Ok, I can understand why you feel so strongly. Believe me I do. However, If I had a friend that was not religious and refused to say the pledge, I would not find it un-patriotic, not would I tell them to get out of my country. Seems a bit harsh no? I mean, yes the country was founded on Christian values, but you also need to remember but Christian values, no, religion all together has changed throughout the years. Wouldn't it be disrespectful to go against someone else's beliefs simply because they do not agree with a line in it, or because they do not do it? I mean, what harm are they actually causing? At the end of the day, it's just symbolism no?
Also, I'm glad you decided to take part in the discussion. I wanted to ask you a specific question. You're the only one on the boards that I know of that lives a military life. Your husband is in the military if I am not mistaken. So I wanted to ask...and anyone can answer this is they wish...
Do you have an american flag in your home? Do you pledge allegiance every single day? Is it like part of your routine?
I know my view on the subject seems harsh. But I seriously do feel that way. Why?
I can still remember vividly how different life was in our country before 9/11. I was 19 years old when the attacks on our country were done, and I remember how life was before and after that day.
America has always tried to be the big brother to every one in the world. We've always tried to be a peacemaker, a mediator, and lend a hand to countries who need it. We let people come to this country to work and live, when people who were born here in our own country suffer and struggle. It's sad, but I understand and support the people who genuinely want to come here for a better life than what they had in their home country.
At the same time, I hate how "political correctness" has overcome the United States. You can't say someone's black; they're African-American, and saying otherwise offends them. You can't pray in school if you want; it might offend someone who's of a different denomination than you. You can't wear certain clothing out in public; you might offend the person sitting next to you. It's gotten completely out of hand, and that's one big reason why I get so angry at people who want the Constitution, pledge, currency, etc. changed.
We should not have to bow down to accomodate EVERYONE. My thinking is "If you're so unhappy with the laws and rules of this country, why did you come here in the first place? And if you were born here, how can you not be patriotic and support the laws and rules that are in place, which have seemed to work pretty well for the most part over the years?"
There's a reason people want to move to the U.S. so bad, and part of that is our country's ways and beliefs, which are all based on Christian beliefs. I'm not saying everyone who lives here has to be a Christian. Just take the overall intention and go with it. Our forefathers didn't know and understand how many religions would be here, and they certainly didn't foresee how many other races and cultures would be in our country like they are now. But the intent was to teach our people to live a wholesome, moral life and to uphold the laws of our country. What's so wrong with that??
Yes, I am a PROUD military wife. I support my husband and the work that he does as part of his job. Do I support the war? NO. I don't feel our government has the right to go into any other country and try to make people change the way they live. I have not supported the "reasons" given for being in Iraq and Afghanistan from the very beginning and I still don't. However, there are thousands of men and women like my husband who fight for our country's rights every single day. I live on post at Fort Campbell, KY, and in the past year, we lost more than 100 of our soldiers to war-related injuries. It makes me proud that they're brave and willing to go into these war-torn zones and do what they think is going to help people. But it also saddens me that they fight for the same people who criticize and hate them for it, too. I've heard people say they're baby-killers, and that they're murdering innocent people. But I wonder if these people are aware that these innocent people are coming at them with bombs strapped to their chest because someone told them their God would want them to sacrifice themselves to kill our military, or that these innocent people just happen to be living on streets where their own people have placed car bombs and IED's in the roads to kill our military?
Anyway, we don't have a flag
inside our home. We are very patriotic and hang one on the outside, but we don't say the pledge every day in our home. My daughter says it at school, though, and she loves to do it in front of other people; she's proud to support the USA and her dad.
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