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SadieJude17

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Hi all!

Total newbie here. Not just to the boards, but to Buffy/Angel too! My parents never allowed to watch the shows as a teenager, so I discovered them as an adult (thanks to my husband)! After watching a few episodes of Buffy, I was hooked... and at the same time angry that I didn't get to watch it when it was originally broadcast ("I've missed so much!" "How did I NOT get to experience growing up with this?" "My childhood was deprived!!").

Story time!: I met James Marsters at a con before I had started watching the show. When we talked, my husband points at me and says to James: "She's never watched Buffy or Angel!"--my husband, life partner, who's supposed to have my back... he totally ratted me out! James' jaw drops in disbelief and starts telling me how amazing the shows are, and then told us a story of a man who had told him Buffy sucked because there was no way a girl could kick that much butt in real life, and how James was furious when he said that, and what he responded to him... etc. etc. While I was totally embarrassed that I was put on the spot like that (thanks, hubby), it got us some extra talk-time with James and got a nice little anecdote.

When I finished both shows, I instantly felt a huge void. I've been reading the comics now to get a little fix, but I need more! 😉 So I hope you accept me and guide me, oh wise ones--there is so much I've missed!! I need to make up for it!!
 
Hello there! 🙂

Welcome to the boards. And its really nice that you opened with a funny anecdote about JM. Lots of folks here have said that he's a nice guy and I think your story confirms it. 😀
Btw- your husband totally should've had your back...but alls well that ends well I guess. 🙂

I does sound like your childhood was deprived somewhat (I was fortunate enough that I got my Dad to watch the 1st season with me) but it sounds like you're making up for it now though!

This board is great for void-filling. Really friendly (as I am now proving to you 😉) with loads of differing POV, debates and discussions on Buffy/Angel ranging from deep philisophical discussions on the shows themes/metaphors to 'who would win in a fight'/and 'best dancer' Poll. 😛 (Not best pole-dancer...)

Nice to find somebody who's new to the show, (even today so many years on) and also likes the comics.

So, for starters who's your favourite character? That's usually an easy one.

Anyway looking forward to your fresh perspecive- have fun!
 
Thank you for your nice welcome! :-D

And yes... James is just so nice. We got his autograph and he was just so pleasant all around. It was after this that I was like "Ok. I'm not wasting any more time, let's watch!" 😛

I'm glad I came to a good place for void-filling! And yes, I can already tell it is friendly. :-D

I love discussions, especially deep philosophical ones. I like reading academic/journal articles about shows I love. I've been reading some articles in Slayage (I love how even academics are HUGE fans of the Buffyverse), mostly because I am doing research on the Buffyverse fandom for one of my courses (I am getting my Master's in Library and Information Science). I will have to interview some fellow Buffy fans about their information practices, so now that I think about it, maybe I can make some friends here who'd like to chat about that sometime?

As for my favorite character? Spike <3 --and it wasn't only because I had met James Marsters beforehand, haha! I confess I resisted (or rather, tried) my instant liking of him while watching "School Hard", because I thought I was totally biased...since I had met JM shortly before. Then I realized, holy smokes, I friggin love this character. Spike is such a well-written character....so complex... so layered... and so...so... HOT... (I am a sucker for "villains").

I believe Spike has the most fascinating character development out of everyone (of course, I acknowledge my bias on this), and I will stop here before I write an essay about how much I believe that, and maybe save it for a character thread in the board, haha. 😉

If I had to pick a second favorite (so difficult!), it would be Willow. I think I identified with her from the minute I saw her in the first episode. <3

Sorry for the long post! 😛
 
Welcome to the board - look forward to chatting to you and can't wait to hear your thoughts on certain characters and episodes.

I'm curious, what did James tell you he said to the guy after the guy said a girl couldn't kick that much butt?
 
First off, welcome to the Buffy-Boards, hope you enjoy it. 🙂 Everyone is friendly and will help you out if you have any questions.
Secondly, I think it's great that your a Spike fan and you love his character development. That's the great thing about having a favorite character. Almost everyone here could make the case that their favorite character has the best development or story arc. There's no real answer and that's what makes Buffy such a great show, we all see and connect with each character differently. It makes for great discussions, even if we all don't agree we are still respectful of other's opinions.

Lastly, I also am curious as to what James told that guy. I don't like guys that think that Buffy is just a terrible, girly vampire love story and that women can't kick ass. Clearly they have not seen the show or they would understand what a great person Buffy is (as well as other characters) and it's not because she's a woman. My roommate is like that and it really annoys me. He thought 'Innocence' was a stupid episode and hated the whole Angel turning into Angelus aspect. He refuses to watch it when it comes on T.V. So that's great that you have your husband to watch it with. Some people just don't know what good storytelling is I guess.

Also it's great that you're getting your Master's degree, congrats. Just curious as to why you chose Library and Information Science? I've seen that degree listed but never met anyone that has done it. And feel free to ask any one of us whatever Buffy related questions you have. This is such a great community and really the only place I go to, to talk Buffy.
 
Welcome to BB 😀
You won't regret becoming a member.
Everyone is so nice here.

I'm so happy people keep discovering the Buffyverse and acknowledge it's excellence.
I'm so proud to be a part of this fandom 🙂

Anyway I have a simple question for you...
Do you have a favorite ship (Spuffy,Bangel, Woz,...)?
 
Hey and welcome to the boards!
Awesome JM story and mega lol at the "my childhood was deprived!" Better late then never right 😉 Can't wait to discuss Btvs and Angel with you 🙂
 
SadieJude17
SadieJude17
Haha! So deprived! Better late than never indeed. Can't wait either!
Hi all!

Total newbie here. Not just to the boards, but to Buffy/Angel too! My parents never allowed to watch the shows as a teenager, so I discovered them as an adult (thanks to my husband)! After watching a few episodes of Buffy, I was hooked... and at the same time angry that I didn't get to watch it when it was originally broadcast ("I've missed so much!" "How did I NOT get to experience growing up with this?" "My childhood was deprived!!").

Hello and welcome to the boards. You certainly did miss out growing up but on the flip side to that you got to experience Buffy as an adult on your first viewing (hopefully spoiler free) and will therefore likely have a different take on it to most people. As everyone has said you've come to the right place. You can learn a lot here and get stuck into some meaty but friendly discussions.

As for my favorite character? Spike <3

Beware of thetopher with pitchfork in hand and an angry mob carrying flaming torches behind him 😛
 
Lastly, I also am curious as to what James told that guy. I don't like guys that think that Buffy is just a terrible, girly vampire love story and that women can't kick ass. Clearly they have not seen the show or they would understand what a great person Buffy is (as well as other characters) and it's not because she's a woman.

Anyone here about the woman who defended herself from muggers by copying moves she'd seen on Buffy?
It actually happened and gives lie to the 'fact' that women can't kick butt, and especially that its unrealistic that the women on Buffy can kick butt.
Hell, even the women who watch it can be scary, as I've found out on there boards. 😛

Yah, I'm kidding. You're all cool ladies. 🙂

Beware of thetopher with pitchfork in hand and an angry mob carrying flaming torches behind him 😛

I'm...repressing my inner-angry villager so as not to scare the new folk. 😉

Besides, I like Spike sometimes...
 
Fuffy Baith
Fuffy Baith
I didn't hear that, but that's awesome!
Welcome to the boards!

So when are you joining Google? They hire more library science grads than any other company. Some medical research labs have libraries staffed by advanced degree holders in library science where they are expected to know where to find obscure items.
 
Ooh, what a delight to open up the thread this morning and see all these replies! Thank you all for your kind welcomes!! I'm really happy to be here, tee hee!

Ok so to respond (I want to respond everything so, sorry for the long post. I didn't want to do a whole bunch of individual posts):
For YummySushiPJs and Fuffy Baith who wondered what James' response was: James said (and I am paraphrasing here) "Are you serious? I worked on the set and you should've seen the badass female stunt doubles we got. I mean, these women were triple black belt! How are you going to tell me that's unrealistic??!" He said he was furious when he heard that from him, that obviously the guy didn't know what he was talking about, and that it angers him when people dismiss the show like that, especially for such an obnoxious reason. I forgot to mention that this crazy guy was an actor from Star Trek! James wouldn't say who, of course.

Secondly, I think it's great that your a Spike fan and you love his character development. That's the great thing about having a favorite character. Almost everyone here could make the case that their favorite character has the best development or story arc. There's no real answer and that's what makes Buffy such a great show, we all see and connect with each character differently. It makes for great discussions, even if we all don't agree we are still respectful of other's opinions....
Yes! I agree that everyone can certainly make a case for their favorite character. You should witness my husband and I's discussion on this matter--he's a HUGE Angel fan and sometimes I like to poke the bear by arguing how Spike has a better character growth than Angel. I just love to get a reaction from him, haha. But that's the thing, like you said, it's such a great show and we can all identify with a character (or more!) and they are so well-written, and dimensional, there's no "right" answer. But that's what's awesome: endless analysis and discussion. I cherish respectful debate... and if there was a right answer, what would be the fun in that? lol

...Clearly they have not seen the show or they would understand what a great person Buffy is (as well as other characters) and it's not because she's a woman. My roommate is like that and it really annoys me. He thought 'Innocence' was a stupid episode and hated the whole Angel turning into Angelus aspect. He refuses to watch it when it comes on T.V. So that's great that you have your husband to watch it with. Some people just don't know what good storytelling is I guess.
Hear, hear to that! I am sorry your roommate is like that. Soooo annoying, indeed! I feel lucky that my husband is passionate about it and that he dragged me down into his addiction with him, haha!

Also it's great that you're getting your Master's degree, congrats. Just curious as to why you chose Library and Information Science? I've seen that degree listed but never met anyone that has done it. And feel free to ask any one of us whatever Buffy related questions you have. This is such a great community and really the only place I go to, to talk Buffy.
Thank you! I chose Library and Information Science because I'd like to become an archivist. I currently work at a university archives and I absolutely love it. My undergraduate was in multicultural humanities and I have research interests in popular culture, so I am hoping to be able to work in a library/archive with popular culture collections (I am even looking into motion picture archiving, which is an emerging field). And glad I am able to ask questions here... I might post a thread soon and see what I get!

Welcome to BB 😀
Anyway I have a simple question for you...
Do you have a favorite ship (Spuffy,Bangel, Woz,...)?
Oh this one is actually hard, HAHA. I was really, really invested in Spuffy (no surprise there), but that doesn't mean I didn't like Bangel (I joke with my husband that I am only "Team Angel" because I want Spike to myself). But to be honest, I think if I had to pick a favorite, it would be Willow/Tara (what's the name for that ship?). I loved Woz too, and my heart broke with that one too, but Willow/Tara, oh **tears**. Always <3

...You certainly did miss out growing up but on the flip side to that you got to experience Buffy as an adult on your first viewing (hopefully spoiler free) and will therefore likely have a different take on it to most people.
Oh yes! I am still learning ways in how my latecomer perspective differs from others who were there from the beginning. It is quite interesting!

And yes, I watched totally spoiler free! My husband was very careful about that. He was impressed that I went on so many years completely unaware of anything that went on Buffy (he delighted in my reactions). I was hooked from the first season, but I think the moment where I just became obsessed with the show was in "Passion". Two words: Jenny Calendar. My world crumbled and I was never the same after that.

Beware of thetopher with pitchfork in hand and an angry mob carrying flaming torches behind him 😛
Uh-oh, has my Spike love gotten me in trouble already? LOL 😉

Anyone here about the woman who defended herself from muggers by copying moves she'd seen on Buffy?
It actually happened and gives lie to the 'fact' that women can't kick butt, and especially that its unrealistic that the women on Buffy can kick butt.
Oh, I hadn't heard of that. That is so awesome! Women FTW!!!

I'm...repressing my inner-angry villager so as not to scare the new folk. 😉

Besides, I like Spike sometimes...
Ohhhh hahaha I think there is some history here I should catch up on? LOL I love this board already!

...Glad you found BTVS & AtS eventually, they say better late than never.
Hear, hear!!!

Welcome to the boards!

So when are you joining Google? They hire more library science grads than any other company. Some medical research labs have libraries staffed by advanced degree holders in library science where they are expected to know where to find obscure items.
Oh, I actually didn't know that! That would be cool...I could use my Google bike around the Googleplex, LOL.

I'm having so much fun already! And by the way, I LOVE how these boards are designed and love the features. Some boards are a pain sometimes in terms of usability, but this one is so easy and smooth... to their defense, it's been quite a few years since I've used a fan board lol, but still...
 
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Fuffy Baith
Fuffy Baith
Thank the staff they just re did the board a couple of weeks ago. looks great doesn't it.
Gotta say I don't know what an archivist does, but that's great that you love your job. Sounds very academic. That's funny you joke with your husband about being team Angel. That's cool that you were watching spoiler free. Yes, the death of Jenny Calendar was so great and tragic. Even though I knew that he killed her, when I saw it I was so shocked and sad.

I never realized until I joined the board how many people love Willow and Tara, the common ship term is usually Twillow. I prefer Oz personally, but that's just cause I don't really care for Tara. Even though her death is so sad.
 
Buffy Summers
Buffy Summers
I use Tillow :)
Gotta say I don't know what an archivist does, but that's great that you love your job. Sounds very academic.

Oh yes, I surely love it. In a nutshell: archivists collect and preserve materials that have long-term/historical value... basically licensed hoarding, as I call it. 😛

Ok so Twillow and Tillow are used... *takes notes*, hehe
 
Taake
Taake
licensed hoarding - lmao - you're awesome!
Ah ok got ya. That does sound pretty cool. A lot of inventory and organizational work I imagine.

Yea I think I meant Tillow. My bad.
 
SadieJude17
SadieJude17
Yup! To say the least LOL. And Tillow it is!
Welcome to the forums! So how easy/difficult did you find it to get your wife into watching Buffy?!
 
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