You're right it DOES stink, but it also is the way of the world.
I doubt there's much you can tell me about the "ways of the world" that I haven't run into. I'm 52 - I grew up in the 60s and 70s. You know what helps to make ignorant prejudicial crap
not be part of the world? Stop
helping it out and start
speaking out. Keeping quiet and letting it ride just lets it keep on rollin'.
I sell on eBay. I work my BUTT off and bend ove backwards to make sure EVERYONE is happy. I slave like a dog for these people. Granted, I have great feedback, but is that enough?
NOPE.
When I tell people I sell on eBay I get stories out the whazoo. How eBay sellers WORK FOR eBay and are trained to steal and scam people.
I get to hear all the either personal horror stories or the ones on the news about how AWFUL eBay Sellers are and how they're all scam artists.
Think I like it? Nope.
I do what I can to change people's opinions, align myself with others that do also, and express my views to eBay whenever I can with suggestions and ways to go.
Which is exactly what I'm doing.
On the flip side, those eBay horror stories ARE TRUE! I can't just ask everyone on the planet to ignore them and continue to buy. That would be stupid of them and wrong of me.
The horror stories about the people who DO get drunk while hunting or hunt off season, hunt just to kill or even worse think it's funny to just wound an animal and bop off without a second thought, even Bambi.....those are all stories that people shouldn't just ignore or wipe out of their heads and assume every hunter they meet from then on is NOT one of "those people".
So, then, what's your problem with other people assuming that
you're one of "those people" on eBay? I mean, "innocent until proven guilty" doesn't just apply to popular people, the Kewl Kidz. I've pulled up to a grocery store on my motorcycle and watched women grab their children and slink off - and
I grew up not a mile from that store, and everybody around there knew me. If I'd been driving a car, they wouldn't have turned a hair.
Barring vegetarians, even if the people don't WANT to hunt themselves, I think you'd be hard pressed to find someone who would REALLY say they think people should die rather than hunt or fish to feed themselves and their family. And even a few vegetarians I know wouldn't say that either.
Which brings us back to Sport vs Necessity.
Because the vast percentage of hunters aren't GOING to die of starvation if they don't hunt. It may come in handy, but they're not going to die. Eliza, probably gonna live and have a HEFTY Christmas dinner whether she does or doesn't kill a deer at Christmas.
For the last time,
who the hell are you to decide that it's only okay to hunt if you're literally starving?
When people think necessity, they think Beverly Hillbillies before they shot in the hole in the ground and got the "bubblin' crude". Not, "My freezer has extra meat now".
Not that now we all don't have to cut corners when we can, but for the most part that's not looked on as necessity.
Y'know what? I don't give a damn
who thinks it's "necessary". I don't tell other people what they can eat or how they can spend their money, what insane logic makes people think they have the right to decide that for me?
So, when people are faced with the horror stories and looking at someone who they can clearly tell is NOT Jed Clampett they think.....hmmmmmm, perhaps they COULD be one of these people.
And, they very well COULD be!
And you could very well be exactly the kind of cheat and swindler that people expect from eBayers. You
could be the kind of person who would lock her children in the basement without food or water as punishment. You
could be a lot of things, but I'll bet you'd like for people to
not make those assumptions about you based on someone
else's actions, wouldn't you?
No, it's not RIGHT to look at a teenaged star and expect them to go down the toilet. LOTS, if not most of them DO, but that doesn't mean they all do. We also know not all rockstars ARE drug addicts, but they are put in a lifestyle that attracts the element....if not them, personally, there's groupies and other people that hang around that do.
But, it IS the way of the world. Kind of like the urban legends that are made to scare people, they're social stories that are made to "warn you" about the evils that surround certain activites. It's not quite the same as profiling a person on how they look, especially race. That happens to, but it's more about the evils of activities more than a race.
The hell it's not. Rationalize it or excuse it any way you like, but it's no different from any other "They must be bad, 'cause they
ain't like us" that you want to name. Prejudice is prejudice, and it may be convenient to blame the target of prejudice, but it's the people who spread it that are the guilty parties.
I can certainly say I'm not going to be pushing my kids into auditions for being an actor.
But, you can't blame people for hearing these stories, being appaulled and saying, "Gee, that's HORRIBLE! I'm against it" but not saying anything about it. Just like I can't expect to tell people I sell on eBay and NOT hear them tell you about the horror stories they've had or heard about.
It may not be fair, but it's part of the group of people you're associated with. Just like the rest of us are parts of groups that sometimes do things that are less than ideal. (Heck, there's the ENTIRE COUNTRY of Sweden who has to deal with Kinslayer representing it!)
Yeah, but the funny thing is,
most people get
upset if some slanderous twit insinuates that, say, Jews are engaged in a conspiracy to bankrupt America, Mexicans are lazy, Catholics all support the Mafia, or people who listen to rap music are all on the lookout for cops to kill and little girls to rape; they don't make excuses for the viewpoint - and they shouldn't. There was a saying back in the 60s: "If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem."
The GOOD news is, that most people are aware that these evils aren't absolute. That not ALL teenaged actors are going to be drunken, drugged up crazy people and not all rockstars are going to be smoking crack and not all hunters are out to randomly slaughter innocent animals for their jollies.
The bad news is, it's not going to go away. And, I'm not sure that it should.
It WOULD be bad if people didn't listen to the horror stories about eBay and weren't cautious. And it WOULD be bad if people just zipped their lips about their views on bad hunters or anything else.....if nothing else to let the other person know that if that happens to be the behavior their engaging in, it's frowned upon.
You really don't comprehend in the least the difference between voicing views on bad actions by a few members of a group and propagating prejudicial stereotypes about the entire group, do you?