Rowan Hawthorn
Potential
See, I don't think so. I think that they were friends for so long before Willow "realized" she was gay that it put Buffy in an area of her brain that would never imagine that kind of thing. Just because she's gay doesn't mean she's constantly thinking about sex, or that she thinks about sex with every woman she meets any more than heterosexual people do.
Oh, I agree. And since pretty much every heterosexual person I know (other than the ones who refuse to think about sex at all (because it's duurty)) will have at least a passing curiosity at some time or other about even their closest friends of the opposite sex...?