an army of slayer picking up your slack out there is a step up.
But that still isn't full Slayer power. They may be drawn by it but it isn't compelling them to get up in the middle of the night to go out and hunt vampires the way it did Buffy
But Buffy was only doing that at one stage in the whole 10 years of stories, she wasn't feeling that urge to hunt in the 4 years previous, and she didn't seem to have it in the 4 years after.
She patrolls, but she doesn't hunt in that natural, animalistic way it's depicted in season 5 - and at that time her entire reality had just been warped by a fake sister, she'd just made direct contact with every single other slayer before her and she was getting closer to her death, all of which her powers were trying to warn her of.
The girls in that room had already made the choice to fight, but the 2000 other girls around the world hadn't. Once you are activated it becomes almost impossible to avoid slaying. Buffy came to Sunnydale thinking she had a new start, she told Giles that she wouldn't actively slay anymore. But she wasn't allowed make that choice because the evil kept finding her. Faith had a similar experience with Kakistos.
But she didn't have a choice cuz she was the only one - that is not the case anymore, now you only fight if you want to, which it's mentioned in the comics they activated 18,000 girls and only 500 decide to fight. That means there are 500 girls willing to fight and 13,000 who dont want to. Had the next slayer been in that 13,000 she wouldn't have a choice she has now and the freedom to go do whatever she likes she'd have to fight. Yes those 13,000 girls sacrificed getting the powers, but that means they didn't have to give up their life.
Now we dont know the implications, we dont know if they are getting dreams or what, but it hasn't been addressed, so I dont think we can absolutely say those 13,000 girls are being kept awake at night by their visions, presumably if they were they would have gotten in contact with the scoobies.
The fact that evil keeps finding Buffy is also cus she's in Sunnydale, and she might have went there hoping for a new life, but we know know there are larger parts in play there (Twilight, Jasmine etc.)
Buffy goes to LA, which we know from Angel is swarming with demon activity and she avoids it for 3 months until she's spotted by someone who recognises her from Sunnydale.
And Kakistos comes after Faith directly as vengence for what she did after being made a slayer, so it's not really like evil just happened to find her, it sought her out.
Buffy even had a brush with Der Kindestod before being a slayer, so that natural magnet to evil, or evil just happening to be around might be in effect in potential slayers too...
Well, she shared dreams with Faith so we know Faith had them too. We don't get told enough about other slayers to know. But we know they are still part of being a slayer in Fray's time because her twin brother Harth gets the dreams while she gets the strength.
Oh yeah totally, they definitely can all get the dreams, but we dont know of any Faith gets that dont directly relate to Buffy who remains the Slayer in the line of duty through the run of the show.
Buffy was getting dreams of the slayers being killed in season 7, but Faith had ni idea what was going on until she was attacked. So what I mean is that the dreams seem to be responsive - in the line of fire they apply to you, out of the line and they dont.
But they still count. They are still dreams each girl would have to live with and from what we've seen some of Buffy's were absolutely horrible. If a slayer had decided to not slay her life would still be interrupted by these dreams. They aren't just nightmares, they are prophetic. Each girl would be morally obliged to do something about it. It would make it almost impossible to create a new life if the one you didn't choose kept pulling you back in.
I'm just not sure that if you weren't in the fight you'd be getting them, like how Faith didn't seem to be bothered by dreams when she was fixing her life.
The fact that the apocalypse hasn't happened means that seemingly the big ones where happening in Sunnydale, so Buffy was directly in the line of fire.
Kendra didn't get Slayer dreams about the apocalypse and come to Sunnydale, she was sent by her watcher who got that knowledge some other way.
So if you have a slayer in Sunnydale and one in Jamaica, you dont unnecessarily give prophetic dreams to the one in Jamaica when you have one in Sunnydale - I dont have much to back that up, but just going off the fact that not only did Faith or Kendra not mention getting the dreams they were none of the wiser on circumstances in Sunnydale that wasn't directly related to them