I believe the mod was talking about people's comments in the thread in question when she was saying about complaints. I am not sure if anyone spoke to her directly.
I would suspect she didn't reply as she has not been on since it was closed earlier today. If you had given her a day or so I'm sure she would have answered you.
If you have a problem with a mod or anyone else, come to an admin and we can discuss it calmly and rationally. If you had come to me in a civilized manner I probably would have reopened the thread.
You will notice that the thread was not closed when it was first posted. It was not until a battle began between you on one side saying "my friend made me post this" and other people saying "you're sick" (I'm paraphrasing) and back and forth. It was closed as much to keep people from dumping on you, gothicdemon, as for people being insulted by it. The discussion became a pointless war that had nothing to do with what the actual intent of the thread was.
I had no intention of banning you based on what has transpired so far. Banning someone is not something we take lightly; I would much rather work it out with the person than ban them.
Edit:
Okay, missed the last couple of thread there.
EVERYONE, please treat each other in a respectful manner. Please don't resort to name calling and bickering.