Here's another vent thread

Ianigsy agrees: Best not to take any chances- on a Saturday morning a lot of people like that are going to be hung over, drunk or full of drugs.
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That's what annoys me so much, it isn't just on Saturday morning, it's all the time! Seriously, I've had situations like that a lot of times, at any time of any day, with all kind of people. In the morning, at noon, at night, on my way to school, on my way to home, in the street, in a station...Once, it was even a bus driver who heavily hit on me. My mum always told me to go near the driver at "wild times of the day", well now I know even the drivers can have no work ethic.
Sometimes after school I take the tram and it happens to be testosterone-heavy, and when you look around you see bunch of men looking at you like you were meat (or like you were dressed in a indecent way).
I used to live in the fear because I just can't seem to be able to walk out without attracting pervs, and I used to not clothe myself too well because I didn't want to attract them even more. I had one of the worst experience of my life a morning going to school clothed real bad. It made me realize that it was pointless to hide my feminity or to avoid going out at a certain time. Those precautions are just useless because for some disgusting bastards, girl=meat.

And that's what drives me crazy (it's probably why my "Stay the hell away from me" is so convincing.)
 
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Marisa
ugh that is just so ick and pervy I am sorry I hate when men act like that.
That's awful- as a (mostly) straight man, I can't understand what other guys get out of behaving like that. I can only think that it occasionally gets them far enough with certain kinds of girls that they think it works with all females!
 
Ms.Trick said:
That's what annoys me so much, it isn't just on Saturday morning, it's all the time! Seriously, I've had situations like that a lot of times, at any time of any day, with all kind of people. In the morning, at noon, at night, on my way to school, on my way to home, in the street, in a station...Once, it was even a bus driver who heavily hit on me. My mum always told me to go near the driver at "wild times of the day", well now I know even the drivers can have no work ethic.
Sometimes after school I take the tram and it happens to be testosterone-heavy, and when you look around you see bunch of men looking at you like you were meat (or like you were dressed in a indecent way).
I used to live in the fear because I just can't seem to be able to walk out without attracting pervs, and I used to not clothe myself too well because I didn't want to attract them even more. I had one of the worst experience of my life a morning going to school clothed real bad. It made me realize that it was pointless to hide my feminity or to avoid going out at a certain time. Those precautions are just useless because for some disgusting bastards, girl=meat.

And that's what drives me crazy (it's probably why my "Stay the hell away from me" is so convincing.)
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This kind of behavior REALLY pisses me off too. It completely IS your basic freaking right to be able to walk down the street without being treated like that, and the real problem is that you shouldn't have to feel scared or that you need to take precautions in the first place! 😡 UGH. I hate this.
 
Ha, well, in theme with the recent vents ...

Last night at about 10:30 I get to my bus stop, just missing the bus. Next one shoulda came 15 minutes later. This late-30s guy comes up the hill, huffing about the hill he had to just walk up. He asks me how long I'd been there, and I told him there should be another one coming in 5 minutes. I pull out my book and after a minute the guy asks me what I'm reading, which was Never Let Me Go. He asks if it's a romance, I said I didn't know yet but that I think it'll have elements of it. Then he leaves me alone for a while until he asks me where I'm getting off at. I tell him I'm going to the end of the line and he says he gets off ten blocks before, or that he might "stop elsewhere and get a coffe, I don't know." Sirens in my head at that point.

Bus takes about a half an hour, which means 2 buses come at the same time. He mentions that the second one is less empty but I told him it wasn't gonna stop since the first one did. I grab a seat and he sits right beside me. So all the way I'm reading and not acknowledging him sitting there. Closer to his coffee stop he gets fidgetty and restless. Then says, "You thirsty?"

I'm like, "No, I'm really not. But thanks." He says ok, tells me to have a good night as he's getting off but doesn't face me for the first time that night.

Heebey-Jeebey's the rest of the way home. Screw MP3 players, I'll always have a book on the bus for this reason. ewrfioeojgfiawjdpfo
 
Something I wanted to vent but BB was down. So here it goes.

My dad & stepmom go once a month down to the lake where my stepmom's bro and his gf have a condo that they rent out. They go doing a weekend and they come back Sunday evening. Now that football season is over, this upcoming weekend they'll be going down to the condo.

Which means... I'll be stuck w/ my dad's friend around here. Luckily, it's not so much that Friday & Saturday will be too much of a problem b/c he'll be @ work on those days and might go out at night and stay out until midnight. It's Sunday kinda going to be hell. All I know is I'm not driving him anywhere or talking to him. I'll be avoiding him. B/c I do not want to talk to him and I don't want him to talk to me. So I'll be hiding out mostly in my room! Mental / stress wise, I'm not doing so good. The stress and everything w/ him being in this house. I just hate it.

A week or two ago on a Saturday night, I came upstairs to the main floor to do something and on the second floor where his room is, I could hear porn. Soo very disgusting.

I guess the only little bright side is my stepbrother will be home for college due to spring break.
 
Incredibly angry at my best friend. I got admitted into Law at a not-so-prestigious university in Sydney, and I was crying because I was so disappointed in myself. Thought I made it pretty obvious that I wanted a little sympathy, but instead she told me to either
'drop out' and try again next year, or settle for a considerably lesser degree (Arts) at a "better" institution.

Ignoring her, I decided to talk to my other friends instead, and asked them for a little emotional support which they gave me, for which I am eternally grateful. I thanked them in my blog, and then my first friend had the nerve to say "Well even though I didn't really help you, I think it was mean of you not to have thanked me, it upset me, why did't you thank me?"

I told her the reasons why, I told her I needed a shoulder to cry on and she simply replied with "I don't think it's right to mollycoddle people." F****** hell, she's always crying to me about how her skinhead Neo-Nazi boyfriend is treating her like dirt and I'm putting in valuable time to make her feel better, and she thinks sacrificing this for me isn't even worth it, and she has the nerve to give me her prejudicial opinions about university. I hate it when she does that, when she shoves her hypocritical attitude in my face and expects that I'll shoulder it.

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Abbeycat said:
Something I wanted to vent but BB was down. So here it goes.

My dad & stepmom go once a month down to the lake where my stepmom's bro and his gf have a condo that they rent out. They go doing a weekend and they come back Sunday evening. Now that football season is over, this upcoming weekend they'll be going down to the condo.

Which means... I'll be stuck w/ my dad's friend around here. Luckily, it's not so much that Friday & Saturday will be too much of a problem b/c he'll be @ work on those days and might go out at night and stay out until midnight. It's Sunday kinda going to be hell. All I know is I'm not driving him anywhere or talking to him. I'll be avoiding him. B/c I do not want to talk to him and I don't want him to talk to me. So I'll be hiding out mostly in my room! Mental / stress wise, I'm not doing so good. The stress and everything w/ him being in this house. I just hate it.

A week or two ago on a Saturday night, I came upstairs to the main floor to do something and on the second floor where his room is, I could hear porn. Soo very disgusting.

I guess the only little bright side is my stepbrother will be home for college due to spring break.
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This is seriously worrying. Would staying with a friend until someone gets back be an option, especially considering you're feeling uncomfortable and stressed out?
 
Abbeycat
Abbeycat
I can't. b/c I have to take care of the dogs.
Dad nagging me about wasting milk. It's NOT TRUE. 1. He never see's how much milk I put in my bowl and how much is ACTUALLY left over. But he may say it's wasting milk even then. It isn't much.

I tried to explain to him that we go through this much milk because now he is also having a bowl of cereal in the morning. So now three people use milk. It's bound to run low or get used up a little quicker.

So I'd wish he'd just understand it has NOTHING to do w/ me not wasting or wasting milk.

It's not the first time that he has nagged about it. I try to make him understand but he still doesn't get it. Either that or he nags me about this on purpose. Just to get me all irritated and worked up.😡
 
It's lovely to wake up in the morning, check tumblr, get excited to see a question in your ask box only to have it be a troll telling you you're fat and ugly -_-
 
Abbeycat
Abbeycat
That's awful.:/
Z
Zeppo
Trolls are just that: trolls. No secure person would waste their time telling someone that over the internet.
My parents want to fly me home for 2 weeks cause they are worried about possible radiation travelling over from Japan via the wind ... I'm avoiding their messages. They watch too much news. I looked it up for myself and barely see anything about it, except that my city is fine. Ugh, guess I better phone them back ... They don't like it when I say no to them for something they feel is super important and only see one side of.
 
Buffy Summers
Buffy Summers
Just try and remember it's just because they love you :)
Ughhhhhh I've been at work since 11am and still have 6 more hours to go.

12 hour shifts are just awesome aren't they. >:-(
 
How hard is it for guys to put down the toilet seat? I mean really! They are not the ones who fall into in the middle of the night when they are still half asleep. They put it up they should put it down, it is comman courtesy.
 
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msfantastico87
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November
November
YES!
I cant find my script for my meds. Im so unorganised, If I had put it in the right place after last time then I wouldnt have this problem. I have no phone credit to call the chemist either and I dont see the doc till tomorrow. I'm going to get very very ill without them.
 
Every day on the way to work, I walk passed a particular house and in the top bedroom window there are a few old school Buffy VHS box sets. But because their in the window constantly the back on the boxes have faded. It makes me want to ring the doorbell and rant at them that they shouldn't be on there. There practically rare now that DVD is about.
 
Professor Walsh
Professor Walsh
LOL. I have S5 on VHS somewhere in the attic. I've never owned a VHS-player, but could borrow from housemates. :-D
Argh! I live in an apartment building, and the owners own this building and the one next door. For months (if not a year) they have been completely renovating the building next door to sell, and are doing cosmetic renovations to my building in order to make it look better to encourage the sale. So, we have had almost constant construction noise (of varying degrees) from 8am-5pm Mon-Sat!!!!! But I can generally deal with that kind of noise. Right now they are hammering things outside. But....

Some of the workmen WHISTLE!!!!!!!!! Oh my, it drives me insane. Whistling is the most annoying, pointless, piercing, irritating, obtrusive, unnecessary, horrible noises in the world!!! 🙁
 
I love my grandfather, but I don't want to deal with him today... ugh. Couldn't he want to have dinner tomorrow when I'll have something more interesting to say?
 
I got a zit. And that doesn't make any sense, because I put things on my face so I won't get zits. I'm very confused.
 
November
November
Try being 25 and still getting them!
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