No, this is not an engagement. I made it very clear from the beginning that I have had my marriage for this lifetime and do not intend to get married again.
Our romance began when we met at the Grand Luxe (a dance venue) and she asked me to accompany her to her car, so I thought she was about to leave. When I got there, she said, "Get in." We talked about various things, but she invited me to dinner at her apartment the following Tuesday. My lizard brain went into action, saying:
Me want food.
Girl make food.
Me want girl.
Then she left and when I got back to the venue, the search party finally found me. My friends wondered what had happened to me. This all happened in March, so this is way too soon to be thinking about making anything official.