Have you ever been hit by anyone?

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ana8

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And I mean like someone wanted to hurt you,she/he did it on purpose..Regardless whether it was your relative,your partner or someone else,who you trusted....Sorry for creating such not a nice thread..
 
Um....a whole lot of times. I was abused by my mother, my brother and I used to have actual fist fights, and I got jumped a lot in junior high school!
 
I think this belongs to the Pltrz Glrb forum...

Have you ever been hit by anyone?
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Yeah,once...by my mother's husband

EDIT:Just read your post Jacklyn...I'm sorry for you honey🙁

And,you reminded me of something...girly fights. Yeah,boyfriends-stuff
 
Jacklyn-OMG I'm always amazed how strong some BB members are...I'm really sorry you had to go through it..
 
my dad beated me up when i was litlle.
Sorry for that Jacklyn
is anything wrong ana8? i know i never talked to you or anything, but i f you want to talk to anyone just say so 🙂
 
Gotta say... I'm not one of those lucky people. My Dad used to beat me up all the time... for no reason.

I'm sorry to hear that most of you had to go through that.

*hugs for all*
 
Mags-you are right this should be in Plrtz Glrb!!! I'll move it right now! 😉

Thank You guys for thinking I'm strong 😀 I don't always feel like it!

BTW, Ana8, what made you think of this thread?
 
I have the good fortune to have never been hit by anyone, parents or partners, purely because they felt I deserved it or for no reason. Sure I received smacks as a child but they were always due to me misbehaving and anyways, my mum shouting at me was enough to make me cry...she really was terrifying to me, she didn't have to resort to smacking or hitting me very often. 😉

I admire anyone that has had the strength to suffer at the hands of a violent abuser or any abuser for matter. Kudos to you all for being strong. I have had friends that have had, and one that still does put up with domestic violence from their partner and chooses to live in fear rather than leave him, having never gone through it myself I really find it hard to understand how they put up with it but the fact that they are not admitting it happens and actually defending their partners actions, ie blaming themselves for being hit, I just really struggle with.

I guess it depends on the type of person you are and how frightened of your partner you are and I cannot make judgements when I have never been in their situation but I will admit to finding it hard to sympathise when someone allows themselves to be treated like that. I know it's not that black & white, I just can't help that think if they wanted to get out they would find some way of doing it. I guess it's because I would never put up with it and a man would only have to hit me once and I would be out the door, no looking back.
 
My brother is really abusive. He used to take knives to me. My Uncle hits me. He still does it too. I'm older now and probably could fight back and put him in a coma, but that wouldn't look so good seeing how he's a police chief in Watchung (a town near mine)
 
Jacklyn-I just wanted to check whether I was the only idiot to allow someone else to hit me(not saying you're all idiots,coz you're strong people..long story,but eventually my own fault)

Just wanted to gain some inside info..didn't want to bother anyone,sorry..
 
Your not bothering anyone hon. It's just that after dealing with as much abuse as I have, I know where questions like that come from. If you need to, feel free to PM me-I have alot of experience with all kinds of abuse-if it's not me, it's one of my close friends. I know far too many people with troubles.
 
ana8 said:
..long story,but eventually my own fault)

Just wanted to gain some inside info..didn't want to bother anyone,sorry..
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Don't EVER think that it is your fault - absolutely no-one deserves to be hit (abusively) by anyone else, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise hon! You are not an idiot either and shouldn't blame yourself, take Jacklyn's offer and talk to her, she's got her head screwed on and experience with this and I am sure she will be able to help you deal with whatever is going on right now.😉

*hugs*
 
Cordelia is right...in everyting..i only know a few friends who had abussive parents and boyfriends, but one thing i'm shure of it, you should never blame yourself of that..if it was a stronger person taht you it was nothing more tahn a coward act..so don't blame yourself, coz you're not stupid and that could happen to everyone... i already volutered in msn if you wanted someone to talk to..but for advices you should problaby go to Jacklyn.
 
Jacklyn said:
Your not bothering anyone hon. It's just that after dealing with as much abuse as I have, I know where questions like that come from. If you need to, feel free to PM me-I have alot of experience with all kinds of abuse-if it's not me, it's one of my close friends. I know far too many people with troubles.
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I second that hunny. If you need anyone to talk to I'm here as well. I've had my share of experiences and know a few people who have as well. I'm not bothered by anything you have said... or by you opening this thread. In fact, I'm glad you did. 🙂

I hope you feel ok honey. Remember, nothing that has been done to you is your fault!

*hugs*
 
I've gotten into some fist fights at school but I've never been hit by family or "friends" with my brother as an exception.
 
Thanx girls,maybe later I'll talk to one of you,but for now I've to deal with it on my own...
and Kris-I'm happy that after all there are these happy people like you without such problems as mentioned above
 
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